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Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(
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Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..
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Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..


lol, thanks, but im afraid i cant talk to him... i dont think we are even friends... i just see him around school.. and we barely talk... but i DO sometimes catch him looking at me.. although its probably because im weird =(
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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..


lol, thanks, but im afraid i cant talk to him... i dont think we are even friends... i just see him around school.. and we barely talk... but i DO sometimes catch him looking at me.. although its probably because im weird =(


hahahaha...don't think that! think...erm..o..think that he glances at you becuz you are HOT..hahaha..how about that?!?! XD..lol..like the old times...if he has a locker..write a love letter to him! HAHAH
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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..


lol, thanks, but im afraid i cant talk to him... i dont think we are even friends... i just see him around school.. and we barely talk... but i DO sometimes catch him looking at me.. although its probably because im weird =(


hahahaha...don't think that! think...erm..o..think that he glances at you becuz you are HOT..hahaha..how about that?!?! XD..lol..like the old times...if he has a locker..write a love letter to him! HAHAH


LOL Hot my ass.... ahaa
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Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


Are you shy? If so, I have a suggestion. ^^

What does he like? Favorite hobbies? Favorite type of music? Think about the things you do know about him and start with that. Sometimes you don't have to say anything to initiate a conversation. Instead, you make him make the first move. Conversations can be started through subtle means such as you were probably reading a gaming magazine (if he likes video games, that is) or listening to a band he likes. He notices and asks you about it. Thus, the ice has been broken. =O

But of course, you can always start off simple by giving him quick smiles when you pass one another in the hall. Ask to borrow a pencil. A pen. Ask him for help on something you don't understand. You know, things like that. =]

Or you can just tell him how you feel straight out. Through a letter, to his face, etc. lol

Geez, I'm bad at this. Sorry, if I wasn't any help. Heh. ^^;;

By the way, bleachanime has a point; I doubt he glances at you because he thinks you're weird. And besides, since when did being weird become a bad thing? Good luck. ^_^

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ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop
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ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe
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Posted 5/13/08

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bleachanime wrote:


tereesa wrote:


bleachanime wrote:


tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..


lol, thanks, but im afraid i cant talk to him... i dont think we are even friends... i just see him around school.. and we barely talk... but i DO sometimes catch him looking at me.. although its probably because im weird =(


hahahaha...don't think that! think...erm..o..think that he glances at you becuz you are HOT..hahaha..how about that?!?! XD..lol..like the old times...if he has a locker..write a love letter to him! HAHAH


LOL Hot my ass.... ahaa


aww..girl, believe in your self, say like to the mirror like an idiot "I'M HOT, TOTALLY, i mean ..LOOK at me, boys will be stun by my beauty..hhhhahaha
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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


Are you shy? If so, I have a suggestion. ^^

What does he like? Favorite hobbies? Favorite type of music? Think about the things you do know about him and start with that. Sometimes you don't have to say anything to initiate a conversation. Instead, you make him make the first move. Conversations can be started through subtle means such as you were probably reading a gaming magazine (if he likes video games, that is) or listening to a band he likes. He notices and asks you about it. Thus, the ice has been broken. =O

But of course, you can always start off simple by giving him quick smiles when you pass one another in the hall. Ask to borrow a pencil. A pen. Ask him for help on something you don't understand. You know, things like that. =]

Or you can just tell him how you feel straight out. Through a letter, to his face, etc. lol

Geez, I'm bad at this. Sorry, if I wasn't any help. Heh. ^^;;

By the way, bleachanime has a point; I doubt he glances at you because he thinks you're weird. And besides, since when did being weird become a bad thing? Good luck. ^_^



lol, thanks ^__^ well, i DID start listening to songs he liked too.. and he just got annoyed.. lol but thanks!! =D
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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


You can either tell him how you feel or think about what could've happened if you did, its your choice. I say live life without regrets. And if he's some loser that blows you off or embarrasses you, shirk it off; smile; then just be yourself. He'll regret it later letting someone as cool as you go.


THanks ^__^
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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


haha. i have experienced that (a lot. and i haven't quite overcame that, even when we're offically hooked).. hmm, maybe you just try wht i usually do..
a) act naturally. you must do what you do normally. don't think about what other says or whatnot. be yourself, and you would be just fine.
b) muster courage to talk to him. seriously, you have to. if you're not getting yourself used to it, you will get nerves always when you're around him. (although this is the most difficult thing to do. i still don't get the hang of it)
c) if everything else fails, ask for a close friend's company. that way, you will not get overly-conscious about what's happening around you, because you've got back-up. (probably the most effective of the three)

just that. i hope that those would help you in your dillema.

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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


haha. i have experienced that (a lot. and i haven't quite overcame that, even when we're offically hooked).. hmm, maybe you just try wht i usually do..
a) act naturally. you must do what you do normally. don't think about what other says or whatnot. be yourself, and you would be just fine.
b) muster courage to talk to him. seriously, you have to. if you're not getting yourself used to it, you will get nerves always when you're around him. (although this is the most difficult thing to do. i still don't get the hang of it)
c) if everything else fails, ask for a close friend's company. that way, you will not get overly-conscious about what's happening around you, because you've got back-up. (probably the most effective of the three)

just that. i hope that those would help you in your dillema.



Thanks for the help!! I appreciate it!! ^____^
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i0luv0sweets wrote:

ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe


the problem is i have... and he still worn't leave me alone................-___-
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i0luv0sweets wrote:


bleachanime wrote:


i0luv0sweets wrote:

ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe


the problem is i have... and he still worn't leave me alone................-___-


my my this is very complicated prob!

why dont u just ignore him..he will get tired one day...if he doesnt...just kick his balls
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