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11tc wrote:

(note: why are ppl some much heavier when they're out of it?) and smeared whipped cream over in kinky randomness still refuses to commit to anything =(, (and before u ask commit does not = get into bed, thats not an issue... o.~ what! im european.



um.. i sense .... Statutory rape on this quote?..
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how about a different twist. I seem to attract every 15 and 16 year old emo chic but what if the girl your actually into (thats ure age) and ure been on a bunch of dates with, shared the same morbid sence of humour with, carried home when drunk (note: why are ppl some much heavier when they're out of it?) and smeared whipped cream over in kinky randomness still refuses to commit to anything =(, (and before u ask commit does not = get into bed, thats not an issue... o.~ what! im european.


Well some people just don't want to be in a relationship especially if they were friends first. Cuz sometimes when your committed everything changes, like the way you treat each other. Some people just don't like to be tied down. It's sometimes more fun to be just friends. That's how I would feel
Note: People are heavier when they're out because your carrying over 100 pounds (Not to say the person is fat or anything) But then if she was sober then she would know not to put so much weight on you.
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Lol id never ure all got twisted minds ! i mean hell if that was my thing bellus-vae then why bother to go to all the effort of carrying them home? ok digging myself a hole now >.< shes my best friend just doesnt wanna put the official stamp on anything =(
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My opinion: Keep it real. Be yourself, and don't try to impress her with things you can't do, or be someone your not. If you like them, ask them out. The worst thing that can happen is that they say no. Big freak'n deal. You'll get over it. If they ask you out and you don't like her, be real in a sincere way. She may be hurt at first but, she will get over it and move on. Girls aren't reall complicated or a problem in my eyes. Just KEEP IT REAL. My opinion.
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u kno in high school i had my share of rejections as well... and i kno quite a few guys with decent looks, smart, funny, kind, and have great personalities, but still get rejected. and i think its cuz they dont kno how to deal with girls. and that is something u just have to learn thru experience on ur own.

ollie_p is right.. u gotta sit down, take a deep breath, and figure out wut u need to do to turn things around for urself. look at the guys who always get the girls and figure out wut he has that u dont. the one thing u have the most control over is urself. u cant really control wut girls look for in a guy, but u can work hard to do ur best to improve urself.

for starters, i think the biggest problem that happens wen a guy asks out a girl is that he makes it really awkward for the girl. if you just ask out a girl, out of the blue, she'll probably be really surprised and taken off guard and then say no, just from the awkardness of the situation. if theres a girl ud really like to ask out, make it easy for her to say yes. have a really good conversation with her, where she feels comfortable with u.. make her feel good by giving her compliments and lots of attention, and drop subtle hints showing ur interested in her. and wait before asking her out so she can figure out whether or not shes interested. if shes giving u positive signals, then go for it.. if shes giving u the cold shoulder, maybe back off and save urself from another rejection.

asking out 40 girls a day is definitely a no-no. i asked out this one girl once after being rejected by another.. but then she eventually said no and she told me it was because she didnt want to be my 2nd choice... girls have their pride too u kno? they dont wanna be the consolation prize... they need to kno that they're the only one u wanna go out with. so make up ur mind on which girl u want, and focus only on getting her!

and i would forget about the girl who's already taken. those girls are off the market. i wouldnt wait for her to break up cuz theres no guarantee itll happen anytime soon. hope this helps.
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ollie_p is right.. u gotta sit down, take a deep breath, and figure out wut u need to do to turn things around for urself. look at the guys who always get the girls and figure out wut he has that u dont. the one thing u have the most control over is urself. u cant really control wut girls look for in a guy, but u can work hard to do ur best to improve urself.


Hmmm intresting statement. But shoulden't the guy just be himself? Why go about acting like the guy who gets all the girls? What happens when you try to "improve yourself" and you become fake? My opinion: Don't change for a girl. If they can't accept you, then you don't need them. Keep it real. Be yourself. Who cares if they don't like you because you don't got what the other ladies man got. My opinion.



