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Posted 5/15/08
Uh I'm cool with it if she insisted and treat her like a roomate but I don't know if that's allowed in my country because it's considered a disgrace .
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27 / M / USA
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Posted 5/15/08
I lived with my current girl when I was 16. I would still take responsibility if she was pregnant.
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Posted 5/21/08 , edited 5/21/08
I do not like to have a live in partner. What if your live in partner has more than one?
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Posted 5/21/08

sugar_princess wrote:

sum people should get married
cuz u get half of everything after the divorce but people like oprah shouldnt


isnt Oprah a closet lesbian?
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25 / F / ¸.•*¨*`•.¸☆Norway
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Posted 5/21/08
^CR fight.. YAY~~


Live in partners first.. then if you get along well, take it to the church...
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23 / F / Asia
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Posted 5/21/08
the reason people think LIVE-IN is wrong is because

A. They can easily have sex [which is considered disgraceful in my religion]

that's mainly it........

I'm catholic. My religion fuss over virginity as something PURE and can only be taken by the person meant for you.

Once you've done it...you're not considered pure...however, if you're married and then you lose it...you're considered as someone pure in heart because you follow the rule of virginity...
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THE GOODS of live-in

1. you find out their home habits
2. you get used to having them around 24/7

THE BADS of live-in

1. the relationship can end easily without any legal reason
2. once the flaws are there...the partner can leave in a snap
3. temptation of intercourse [c'mon, you know what i mean...] <<consider this good or whatever.....
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I'd live in with him as long as we are ENGAGED. once we are engaged, we can live together...

However, the sex can wait until the wedding night...a-duh!
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Posted 5/21/08
I could live in either really, married or life partner. Sure you get married to show commitment and take responsibility for certain things, but if you are truely in love with your life partner, you'd do all that anyway, so I don't see why it should matter. Meh, unless my gf is truely passionate about it, I'd do ok keeping her as a life partner, though in the future I may want to get married instead, who knows.
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it's a good idea to live with your partner to see if you can ACTUALLY live together, if you drive each other insane dont even bother, if you're going to sleep together always use protection, should she get pregnant, make her get an abortion, chances are the kid hasnt actually achieved consciousness yet and so it is the equivalent of smashing a vegetable.... until you get married then if she gets pregnant then let her have the kid, marriages that arent so much a choice as a responsibility always fail.....
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Posted 5/21/08
Actually, living together before marriage is kinda seen as a sin in the Catholic Church. It opens the door to pre-marital sex, a big no-no in the church. It also eventually leads to one side of the relationship being like a slave to the other. For example: Girl moves in with guy, cooks and cleans for guy, and they also fuck a lot. Kinda like a free hooker/maid. It could be the other way around too, though. Live-in couples also have a much higher divorce rate.
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Posted 5/21/08

aluminar wrote:

it's a good idea to live with your partner to see if you can ACTUALLY live together, if you drive each other insane dont even bother, if you're going to sleep together always use protection, should she get pregnant, make her get an abortion, chances are the kid hasnt actually achieved consciousness yet and so it is the equivalent of smashing a vegetable.... until you get married then if she gets pregnant then let her have the kid, marriages that arent so much a choice as a responsibility always fail.....


Equivalent to smashing a vegetable? Do you have a fucking soul? A life begins as soon as a child is conceived dumbass. You're only 14, so what the fuck do you know about marriage and family anyway? I read you're profile too, and let me tell you, you are one horrible person.
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Posted 5/21/08 , edited 5/21/08
Live - in partner scenario:

Woman A - "I'm pregnant"

Man A - SURPRISE ABORTION!

<<FALCON PUNCH>>


Married Couple Scenario:

Woman B - "I'm pregnant."

Man B - SURPRISE ABORTION!

<<FALCON PUNCH>>


Fixed.
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23 / M / yesterday
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Posted 5/21/08 , edited 5/21/08

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aluminar wrote:

it's a good idea to live with your partner to see if you can ACTUALLY live together, if you drive each other insane dont even bother, if you're going to sleep together always use protection, should she get pregnant, make her get an abortion, chances are the kid hasnt actually achieved consciousness yet and so it is the equivalent of smashing a vegetable.... until you get married then if she gets pregnant then let her have the kid, marriages that arent so much a choice as a responsibility always fail.....


