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Do you think this is disrepectful?
Posted 5/7/08
My school has a curse. For 4 years straight some kid has killed themself.

On Monday, Emily Jimenez continued the pattern. She shot herself in the head.

My school went along with the regular schedule. In gym my teacher said, if you're upset about Emily go to the auditorium and a therapist will come talk to you. I was sent their twice and had to go to counseling. I was a mess.

Here's the problem:

If we place flowers on her desk or in her locker, they take them out and throw them away. If you write "Emily you're always loved" or something of that matter, you get yelled at for "making a distraction." The teachers had a meeting the other day about that too. They were told to say what Emily did was wrong and a bad choice. Of course I was very offended. We all know that you shouldn't kill yourself when you're depressed or having problems. But they didn't have to say it. My math teacher was telling us and he didn't even call her by her name, Emily! he called her "that girl" like she was a peice of shit.

Don't you think that's disrespectful?
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Posted 5/7/08
yes... yes it is very disrespectful
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Posted 5/7/08
I guess the normal thing to do is have a memorial or at least a minutes silence,
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Posted 5/7/08
You seriously telling me all this is true?...Doom thinks you should contact the board of education, that sort of behaviour is just not on. it's not only unfair to that girls memory, but also unfair to you guys who miss her and want to pay your respects. You shouldn't have to be treated like that.

She made a mistake, no need to further insult her after she paid the price for it.
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Posted 5/7/08
I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??
Posted 5/7/08
I dont know...everyone has their opinion and i think that it was disrespectful because it was a death...now it was suicide too...so you have to see that some people think that as a waste of a life...esp if she was that young...so i think some mourning is right...but then you should realize that suicide is never the answer
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Posted 5/7/08 , edited 5/7/08
Grieve for her on your own time. There is no rule that you have to do it in school. Not to mention it's not like she was involved in an accident or anything. It's simply that she didn't have the will to live and made the choice to kill herself. If that makes you said go ahead and mourn for her but the school doesn't need to put up with that kind of shit from her decision.

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No, It's not disrespectful
Posted 5/7/08

wingdavid01 wrote:

I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??


Yes, I knew her. And she killed herself because of her family.
Posted 5/7/08
school cant just stop because someone decides to commit suicide. people die all the time , get over it
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i think so....
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Posted 5/7/08

TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:

I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??


Yes, I knew her. And she killed herself because of her family.



you needed a counselor cause your friend killed herself?
that is ridiculous, she might have been a close friend, but she
was a waste, a despicable human being for going against nature! She deserves
no mourning, there is no problem big enough that should make people kill themselves.
When they do then those people are the worst
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Posted 5/7/08
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
damn this world must've look so black and white in front of your eyes.
plus you don't even know what her family situation is like. what if her parents were abusive and that was the source of her depression??
seriously.. get your head that's buried deep inside your ass out. this world works diffrent than you think.

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anyways.. I say it's very disrespectful for them to do that.
who the fuck are the teacher to judge her like that??
now that it's already happened though. A life was lost. No matter in what way it was lost with. It's not right to prevent anybody to want to feel sad or want to say final farewell or pay tribute to her.

i'd collect petition and contact the board of education if I was you.
Posted 5/7/08

wingdavid01 wrote:


TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:

I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??


Yes, I knew her. And she killed herself because of her family.



you needed a counselor cause your friend killed herself?
that is ridiculous, she might have been a close friend, but she
was a waste, a despicable human being for going against nature! She deserves
no mourning, there is no problem big enough that should make people kill themselves.
When they do then those people are the worst


Actually I didn't want to go to counseling. I just wanted to be alone, you know try to forget about it. They dragged me and 2 other girls in the room and just started talking to us and asking us questions. I didn't answer any of them so they let me go but put me back in there...
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Posted 5/7/08

TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:


TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:

I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??


Yes, I knew her. And she killed herself because of her family.



you needed a counselor cause your friend killed herself?
that is ridiculous, she might have been a close friend, but she
was a waste, a despicable human being for going against nature! She deserves
no mourning, there is no problem big enough that should make people kill themselves.
When they do then those people are the worst


Actually I didn't want to go to counseling. I just wanted to be alone, you know try to forget about it. They dragged me and 2 other girls in the room and just started talking to us and asking us questions. I didn't answer any of them so they let me go but put me back in there...



well you should have said something like, "I didn't even like her, so, bye!" you're not
thinking about killing yourself are you?
Posted 5/7/08

wingdavid01 wrote:


TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:


TOF14 wrote:


wingdavid01 wrote:

I would call anyone that commits suicide a piece of shit, your teacher was right.
And no it is not disrespectful, one less waste in the world doesn't hurt anyone, except her family,
but seeing as she didn't care what her family felt, than she is a big piece of shit.
did you know the girl? why did you need counseling for such a trivial thing??


Yes, I knew her. And she killed herself because of her family.



you needed a counselor cause your friend killed herself?
that is ridiculous, she might have been a close friend, but she
was a waste, a despicable human being for going against nature! She deserves
no mourning, there is no problem big enough that should make people kill themselves.
When they do then those people are the worst


Actually I didn't want to go to counseling. I just wanted to be alone, you know try to forget about it. They dragged me and 2 other girls in the room and just started talking to us and asking us questions. I didn't answer any of them so they let me go but put me back in there...



well you should have said something like, "I didn't even like her, so, bye!" you're not
thinking about killing yourself are you?


No. That's not anything I would EVER consider.
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