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Posted 5/21/08

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ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe


the problem is i have... and he still worn't leave me alone................-___-


my my this is very complicated prob!

why dont u just ignore him..he will get tired one day...if he doesnt...just kick his balls


ignoring... is something i do... and kickign him..... i don't wanna touch him.....
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Posted 5/22/08

i0luv0sweets wrote:


missaina wrote:


i0luv0sweets wrote:


bleachanime wrote:


i0luv0sweets wrote:

ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe


the problem is i have... and he still worn't leave me alone................-___-


my my this is very complicated prob!

why dont u just ignore him..he will get tired one day...if he doesnt...just kick his balls


ignoring... is something i do... and kickign him..... i don't wanna touch him.....


hm....wow he really do like you!!! and why didnt u like him back?
Posted 5/22/08
yah I love sweets! why dun you like him back anyway??? ((based on a previous experience which led me to somewhat not be so inclined to having crushes)) okay so I had a stalker before ((scary younger than me boy)) and then he wouldn't leave me alone and stuff. some things I did

when you see him coming either turn around or not look at him at all and walk. FAST.
have a group of friends ALWAYS around you.
ignore him. like full blown ignoring.
tell your parents ((if you have a scary dad, tell him first. scary brothers and scary sisters come next)). and then the next time he shows up at your house, or the next time he calls, or the next time you see him or the next time... bah just have the oppurtunity and stuff... scare him away. teehee. <<< I didn't do this though... he went away after I did the first three and some other things.

what does he do anyway???
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he is always at my locker.... and when i ever i go somewhere he would come over and i would run....... and he's annoying i don't like him one bit!!!!!!! he's just annoying and i hate his personalioty..... soooooooo naggy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he would always just star at me............ to me he is just creepy
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Posted 5/22/08
poke his eyes! thats it..
haha....yeah having group of friends around really help....especially GUYS
Posted 5/24/08
better yet, snag yourself a boyfriend. XDD

and then poke his eyes out.

I feel sorry for the guy but what he's doing is just too much.

if it goes on, I suggest you tell a teacher or someone with higher authority.
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So ignoring him, bluntly telling him you didn't like him, and giving him the bloody obvious hint to leave you alone all have not worked.
Well, then... why not trying to befriend this poor sap? I mean, if all else fails. >.> He could turn out to be not that bad in the long run. But then again, I don't know the guy so for all I know he's obsessed. o_O

Well, if he's still a problem, Gothic up there had some pretty good ideas.



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Posted 5/31/08
he's been my friend for more than 6 years... (I'm 16 now and he's 15) I always have this problem with age differences. I can't help but like him. So basically we're childhood friends and we're neighbors. I see him everyday and when there's an occasion our families are the ones hosting it and I'm forced to go. And our families always tell each other and tease us that we would end up together. We go to different high schools though and I'm actually happy about that cause I don't have to be stressed out about being shy or red faced if I see him. But I'm also afraid that I might be too late... it was really disappointing (i guess) when I found out that he had a girl friend in 7th grade but I mean it doesn't manner now (i guess) ok.. basically I wanna know if I should tell him or hint him but just so everyone knows... I don't want a bfoyfriend.

ok yeah I think I'm finished...
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Posted 6/2/08

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I think that age is just a number... Take me for instance I had a boyfriend who's 25 when I'm 15 yrs old.. and my bro really likes older girls coz they are more mature (he said) but age really has nothing to do with ur feelings dear... Age and love is so far from each other...


u don't want a boyfriend yet?? but u love him right? the choice is totally up to you but keep this in mind better act before it is too late...
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well..... theres this guy that i've liked for over a year now. he was like one of my best guy friends, but now we've become really distant. he became more interested in basketball, n i've become more interested in the violin. we still talk to each other n see each other almost everyday, but i still cant help but miss the old days... then, when i thought things couldnt get even worser, my bestest friend starts to like him now i dont knw wat to do anymore i try n just ignore my feelings for him n help my BF get her luv, but everytime i try, i just end up liking he even more. although, things got even worser. i started to be friends wit my crush's friend. but.... there's this big problem. my crush's friend is kinda starting to like me.... although im not sure wether i like him, or my crush, or neither of them...

any advice???
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I have read the stories about how a guy gives his life up for his girl, and that is described as the ultimate form of love. I would offer a counter to that.

The ultimate form of love, is being with your love until the end. Its watching her slowly fade through an illness, and knowing there is nothing you can do, but be there for her, take care of her, and make sure she is taking her meds. Its watching and wondering everyday “is this going to be a good day? Or not”. Its facing the terror of yet another stay in the hospital, or another surgery to take another piece of her intestines out. Its hold her and stroking her hair when she cant leave the bathroom, and is losing hope again. Its telling her its going to be ok, when you know there is no cure. Its watching her hide everything until the pain is too great, for even her to manage.
Giving up your life for someone is easier than you think. It’s a flash decision, and in a perverse way its romantic. Loveing another, more than yourself is living with them, and for them, through the good times AND the bad ones. Its knowing that more bad than good will come, and finding new ways to love her anyway. Its loveing her at her worst, knowing that this is the way it will be until the illness eventually claims her life. Knowing that it will eventually leave you all alone.