Equivalent to smashing a vegetable? Do you have a fucking soul? A life begins as soon as a child is conceived dumbass. You're only 14, so what the fuck do you know about marriage and family anyway? I read you're profile too, and let me tell you, you are one horrible person.

-yes in fact it actually is the equivalent of smashing a vegetable, it IS alive but if it hasn't achieved consciousness it is a plant, quite literally a plant, before it achieves consciousness, it is no better than a tree, and we have no remorse clear cutting them down.....

-maybe I dont, but quite frankly I dont really care either way....

-LIFE is, but THOUGHT isn't, again life without the ability to think is a plant.....

-what does age matter? my parents are crazy in love and thats because they chose to get married out of choice, not obligation, I have a younger brother, I know a lot about family, it has it's ups and downs, I'm well aware of that....

-that's my opinion, it doesnt have to be yours, it does not violate freedom of speech by purposely interfering with anyone else's opinion, and I have every right to say it, and should never have consequences because of it.... unlike you, who is deliberately trying to interfere with my opinion, which directly violates freedom of speech.....

-I'm not a horrible person, I just speak my mind, actually people who are truly horrible are those that act innocent, we all know nobody is.... all of us actually have opinions that would make us seem like awful people just the "horrible people" like me choose to speak them, while the "good people" dont.....


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Posted 5/21/08
Saying the vows and having the ceremony certainly do not guarantee that the relationship will remain strong, given the high divorce rate. Right now, I'm married to my girlfriend in my mind as she is to me in hers, and we don't feel we need to go through marriage. This is not to say we won't, but it's just not a priority. (We do live together as well.)

I should add that staying with someone because of an oath/contract is not really the key to a successful relationship, and the difficulties of getting a divorce by no means outweigh the advantages of having one for some people.
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Posted 5/21/08 , edited 5/21/08

gratefuldead68 wrote:


aluminar wrote:

it's a good idea to live with your partner to see if you can ACTUALLY live together, if you drive each other insane dont even bother, if you're going to sleep together always use protection, should she get pregnant, make her get an abortion, chances are the kid hasnt actually achieved consciousness yet and so it is the equivalent of smashing a vegetable.... until you get married then if she gets pregnant then let her have the kid, marriages that arent so much a choice as a responsibility always fail.....


Equivalent to smashing a vegetable? Do you have a fucking soul? A life begins as soon as a child is conceived dumbass. You're only 14, so what the fuck do you know about marriage and family anyway? I read you're profile too, and let me tell you, you are one horrible person.


Let's get your arguments straight:

1.) Early abortions are not the equivalent to smashing vegetables
2.) aluminar does not have a soul/is not a good person because of his belief
3.) aluminar is a "dumbass" for not believing that human life begins at conception
4.) The age of 14 is insufficient for understanding marriage and family, which somehow makes him unable to speak of abortion; being 4 years older, however, is sufficient
5.) aluminar is a horrible person

Let's toss out 2, 5, and the first part of 3, since they're all pointless rhetoric. I also think I can dismiss 4 on the grounds of hypocrisy and irrelevancy to topic.

So we're left with discussing whether or not early abortions are the equivalent to smashing vegetables and whether or not human life does begin at conception, which are basically the same issue. Until you provide a definition for human life, you're really not making an argument at all. Perhaps you believe a soul is created in or issued to the child at conception, but I ask you to prove to me that this soul exists if that is the case. If it is not a matter of a soul, aluminar's analogy is accurate insofar as it is merely a cell or collection thereof.

Basically, your entire post was useless. The single argument you actually made was grounded on a personal (possibly religious) definition of human life. I would hope that an 18-year-old would be aware of other views in the world and not immediately dismiss opposing ones as dumb, soulless, and horrible solely on the grounds that they are not in agreement with his own unproven position. Perhaps you will think about what you write before posting it next time.
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Posted 5/21/08 , edited 5/21/08

voidlugiron wrote:

Live - in partner scenario:

Woman A - "I'm pregnant"

Man A - SURPRISE ABORTION!

<<FALCON PUNCH>>


Married Couple Scenario:

Woman B - "I'm pregnant."

Man B - SURPRISE ABORTION!

<<FALCON PUNCH>>


Fixed.




it just seemed to fit...
seriously though..i don't believe in abortion
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