Someone that you don't know
Posted 4/30/08 , edited 4/30/08
Sorry to all but I don't know what the topic title should be...

but since here it is...I just only want to know your reactions about this:

What if someone you don't know comes up to you and accuses you
for certain things you're not aware you did like: Why did you made a girl cry?

Someone already gave me a good reaction about this like:

Don't react to what he says...or if you suspect somebody, don't tell to that somebody that you know that you're bothered.
Or maybe he's just jealous of you...
Or it's none of your business.

Actually I'm that somebody who did that to some other guy because of my friend.
I'm not the victim here! I'm the suspect :)



BTW...I just wanted to know your reactions since I'm bothered about the guy that I bothered.

I just wanted to ask if you were the guy...what would you think of me or what would you
actually do or reply when asked or approached like the way I did

So please tell me your reactions...I sure am stupid
Because I already knew that the guy felt he was like guilty and sorry for my friend at that time.
but then I still wanted to know others' reactions about what I did
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Posted 4/30/08
I would just think they're crazy. Plus if the person did not have the courage to come up to me and tell me this themselves. Why should I be bothered?
Posted 4/30/08
Yeah, Its nice to know that I'm normal at least...

If I were the guy (the victim) I would ignore
that's normal isn't it? to ignore someone who you don't know very well!
and he doesn't know me at all (hahaha)

Well, I also asked him why is he talking to me nicely while he doesn't even know me
and I also added this :what if I'm only making fun out of you now...

He answered this and explained it to me nicely too...
He said, its up to you wether you're just fooling me 'cause I'm not the one who will look stupid here,
but in case it's true
I wanna try to make it up to the girl and make her happy.
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You are a very nice friend ^__^. Don't worry, you're not stupid because you're not the only one who did that...I did it loads if time too, for my friends...If I was the "victim", I wouldn't ignore you, as I am a very curious person, the story will bothering me to death if I don't know who did that, or why I was accused like that xD
Posted 5/1/08

Lucky04 wrote:

You are a very nice friend ^__^. Don't worry, you're not stupid because you're not the only one who did that...I did it loads if time too, for my friends...If I was the "victim", I wouldn't ignore you, as I am a very curious person, the story will bothering me to death if I don't know who did that, or why I was accused like that xD


It bothers me because the last thing he said was : awww, I already know who you're talking about...(ofcourse it's my friend)
:(
and I asked him what's her name? hahaha!

yeah I see...maybe that guy is bored or just curious enough to reply or was shocked?

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^ I guess the guy is not that bad... I can see hes bothered too, bcoz of guilt...

or idk...
Posted 5/1/08

xdn0m wrote:

^ I guess the guy is not that bad... I can see hes bothered too, bcoz of guilt...

or idk...


Yeah, perhaps he's bothered because of guilt

Thanks for the opinion
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Posted 5/1/08
np... just dont overreact to your feelings/situation...
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Posted 5/1/08

amag35000 wrote:


Lucky04 wrote:

You are a very nice friend ^__^. Don't worry, you're not stupid because you're not the only one who did that...I did it loads if time too, for my friends...If I was the "victim", I wouldn't ignore you, as I am a very curious person, the story will bothering me to death if I don't know who did that, or why I was accused like that xD


It bothers me because the last thing he said was : awww, I already know who you're talking about...(ofcourse it's my friend)
:(
and I asked him what's her name? hahaha!

yeah I see...maybe that guy is bored or just curious enough to reply or was shocked?



Um...if that the case I guess that you should be glad for your friend, as what happened shows that he knows about her feelings xD. She doesn't have to hide them anymore because the guy already knows ^__^. Also, I think that it's a good sign that he relates immediately to your friend (fishy here >_~)...And no, maybe he wasn't bored or anything like that, it's just my personal reaction
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Everyones in love when they're 15. should the extended discussion be used for teenagers with stupid problems?
Posted 5/2/08

zurital wrote:

Everyones in love when they're 15. should the extended discussion be used for teenagers with stupid problems?


Okay yeah, sorry for that.
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Posted 5/3/08
I think you are a cool friend
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Posted 5/3/08
This is in the extended discussions?

but anyways...

there are two ways to such, for example I'm sure for most people at one point of their lives or another (or will happen) that some stranger comes up to you and asks for help (e.g: What's the time? how do I go to....*inserts place here*? Can I borrow your cell phone? Do you have a map?) And how would you react? of course, i help anyone that asks for simple things like that; so is it really a strange thing? No. it isn't. o_o;

Another way is someone that you don't know at all, just comes up and talks to you not for help - but just talk; dunno what for though. I guess it depends, 'cause a friend of mine recently had a guy asking her which school she went to out of no where on the bus, and it freaked her out, and then since she didn't tell him that guy ended up swearing at her (and she just saw that guy again yesterday; samething happened again o_o;) and thats' what I call a ...very creepy stranger...on the other hand, if you're stuck in...lets say...traffic on a Taxi, and just to pass time your taxi driver starts to talk to you about random things (nicely too)...I would give a good reaction...like why wouldn't i?
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