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(For Girls) What type of guys are you into?
Posted 5/10/12


At least we know what to expect. So-called "manly" guys don't really live up to the hype. ^__^
Although, it's always going to be one-sided though. sad life

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Posted 5/10/12
Well, do you like gay guys because of the generalized "effeminate" behavior they display? Or are you drawn to them because they're attracted to other men and therefore it's liking what you can't have?

Because if it's the prior, you can just find a straight guy who is a bit more on the metrosexual, expressive side. It doesn't have to be one-sided.
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Posted 5/10/12
Some one that will make me his main priority, that can keep a conversation going, is spontaneous, likes to cuddle, shower me with compliments, tall, sexy deep voice, strong arms, nice ass, good hearted person, and someone that would never ever cheat... Oh! And nice full sensual kissable lips.

Is that asking for to much?
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Posted 5/10/12 , edited 5/10/12
How does it defeat any purpose when they are special and appealing to me in their own way? I just get an emotional reaction from people who look like the opposite sex, manly guys don't do this, girly girls don't do this, simple as that. But it's not like I see them as some "other" sex, they are just different and appealing to me. Can't really explain it better than that.

As for gay or straight, sexual orientation doesn't really play into it for me, since gay guys aren't necessarily more effeminate, actually out of all the ones I know, none are.
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Posted 5/10/12
Someone I can work together with as a teammate throughout life. I want us to be a unit. Iron sharpening iron.

As long as that's the foundation of our relationship, I feel like everything else will fall into place.
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Posted 5/10/12

JustineKo2 wrote:

How does it defeat any purpose when they are special and appealing to me in their own way? I just get an emotional reaction from people who look like the opposite sex, manly guys don't do this, girly girls don't do this, simple as that. But it's not like I see them as some "other" sex, they are just different and appealing to me. Can't really explain it better than that.

As for gay or straight, sexual orientation doesn't really play into it for me, since gay guys aren't necessarily more effeminate, actually out of all the ones I know, none are.


Hmm, the way I worded it did not do what I meant to say justice.

I guess the way I see it that - say if I was the one who was attracted to a guy who looks/feels/smells/sounds like a girl and dresses like a girl, why not just go for a girl?

Hmm, another example might be to say - if I said I liked dogs that acted and looked like cats, why not get a cat?

I assure you, no offence was intended on my part. I was just surprised by what seemed like a common response. Attraction towards a man who could be passed off as a woman.
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Posted 5/10/12 , edited 5/10/12

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JustineKo2 wrote:

How does it defeat any purpose when they are special and appealing to me in their own way? I just get an emotional reaction from people who look like the opposite sex, manly guys don't do this, girly girls don't do this, simple as that. But it's not like I see them as some "other" sex, they are just different and appealing to me. Can't really explain it better than that.

As for gay or straight, sexual orientation doesn't really play into it for me, since gay guys aren't necessarily more effeminate, actually out of all the ones I know, none are.


Hmm, the way I worded it did not do what I meant to say justice.

I guess the way I see it that - say if I was the one who was attracted to a guy who looks/feels/smells/sounds like a girl and dresses like a girl, why not just go for a girl?

Hmm, another example might be to say - if I said I liked dogs that acted and looked like cats, why not get a cat?

I assure you, no offence was intended on my part. I was just surprised by what seemed like a common response. Attraction towards a man who could be passed off as a woman.
Even your analogy with the dog, wouldn't that be cool to have a dog that looks and acts like a cat? What you have is not a cat, because you like dogs better, it's just a unique dog that is not like a dog either. That can't be replaced by simply getting a cat or a normal dog.

You see it's the not as it seems or is similar to something else that makes it appealing. I don't want the "something else" what I want is the "something that looks like something else."

So the question might then be is why?
Why do men tend to be attracted to women?
For you there might be emotional pull that results from seeing an attractive female.
For me there is the same emotional pull that results from seeing a guy who looks like an attractive female, much stronger than attractive people of either sex who don't look like the opposite sex.
Posted 5/10/12
I guess I should use my boyfriend as an example for this. He is 6'2", in shape, very muscular with broad shoulders, dirty blonde hair, and blue eyes. He has a stable career and very intelligent with always a positive motivation at what he does for a living. He can be a real asshole sometimes but also a sweetheart. He only keeps promises when he knows for certain he can make them come true. He is very caring to the people he is close to and loves. There is more but I don't wish to share so much because I don't like the idea of sharing him with you or you falling for him.
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Posted 5/15/12
sweet-humorous-good-bad-guys type. lol I don't really know.
Posted 5/15/12
Honestly, I set a standard higher than myself (i.e looks, personality, and other kind of shits), which is indubitably stupid. Expecting too much, more than what I should have, makes me lonely.

But, when I think about it, I believe none of you reach my standard of mediocrity anyway.
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Posted 5/15/12

llsweetsweetcupcakell wrote:

sweet-humorous-good-bad-guys type. lol I don't really know.


Don't worry, most girls (and guys) don't really know what they want, lol.
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Posted 5/15/12
I've always had a thing for guys with brown hair and blue eyes. Tall and lean. A touch on the wild side. Romantic/Cutey. And a bit of a tease. ^^
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Posted 5/16/12

Winterfells wrote:


llsweetsweetcupcakell wrote:

sweet-humorous-good-bad-guys type. lol I don't really know.


Don't worry, most girls (and guys) don't really know what they want, lol.


I'm not alone.
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Posted 5/16/12
Honest, loyal, artistic, understanding, friendly, caring. That's all, I think :))
Posted 5/17/12
The total opposite of negative traits that can be found in most guys of today :U
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