And knowing it is worth it in spite of all of that.
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kyomaru411 wrote:

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I think that age is just a number... Take me for instance I had a boyfriend who's 25 when I'm 15 yrs old.. and my bro really likes older girls coz they are more mature (he said) but age really has nothing to do with ur feelings dear... Age and love is so far from each other...


u don't want a boyfriend yet?? but u love him right? the choice is totally up to you but keep this in mind better act before it is too late...


I can see your view to this... I guess it's not that I don't want a boyfriend.. it's just I guess I'm afraid to get hurt. I know it's a price I have to pay when dealing with love but I'm just so afraid of what might happen. To top it all off I analyze a lot of the things I do which gets me re-thinking.. should I confess to him or just watch from the distance since it's less painful. I even have a hard time talking naturally with him now cause I over think things and making sure I don't show that I like him. And I am afraid that it might be too late. I've had plenty of time to think of the words to say... I even have it written down but I just can't seem to go up to him and just tell him.

argh! Is there really a right time and place for something like this?! because I hope there is so that it'll just come to play when the time is right.

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kyomaru411 wrote:


dee02dee wrote:


kyomaru411 wrote:

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I think that age is just a number... Take me for instance I had a boyfriend who's 25 when I'm 15 yrs old.. and my bro really likes older girls coz they are more mature (he said) but age really has nothing to do with ur feelings dear... Age and love is so far from each other...


u don't want a boyfriend yet?? but u love him right? the choice is totally up to you but keep this in mind better act before it is too late...


I can see your view to this... I guess it's not that I don't want a boyfriend.. it's just I guess I'm afraid to get hurt. I know it's a price I have to pay when dealing with love but I'm just so afraid of what might happen. To top it all off I analyze a lot of the things I do which gets me re-thinking.. should I confess to him or just watch from the distance since it's less painful. I even have a hard time talking naturally with him now cause I over think things and making sure I don't show that I like him. And I am afraid that it might be too late. I've had plenty of time to think of the words to say... I even have it written down but I just can't seem to go up to him and just tell him.

argh! Is there really a right time and place for something like this?! because I hope there is so that it'll just come to play when the time is right.



Hi! I really want to help. So, why don't you try to confess to him? Just try. But before you do that, be sure that your ready for any outcomes. If he'll reject you, be sure to take it smoothly. You can cry and all. But don't..I repeat, DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID like commiting suicide, that's what happen most of the time. And if he accepts and tells you he loves you too, then congratulations! ^^ Everybody in the group is happy for you..... And always remember, "you won't know unless you try" and "it's never too late.."

Hope I helped! ^^
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Posted 7/3/08

i0luv0sweets wrote:


missaina wrote:


i0luv0sweets wrote:


bleachanime wrote:


i0luv0sweets wrote:

ummm... there this guy that likes me ... and he worn't leave me alone .... even though i've like rejected him 5 times... what can i do to make him stop


LUCKY!! you have a STALKER!!?! how i wish..hahha..JUSt kidding, go into the public, stop, turn , and shout

"LEAVE ME ALONE, I"M GOING TO THE OFFICE! DUDE" and slap him right across the face..lol.

or the nicer way,
"dude, i know i'm hot, but leave me alone, you are not my type..go back to your ugly group",

or the nicest way,
"Sorry, but even if you like me, it would be meaning less if i didn't like you...so, please get over it..i won't like you even if you follow me around, *smiles *fake** you'll find the girl you will grow to love when time pass..." adding ~ patting him on the shoulder or maybe hug him if he's not THAT ugly ~ or just smile fakey warmly and walk away..

lol..chose..heheh..hahah..i'm not really good that this kinda things..hehe


the problem is i have... and he still worn't leave me alone................-___-


my my this is very complicated prob!

why dont u just ignore him..he will get tired one day...if he doesnt...just kick his balls


ignoring... is something i do... and kickign him..... i don't wanna touch him.....


Hmm..you ignore him, right? Let's see....just try to talk to him, be friends with him. JUST BE FRIENDS WITH HIM, OKAY? IM NOT TELLING YOU TO BE CLOSE TO HIM TO LIKE HIME >.<.......and if you two are friends already, try to talk to him to stop following you because you like somebody (if you do like somebody) or tell him that your not ready for this kind of relationships (if you don't like anyone at the moment)

Hope I helped! ^^

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Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(

i think you shud try to be friends with one of his BFFLs then try to know him better and be friends with him
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