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Why do Girls love YAOI?.. Why do some boys Hate it??
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Posted 5/8/08
It makes me weird to watch yaoi though..

I still can't stand it..
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its a girl thing pare... so its for you to find out i guess. haha.
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wow so many yaoi thread....
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Posted 5/8/08

roby55 wrote:

wow so many yaoi thread....


i'm against yaoi though..
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poginggwapo wrote:


roby55 wrote:

wow so many yaoi thread....


i'm against yaoi though..


lol
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Posted 5/8/08
yaoi is so popular these few days
must be because od junjou romantica...
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I...have no idea why we love it...It's the same thing as guys being facinated with lesbians. The exact same thing. Theres something innately hot about two guys making out...I don't know why, there just is. But just as some guys 'say' they don't like two girls together, some girls are the same way. It's a matter of who you're attracted to I guess, the fact that most men don't like the idea of two guys together and that most girls don't like two girls together is the other side of the same issue. If you're not attracted to guys then it makes sense that you wouldn't like yaoi and likewise the otherside of the coin with females.

Personally, I don't think it's a matter of being 'against' something, I think that makes a person seem...somewhat immature to me I guess. I'm not trying to insult you or anything but it's better to say that you don't prefer something rather than say you're against it as if you're going to persecute every person who is into it. It's just a pet peeve of mine, since I know way too many people who are like that, nothing to you personally.
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Posted 5/8/08
yaoi are for girls and gays! dont have plans to watch yaoi anime haahaha!
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I think the question should be "Why do most boys hate it" not "Why do some boys hate it" well that's just me though I don't know about others. but I really hate Yaoi because I find it disturbing
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Cavalirere wrote:

I...have no idea why we love it...It's the same thing as guys being facinated with lesbians. The exact same thing. Theres something innately hot about two guys making out...I don't know why, there just is. But just as some guys 'say' they don't like two girls together, some girls are the same way. It's a matter of who you're attracted to I guess, the fact that most men don't like the idea of two guys together and that most girls don't like two girls together is the other side of the same issue. If you're not attracted to guys then it makes sense that you wouldn't like yaoi and likewise the otherside of the coin with females.

Personally, I don't think it's a matter of being 'against' something, I think that makes a person seem...somewhat immature to me I guess. I'm not trying to insult you or anything but it's better to say that you don't prefer something rather than say you're against it as if you're going to persecute every person who is into it. It's just a pet peeve of mine, since I know way too many people who are like that, nothing to you personally.


I agree with you on this point.. I guess the basis of the question comes from the fact that psychologists and modern science tells us that men are "visual" creatures by nature and respond to visual stimulus while women on the other hand are "emotional" beings, thus responding to a more profound and deeper stimulus. In that aspect I can understand why women would respond to Yaoi since its the emotional attachment that they look for more then the visual aspect like men do in Yuri...

Edit: in that aspect it is also easy to undestand the opposite side of the coin. Why men hate Yaoi (well most anyways) is because there is no visual stimulus, and the same can be said for women about Yuri since they might feel that there isn't any emotional aspect to the story..
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same reason why guys like yuri <_<;
Posted 5/8/08

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same reason why guys like yuri <_<;


Agreed. girls often dont like yuri as much as yaoi, and guys viceversa. not always but yea.
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It's nice to see some intelligent points bought up for once about this issue. GooMy hats off to you Tazman and Cavalirere
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Posted 5/8/08

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Cavalirere wrote:

I...have no idea why we love it...It's the same thing as guys being facinated with lesbians. The exact same thing. Theres something innately hot about two guys making out...I don't know why, there just is. But just as some guys 'say' they don't like two girls together, some girls are the same way. It's a matter of who you're attracted to I guess, the fact that most men don't like the idea of two guys together and that most girls don't like two girls together is the other side of the same issue. If you're not attracted to guys then it makes sense that you wouldn't like yaoi and likewise the otherside of the coin with females.

Personally, I don't think it's a matter of being 'against' something, I think that makes a person seem...somewhat immature to me I guess. I'm not trying to insult you or anything but it's better to say that you don't prefer something rather than say you're against it as if you're going to persecute every person who is into it. It's just a pet peeve of mine, since I know way too many people who are like that, nothing to you personally.


I agree with you on this point.. I guess the basis of the question comes from the fact that psychologists and modern science tells us that men are "visual" creatures by nature and respond to visual stimulus while women on the other hand are "emotional" beings, thus responding to a more profound and deeper stimulus. In that aspect I can understand why women would respond to Yaoi since its the emotional attachment that they look for more then the visual aspect like men do in Yuri...

Edit: in that aspect it is also easy to undestand the opposite side of the coin. Why men hate Yaoi (well most anyways) is because there is no visual stimulus, and the same can be said for women about Yuri since they might feel that there isn't any emotional aspect to the story..




And I agree with you and that point as well. It's true that the more emotional the story is, the more facinating we find it. Though...if it was just pr0n then most of the time it's alright too...lol

It helps if you're able to see both sides of the coin...I think...for alot of people, when they watch or read something, they tend to put themselves into the position of the characters they're looking at. People always identify with at least one character and when you're doing that, if the character does something that you wouldn't do it then disturbs you. For a male to put himself in the position of a male character and then to have that male character turn around and make out with the nearest guy, the male watching finds himself disturbed because he would be disgusted to ever do that himself. Likewise with females.
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If you don't like it, don't watch it. And don't generalize. Please keep your imature opinion to yourself.
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