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Posted 6/12/08

chinky_sonny wrote:


sh1ranu1 wrote:

i once had a boyfriend for 4 years before we moved in together, it was great, love was strong, but after 2 more years it just somehow went wrong, and we went our separate ways . like life moved him that way and life moved me this way you know ? good thing i didnt marry him, because then id be divorced right about now >.<


i hope you had no kids


no i didnt, which is a relief cause that would have really sucked to separate with kids . its always bad for the kids emotionally even after they are grown .

hhmmm thats probably why i hesitate to consider starting a family knowing it can go wrong at any moment >.<
Posted 6/12/08
Marriage isn't for everyone and like some of you previously stated it all has to do with how committed you are. I think couples should try living together before getting married. That way you really get to know your significant other.
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Posted 6/12/08
i dont want to get married, i think the extra pressure alot of the time splits the couples up because it for one makes them feel traped and other reasons.
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Posted 6/12/08

YojimboMifune wrote:

woman: im pregnant!
man:fuck this shit! im leaving you!

man:im pregnant!
woman: lol wut?


hahaha lol, how? o,o
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Posted 6/13/08

sh1ranu1 wrote:


chinky_sonny wrote:


sh1ranu1 wrote:

i once had a boyfriend for 4 years before we moved in together, it was great, love was strong, but after 2 more years it just somehow went wrong, and we went our separate ways . like life moved him that way and life moved me this way you know ? good thing i didnt marry him, because then id be divorced right about now >.<


i hope you had no kids


no i didnt, which is a relief cause that would have really sucked to separate with kids . its always bad for the kids emotionally even after they are grown .

hhmmm thats probably why i hesitate to consider starting a family knowing it can go wrong at any moment >.<


to have no kids was your good point but should love be stable enough then a baby is the measure more like a growing love

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Posted 6/14/08
ppl get married so tat they get more protection in relation to law like when the other party died.. his wife gets more than a partner... is like commitment u giv to ur other half
Posted 6/28/08
i guess living together is fine to some people...but ideally you would get married it makes the love more serious and strong...but then again thats just me
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Posted 8/6/08
there's nothing wrong in having a "live in partner"

if, your not yet prepared for marriage, then don' get married.
just stay with your partner, if you want to. no big deal..

and "live in" relationships is also favorable to the ladies.
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Posted 8/6/08
Marriage shows commitment I suppose, that's how I want it done imo.
Posted 8/6/08
i think when ur dating someone that's the perfect time to know him.you dont have to live in together just to see if he is ur right match.because by then you already lost your virginity.....everything and then find out that he is not the worthy one.well in short i still believe in marriage before sex
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Posted 8/30/08
I think that couples should live in first before getting married... therefore, you'd get to know your partner more before you get married and find out that it was a BIG mistake.
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Posted 9/21/08

xOxcinderellaxOx wrote:

I think that couples should live in first before getting married... therefore, you'd get to know your partner more before you get married and find out that it was a BIG mistake.


Others found out the big mistake after 5 years
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Posted 9/21/08
Marriage is a contract, a promise, and a commitment for a couple to make. If you dont want the responsibilty that comes with it, then you shouldnt reap the rewards that can grow out of it either.
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Posted 9/24/08

Putter wrote:


xOxcinderellaxOx wrote:

I think that couples should live in first before getting married... therefore, you'd get to know your partner more before you get married and find out that it was a BIG mistake.


Others found out the big mistake after 5 years


LOL! I'm getting the idea that you know that person VERY well..
Posted 9/24/08
i think that living with someone is like a test of your relationship....and i really dont see much wrong with that.....and if you really love each other and see that living together hasnt ruined our relationship...then you can like make it "official" and get married
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