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As much as i don't like most kids at the current time, who knows. Most likely i'll want to have kids in the future, if i can find myself a good and trustworthy partner/wife to have kids with.

But heck no if i'd want to have kids when i'm this young. I want to live my life, do what i want. I'm not about to let any kids hold back the plans i have right now. My parenthood can wait.
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36 / M / Norway
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No, I don´t even like them. Damn 20+ years of cost and complains. You can no longer take fun risks in your life, intead you have to play it safe, get a house, a dog, a big enough car and whatever else that life demands from you.
Na, that life is not for me. I like my freedom and I like to keep it.
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No. First of all, I hate and love kids. It's an unexplainable things. I hate annoying kids. I hate kids who whine a lot. I hate kids who are so naive that they have to touch everything. Also I don't like sissy kids. I don't like messy kids. Gah, kids annoy me.

With the kind of lifestyle I live and the kind of life I'll be living when I'm a full-fledged adult and is in the right mind of having kids, and got her self sorted out, I might have second thoughts and consider it when I get married, but my answer would be no if my husband/wife would be irresponsible.

The fast-paced life and pretty much I live like an adult since college/tafe and all partying and stuff is not suitable for having kids at all. I would like my independence, freedom and not have to adjust to anything to be not taken by a family life and kids where I don't get to have my own ambitions and never get to do what I want to do in my life.

I would like a life where I constantly travel and move around. Where the longest I could stay is around 2-5 years. Even 5 years is long enough for me to settle in a place. I don't like settling down in one place as far as I'm concerned.

The longest I've stayed living in a house was 12 years and that was in my hometown.
Posted 5/26/12
depends, if i end up being an average joe then no,but if i someone how become a millionaire then maybe.
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22 / M / Indiana
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Yess, I do. I want like 3.
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20 / F / Asia, Earth. :]
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One of my wish list is to have my the family of my own. If only there is such thing as painless delivery.
If I get a decent job and can already support somebody other than myself then that' the time I would consider having my own family.
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36 / F / Puyallup, WA
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I really love babies. I have 2 my oldest is 11 and my youngest is 2. Before you even think about having kids the first thing you should do is have a solid base. In other words a good job or good enough to cover your expenses. Kids are expensive... so there you have it. By the way I'm 34 and I had my first kid at 23 and my youngest at 32.
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36 / F / Puyallup, WA
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You know what it might sound weird but in my case it is more painful to have my period to actual labor pains. Or it might be that I have high tolerence to pain (who knows) but in my case I barely had any pain for both my kids. Like I said I might be weird.
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Absolutely, I'm going to be one of those over-bearing parents who force their failed, past dreams onto their children.
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nope
am sterile soo nope
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I personally don't want kids. I never have and never will. Want to travel and be able to have sex with my partner where ever and when ever i want. I know that might make me a selfish person, but kids just are not for me.
If I want to baby something I'll get a dog.
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18 / M / Cananananada
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I'm not planning on it. Seems too difficult to support yourself, your wife (or partner) and your kids. Although, I'm not at all opposed to marriage.
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yes, 2 kids and 200 kittens.
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21 / M / Finland, city of...
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chelapr5815 wrote:

I really love babies. I have 2 my oldest is 11 and my youngest is 2. Before you even think about having kids the first thing you should do is have a solid base. In other words a good job or good enough to cover your expenses. Kids are expensive... so there you have it. By the way I'm 34 and I had my first kid at 23 and my youngest at 32.


mmmh your right there about having a solid base,a good start up for the kids to grow up in.^^too many times have i seen people getting children way too early....makes me feel sad for them,for going trough so many hardships~~But as for kids....i dont know,i dont really feel anything special.=)
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Maybe one kid, so long as I'm happily married. It's nice to think if I kicked the bucket before my wife, she still has someone to check up on her. To take care of her. Comfort her. And someone to talk to.

I'm not worried who my kid grows up to be, as long as my kid is a good person and in a career my kid enjoys.

Otherwise, no. If I'm not happily married, I wouldn't want to take that difficult path of raising a kid.

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