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Posted 7/2/08 , edited 7/2/08

lala728 wrote:

Okay so here's the thing
I'm like young and stuff and I wan't to tell my best friend but I think she is like against that kind of stuff......
And I know that "if she was really your best friend she should accept it" and whatever but.. she not used to that kind of stuff


So?

If she's your friend, then she should be able to look past your sexuality. But before jumping to any conclusions, I'd just tell her first.

I could tell my best friend was a little weirded out at first, but she told me she would get used to it for me, because she knows I've always been (and always will be) there for her. And that was about a year and a half ago. We're still best friends to this day. She even helps me when I have concerns about my sexuality or girls I liked.

I told another "friend" of mine when we were sitting on the bus and she said "Okay, well, just don't touch me" and left, and we barely ever talk anymore. She wasn't really my friend in the first place. She was, in my opinion, a whore.

Basically, it sounds like you're worried about your friend when you have no reason to be. The only reason you want to tell your friend in the first place is probably because you just feel like she should know this bit about you since you're best friends. This is about YOU, not her. You just want to feel comfortable around her.

If your friend turns out to be so ignorant that she can't even accept her best friend for who she is, then I'd go so far as to say that she was never your "best friend" in the first place. Best friends accept each other and should, no matter which way you look at it.

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Posted 10/19/08
i really like this girl but shes straight un i just cant seem to move on, hopin she'll change... i really want to tell her how i feel but i don't want to ruin our friendship. should i tell her or not?
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Posted 10/25/08
nvr mind! i told her un she dont mind (Y)
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Posted 10/26/08
I'm afraid of coming out to my mother and to most of my family because I know that they would shun me...what should I do?
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Posted 12/14/08
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with... Their family, they should understand, but if they shun you for it it's their loss, not yours... It's unfortunate that we live in a society that's so hypocritical! They claim to embrace change and that unique people are good for their ideas, but when it comes right down to it we all fear change and anything really different, we're used to being shunned for our ideas and sexuality, but the thing about being shunned is that you're never really alone when it happens... If you need to talk you can friend me...
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Posted 12/20/08

Zora_J wrote:

Don't do anything you're not comfortable with... Their family, they should understand, but if they shun you for it it's their loss, not yours... It's unfortunate that we live in a society that's so hypocritical! They claim to embrace change and that unique people are good for their ideas, but when it comes right down to it we all fear change and anything really different, we're used to being shunned for our ideas and sexuality, but the thing about being shunned is that you're never really alone when it happens... If you need to talk you can friend me...


Thanks..im gonna wait a lil bit tho..
Posted 2/12/09 , edited 10/12/09
xD all problems solwed XD
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