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i totally agree...im a girl and i totally change myself 4 a guy (trust me..don't try it )
and he rele didn't do anything. all mi other friends commented me but he didn't it waz hurtful i atracted the people i didn't want to atract. in other words if she can't accept u because of u whats the use of lykin her. shes not worth it. she just can't notice that shes lucky 2 have some1 lyk u to lyk her and she just chucks it all away. what i think is u should go find someone else that lyks u 4 u!
im guessing that mi adive stinks but i tried!
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insane_killer_bunny wrote:

my god you really have tried everything.....
if she's having lots of fights then you should be the one who makes her feel better about it. console her if you can. you know, the sappy stuff that most girls like to hear: if he can't appreciate you then he doesn't deserve you. you should have better than him.
blah blah blah.....
i think this works on most girls but i have to say this would do nothing to me.....
if you do try this method then don't ask her out directly, wait until she realises you've been there for her and perhaps in a random conversation later on hint at the fact that you like her as more than a friend.


wait..but whut if her feelings aren't true?? maybe they're jus tired of fighting nd bein hurt all tha time so then they turn tuh tha person that's always there..wud that person be jus a fill-in..replacement..something that's there?
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AOH wrote:


wushukid wrote:


ollie_p is right.. u gotta sit down, take a deep breath, and figure out wut u need to do to turn things around for urself. look at the guys who always get the girls and figure out wut he has that u dont. the one thing u have the most control over is urself. u cant really control wut girls look for in a guy, but u can work hard to do ur best to improve urself.


Hmmm intresting statement. But shoulden't the guy just be himself? Why go about acting like the guy who gets all the girls? What happens when you try to "improve yourself" and you become fake? My opinion: Don't change for a girl. If they can't accept you, then you don't need them. Keep it real. Be yourself. Who cares if they don't like you because you don't got what the other ladies man got. My opinion.





its true u shouldnt try to be someone ur not. but i kno for example theres guys who are afraid of talking to girls, and thats a big reason they cant get girls. im not saying u should try to be a ladies man.. but i think ur goal should be to seriously correct ur own weaknesses wutever they may be. ppl cant grow if they just accept their weaknesses and failures and say that its the world's fault.

but u do have a point.. if u do it just for the girl's sake, then yea then its being superficial and u'll become fake.
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my palms get sweaty, i get clumsy, screw something up and end up stalking her
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mialiciously-licious wrote:

i totally agree...im a girl and i totally change myself 4 a guy (trust me..don't try it )
and he rele didn't do anything. all mi other friends commented me but he didn't it waz hurtful i atracted the people i didn't want to atract. in other words if she can't accept u because of u whats the use of lykin her. shes not worth it. she just can't notice that shes lucky 2 have some1 lyk u to lyk her and she just chucks it all away. what i think is u should go find someone else that lyks u 4 u!
im guessing that mi adive stinks but i tried!


Bravo. Nice advice.
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but if u rele want to get a girls attention u rele have to get to kno her better...try being good friends u kno be there 4 her. talk 2 her bout ur self ask her bout herself. just get to kno each other. once u kno enough u should go for it. do things she like but without totally changing ur personality do it ur way but also try doin it her way... ok i think mi advice in confusing every1
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wushukid wrote:


AOH wrote:


wushukid wrote:


ollie_p is right.. u gotta sit down, take a deep breath, and figure out wut u need to do to turn things around for urself. look at the guys who always get the girls and figure out wut he has that u dont. the one thing u have the most control over is urself. u cant really control wut girls look for in a guy, but u can work hard to do ur best to improve urself.


Hmmm intresting statement. But shoulden't the guy just be himself? Why go about acting like the guy who gets all the girls? What happens when you try to "improve yourself" and you become fake? My opinion: Don't change for a girl. If they can't accept you, then you don't need them. Keep it real. Be yourself. Who cares if they don't like you because you don't got what the other ladies man got. My opinion.





its true u shouldnt try to be someone ur not. but i kno for example theres guys who are afraid of talking to girls, and thats a big reason they cant get girls. im not saying u should try to be a ladies man.. but i think ur goal should be to seriously correct ur own weaknesses wutever they may be. ppl cant grow if they just accept their weaknesses and failures and say that its the world's fault.

but u do have a point.. if u do it just for the girl's sake, then yea then its being superficial and u'll become fake.


Now, we are on the same level.
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yo what happened to all the advice...
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hehehe. its amazing that guys can get over a rejection so fast but girls can't(sometimes)
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