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phyro989 wrote:

Ok people. Lets get on subject. I am a fellow loser who wants good advice. I have done everything that you all have said and no date.

I have a world record in being shot down. 40 sometimes in a day.

I tried everything i could think of.


Skirt Chaser?
Maybe there lies you problem, you have developed a rep with the female half of your school.

Saying you look for someone: nice, good sense of humor etc.etc. you can pretty much fit anyone into that frame.

Don´t just run around your school asking everyone out, since thats just stupid, get to know a girl, NOT TOO MUCH! or you will be struck down by the friend factor , and if you feel that it might be able to go somewhere, ask her out. Important: Try to not make it a movie date, since you would`nt be able to talk to her, you wouldn´t be able to see her and it pretty much is set to end when the movie does. no?


insane_killer_bunny wrote:

my god you really have tried everything.....
if she's having lots of fights then you should be the one who makes her feel better about it. console her if you can. you know, the sappy stuff that most girls like to hear: if he can't appreciate you then he doesn't deserve you. you should have better than him.
blah blah blah.....
i think this works on most girls but i have to say this would do nothing to me.....
if you do try this method then don't ask her out directly, wait until she realises you've been there for her and perhaps in a random conversation later on hint at the fact that you like her as more than a friend.


Aaargh thats the same kind of thing we had in the Nice-Guy thread, it doesn´t work on ANY GIRL, all he would be would be the rebound, and if the girl doesent break it off on her own, without him pushing her towards the decision, she will inevitably return to the guy to give it a "second Chance" which will probably last even longer than the first courtship.


This thread made me want to hear the song : "Cause girls, just wanna have fu-uhn"

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talk to the girl and dont brag about stuff and never EVER say a lie to her.
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27 / M / H-Town
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i have been doing that. that is why i think i have a chance with her. i know she hates it when her boyfriend looks at other girls and he does it all the time with her. I can do what insane_kill_bunny said.

i will tell u all what happens.
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fr33z3r wrote:

talk to the girl and dont brag about stuff and never EVER say a lie to her.



that isn't the most ovious information i have ever gotten. I have the nickname Romieo. I am a friend to all. I am trusted by all yet no one will date me.
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phyro989 wrote:

I know one girl that would say yes if i asked her out. but the problem is she is dating someone. is that a problem?


No thats not a problem unless shes going out with one of your friends. If she likes you and would break up with her boy friend then that means she thinks she's be happier with you. But its a HUGE problem if shes going out with your friend cuz then even after they break up you'd have to talk to him about it first.
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right now if your the friend she talks don't do something to the boyfriend or you will not even be that. This is something she has to figure out for herself first so insulting him or anything else you do may backfire. Right now be the friend build up the trust and learn about her intrests that way down the road you may have your chance
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hows your appearance phyro989. girls look at hygiene, cloths, stance, and all that. its up there with personality bro.
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Ok, well your kinda right, hegotdaplanz. Only, some girls only look at clothes and others only look at hygiene. Whereas most of us look at hygiene, personality, and appearence. (clean clothes, clean hair, nice, acctually cares about you, be there for you when you need him (unless it's an internet dating kinda thing, then he'd still be there for you, just not literally) stuff like that)
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youre right thayet, but phyro seems like a good guy, so im wondering if appearance has something to do with his problem
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23 / F / I am forever Wand...
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well that could have something to do with it .....
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22 / M / the darkness
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or she just does not see him that way
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I think he's just stuck in "The Friend Zone" *Dun Dun Duuuuun* and he might have to look for girls he doesnt know then he'll have to build a relationship from scratch
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I take a 30 minute shower every morning. then i brush my teeth.
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phyro989 wrote:

no need. i am a helpless case. i have done all of that.

I think maybe that you are too focused on that portion of your life. The age you are right now is a great time to learn how to relate to women in general. This could be a great chance for you phyro you just have to be willing to see it that way. Relating is all about having common interest. The more you have your own interests the more likely you are to meet someone who is better suited to you.

Frustration must be coming off of you in waves for women in your school to subconsciously keep you at arms length! Slow down, relax, stop focusing so much on the external and get quite inside. I am sure that this may sound a little lame, but trust me, when you can calm down inside and really open your eyes to what is around you the place you are can look totally different. Better even!

Girls know that at that age they have the upper hand. All they have to do is walk a few inches to trip into a new relationship. That does not necessarily mean that they are great to be in a relationship with.

You have to look at it from both sides. Only a privileged few men have women tripping over themselves to be with them. The other males have to work much harder to have a women do more than glance at them. Why do you think that peacocks get all bent out of shape with all those crazy feathers for?

Seriously though, what exactly are you looking for in a relationship at this stage? Do you want companionship? Are you looking for a friends with benefits situation? Or are you looking for marriage? Sometimes it is better to stick with the friends route. Friends can teach you a lot about yourself and relationships if you take the time to listen. That way, when it really goes to being in a great relationship you know what to do and who you are. Because it is so easy to look into some one's eyes and forget who you are...
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I am looking for someone to hold and to be able to tell them everything that is going through my mind.

I just want to hold someone and be held by them and be told that i am loved.
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