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Posted 7/16/08

yoshiko_inori wrote:



Monika-chan's advice is also right. And my adive to you is....do it step by step..


First, ask yourself. Do you REALLY like this guy? If you do, then there is no problem.

Second, does your friend already know about this? If not, then you should tell her. You don't have to be scared on hurting her feelings, if she is your friend, then she won't mind...but if she DO mind, then just tell her that you don't mind the competition...sometimes, it's good to have rivals in love too! ^^ and remember, don't let this thing destroy your friendship..when i say rivalry in love, you don't have to kill each other. it may help me more if i know what personality you have and you bff so that i can give you a more detailed advice...

Third, don't push the guy. Believe it or not, some guys like girls who are simple and friendly. it won't help you if you scream and squeal everytime your crush passes by...ok, some guys DO like that stuff...makes them feel like a chick magnet...anyways, to get that guy to notice you should not be hard at all! first and the most stable way is befriend him...

Fourth, the friend of your crush...that really IS troublesome...are you sure he likes you? if you are, double-check again....if he DO likes you, then..consider his feelings too. you should tell him how you feel, but in a nice way of course. be frank but nice at the same time...if you dont know how to do that, then just try to stick to the point....tell him something like this: "You know, I like (your crush's name). I know he is your friend, so....(anything you want to add)" it WILL hurt his feelings if he DO truly like you, its like he is being dumped...yeah, saying that to him is like BEING dumped....but anyways, its good to say that first, you dont want to keep feeding him with false hopes....


Next, remind yourself, to not hurt someone..do it as little as possible..if i were in your position, i could have solved the problem by now...anyways, if you think my advice is still not good enough, next time, tell me your personalities in one SIMPLE sentence first...so that i could give a much more detailed advice...






seems you really know this stuff.....i'm in to you...good job....
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Posted 7/17/08

scream_rocky wrote:


yoshiko_inori wrote:



Monika-chan's advice is also right. And my adive to you is....do it step by step..


First, ask yourself. Do you REALLY like this guy? If you do, then there is no problem.

Second, does your friend already know about this? If not, then you should tell her. You don't have to be scared on hurting her feelings, if she is your friend, then she won't mind...but if she DO mind, then just tell her that you don't mind the competition...sometimes, it's good to have rivals in love too! ^^ and remember, don't let this thing destroy your friendship..when i say rivalry in love, you don't have to kill each other. it may help me more if i know what personality you have and you bff so that i can give you a more detailed advice...

Third, don't push the guy. Believe it or not, some guys like girls who are simple and friendly. it won't help you if you scream and squeal everytime your crush passes by...ok, some guys DO like that stuff...makes them feel like a chick magnet...anyways, to get that guy to notice you should not be hard at all! first and the most stable way is befriend him...

Fourth, the friend of your crush...that really IS troublesome...are you sure he likes you? if you are, double-check again....if he DO likes you, then..consider his feelings too. you should tell him how you feel, but in a nice way of course. be frank but nice at the same time...if you dont know how to do that, then just try to stick to the point....tell him something like this: "You know, I like (your crush's name). I know he is your friend, so....(anything you want to add)" it WILL hurt his feelings if he DO truly like you, its like he is being dumped...yeah, saying that to him is like BEING dumped....but anyways, its good to say that first, you dont want to keep feeding him with false hopes....


Next, remind yourself, to not hurt someone..do it as little as possible..if i were in your position, i could have solved the problem by now...anyways, if you think my advice is still not good enough, next time, tell me your personalities in one SIMPLE sentence first...so that i could give a much more detailed advice...






seems you really know this stuff.....i'm in to you...good job....


although i only had 2 crushes in my entire life.....i know how to give advices...since all my bffs have so many crushes....my first bff was a boy magnet, my second bff had soooo many crushes AT THE SAME TIME.....
and i also read a lot of love story mangas....so im kinda used to it....
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Posted 7/20/08
well i see.............
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Posted 8/19/08

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tereesa wrote:

Well... i happen to like this guy art school. And i always embarrass myself when i am around him. My face gets red very easily, so whenever i am around him i get red faced and dont act like myself =( what should i doo?? he probably thinks im a loser =(


hahaha...it's fine, tho..you shouldn't take my option becuz i'm only a little kid...but try to be calm, tell jokes and laugh with him , becuz if you laugh and blush, it wouldn't be that knowable...or..think of him as a close friend, smile and just talk to him. maybe hold something to make your hands less nervous. maybe he likes you back, you won't know what he thinks of you until u talk to him..


lol, thanks, but im afraid i cant talk to him... i dont think we are even friends... i just see him around school.. and we barely talk... but i DO sometimes catch him looking at me.. although its probably because im weird =(


well if you yu see him looking at yu again .....maybe he does like yu ..... cause thats what i did when i was in skol and then i finally i asked HER out and we have been together for 6 months now so just dont lose hope that he likes yu back becausehe might love yu more than yu love him ... hahah
Posted 11/10/08
In in a situation where I'm alright with her with someone else but she's in a position where her current lifestyle and relationships are unhealthy and will hurt her later on. I don't want to see her walk down that path but I'm not sure leaving her alone is exactly the right thing to do since she cannot even stand on her own two feet, figuratively. As of now we both have this I love her but she doesn't love me that way sort of deal. She's not necessarily in need of help but the way she's living it might not end well. She doesn't want to change and almost all her friends are just enablers [even the boyfriend] , which pisses me off when they gang up on me for doing the right thing. I could go into detail but I don't want to get all fired up. Any pointers, because right now I'd say my brain is about to explode and my heart is ready to give up but can't. -_-
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