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whats happened to guys these days?
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Posted 5/9/08 , edited 5/9/08
Let's see, well, I guess, when us girls see a guy that is well-groomed, has a really good sense of style, or has nice hair, or is "handsome looking" or a "pretty boy," we assume that he must be a really "caring, sensitive" person.
If he actually takes the time to take care of himself or isn't afraid to say things that challege the norm for "guy speech", ie, commenting if somethiung is cute, then he should be someone who is caring and thoughtful inside. It goes back to the idea that your dress sense or outward appearance reflects your manner or values in a way. If we see a guy who looks rough and maybe even talks rough, we'll naturally think that they wouldn't be caring enough to us if we dated them. And doesn't every girl want a guy that would treat them right?
And also since girls like to take care of themselves well, wouldn't it make sense that as a girl I'd like to hang around guys who take care of themselves almost as well as I do? I think if girls were given a chance they'd give men a total makeover to suit their ideal image of a guy but the same goes for boys to girls





Posted 5/9/08 , edited 5/9/08
Pussified. That's a new one.

I can't stand the macho type of guy who feels the need to always state that he's a true man because he doesn't do this and that, but I also can't stand a guy who can't stand up for himself. If anything, I just like a guy that can take care of himself but be sensitive to those around him and not care what anybody says about the way he's perceived by others.
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i dont know........................................
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voidlugiron wrote:

Would this correlate with the whole "metrosexual" thing?



thats how my brother put it but i couldn't think of the right prefix.
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Sorry i'm gay



alot of ppl arent gonna click on the red box hahahah so your gonna be stuck with that statement in thier eyes
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Well, imo, i like guys who take the time to care for themselves. No one likes a slob. But honestly it's all in the personality, not so much looks. Confident guys get more girls. Unfortunately what i noticed is that, now-a-days, guys either get pussified (lovely word by the way ) or retardedly agressive and macho ... neither is attractive.
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whats wrong in wearing pink???its just a color matter...what is important is in the inside of every man...you know what it is..
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moratorium wrote:


thegodcode wrote:

Sorry i'm gay



alot of ppl arent gonna click on the red box hahahah so your gonna be stuck with that statement in thier eyes


sorry i clicked it.. i think its the second time for me to click a spoiler..
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greenlee wrote:

O.k. heres the deal. Lately it seems that alot of guys are becoming pussified. and whats worse is that it seems that all girls are hung up on this look. there's even a thread about one of these panzies, my brother tells me that i need to change if i want a woman, but i refuse because i am a man. I like to sweat when i work, i like to get my hands dirty and i dont mind the scares i get from it. the only time i use a mirror is to shave and brush my teeth, i don't wear makeup of any kind, but i will wear a pink shirt because if its man enough for John Wayne by god its man enough for me.

so here's the question.
Men are you alright with this pussification?
and
Weman why do you find it so attractive?


Lol. I don't see why guys try to be more womanly -_-" Not all girls like that pussy shit.

Even though I got liberated, it's still very complicated. I say to men, "Okay, pretend you're a burglar and you've broken in here and you throw me down on the bed and make me suck your cock!" And they're horrified. It goes against all they've recently been taught. "No, no it would degrade you!" Exactly. Degrade me when I ask you to.
-Lisa Palac

Time to go back to the old days~
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76 / M / Benton, Arkansas
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artgeek707 wrote:


greenlee wrote:

O.k. heres the deal. Lately it seems that alot of guys are becoming pussified. and whats worse is that it seems that all girls are hung up on this look. there's even a thread about one of these panzies, my brother tells me that i need to change if i want a woman, but i refuse because i am a man. I like to sweat when i work, i like to get my hands dirty and i dont mind the scares i get from it. the only time i use a mirror is to shave and brush my teeth, i don't wear makeup of any kind, but i will wear a pink shirt because if its man enough for John Wayne by god its man enough for me.

so here's the question.
Men are you alright with this pussification?
and
Weman why do you find it so attractive?


why do you care and can you elaborate on what you mean. Give examples?
oh and I prefer a sensitive and open guy to a testosterone pumped he-man because I personally feel they'd understand me better and actually listen to me


alright an example: my brothers best friend he doesn't like to sweat or get dirty cause it makes him feel "sticky" he spends more time in front of the mirror than my ex-girlfriend. he uses various types of lotion to keep his hands soft.and the way he carries himself is genrally girly, but he is not gay.
and the reason it gets on my nerves i guess is the same reason why most prissy girls don't useually get along with tomboys. they are opisites that have little to nothin in common. to me that kinda guy seems unreliable and theres no common ground or anything to relate too
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pussification? that is a new term to me... welll I like looking clean and good, with no scars...personally of course.. I don't think many guys think "Oh I got to have a clean face.. I got to look very neat and clean... becuase the girls like it" I mean some do think like that, but the ones that do are probabley not neat and clean by nature.. so they gotta try REAL hard. But the naturals are probably guys that kinda are in love with themselves. As to why girls like "pussification" guys.. I guess it's cuase we generally look more presentable then guys that looks like they never took a bath.. ever notice how girls tend to hold on to thier bfs like a purse (showing him off).. well I think the concept is similar.. , but the bottom line is, if you like that girl enough you should look good for her, cuase that's what girls do for guys to, the act is mutual
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SadisticLust wrote:

Wow. Not another brainless narcissist saying "I'm manly because..."

It just sound like you're showing off, and you are jealous of the "pussified" men (because females prefer them more).


hey im not a narcissist! have been called brainless enough to know theres some truth to it, and im not showing off if i was i would have a pic. of me with my shirt off or something like you see some guys do. and im not sayin i eat lightning and crap thunder either, i was just raised that "a man is proud to work his butt off all day to earn what he has from his own sweat."(my grandpa's words) and the thing that pisses me off more than anything is that nearly all of the guys that are "metrosexual" aka "pussified" look down on me cause im too old fasion or out of date. im told to be more "open minded" about that style while they criticize me. so my distaste for them does have a reason.
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I don't mind a guy being pretty, in fact I would rather have a cross dresser than a macho man any day. But if he freaks out because of a spider, snake, etc. without good reason (ie. it really was a pretty creepy spider) then thats a little too much. I don't want to have to take care of a guy.
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27 / F / Michigan
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i like more feminine guys because they are more caring and they are going to listen to you and be there for you. they're just more like me. i really dont' like macho guys because it seems like, to me this is just my opinion, that guys that work so hard in trying to show people how much of a man they are are just self-conscious. i want a guy who is willing to be open
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76 / M / Singapore
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its about striking a balance, not only being a man, but more of being an ideal man
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