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24 / M / Edison, NJ(where...
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Posted 1/30/07
i've seen this happen before. maybe you're too close to her and she'd just feel awkward going out with you because you already know each other so well?
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34 / F / pwning the world.
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Posted 1/30/07
either.. a) she thinks your ugly
b) only wants to be friends
c) likes another guy
d) never thought of you that way

you can... a) put some acne cream on
b) stay with her and eventually she might like you
c) kill the other guy
d) do the same thing as b.
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wow im da same situation as u xcept da girl i like dosent hav glasses. Anyways its like wat bellus-vae siad love grows slowly (sorry if i spelled ur name wrong). its been 2 months dat she knows i like her and not much has changed xcept we talk less than b4 but not alot less. So just be patient and who knows maybe someone better will come along
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34 / M / East Coast, USA
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Tough stuff with that rejection. If you really want her you need to find something stupid to get mad at her about. Make a big deal about it one night then stop talking to her all together for a while. If she cares at all she'll feel guilty about it. Also girls want what they can't have(same for guys). If you won't talk to her, it'll make her want to talk to you more and possibly re-evaluate her feelings for you. It requires good timing and proper execution.

By the way, all this is void if she's just friends with you cause she's being nice. If there's not even the slightest bit of feelings for you she won't bother chasing after you and consider it a relief that you've stopped bothering her. If that's the case, you should be moving on anyway.
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If she does reject you, then you know what you gotta do dude, fart in her face! then throw a pie at her and run away.
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26 / M / Los Angeles, Alabama
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just continue being friend with her, u can never have enough friends in life. There are tons of girls out there for you, enjoy being 17...
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snckpack wrote:

Alright theres this girl i like and shes one of my friends.I told her but she told me she doesnt like me like that.What should i do?I mean i cant stop thinking about her and in my minds eye shes perfect.She has beautiful eyes and the way she wears her glasses at the end of her nose and when she smiles at me its the greatest feeling in the world AND she likes anime.I...*sigh* I just dont know what to do and its killin me inside.


Dude, move on. If she likes you later on, that's great, but right now she doesn't so give her space and maybe she'll like you later. That's about the best advice anyone can give.
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MYUSERNAMEXXX wrote:

I’ve seen this happen before. Maybe you're too close to her and she'd just feel awkward going out with you because you already know each other so well?


I agree.

The problem for you is, you can't change free will. Nor can you control what she thinks. It troublesome, but the only hope you have if what your doing now doesn’t work for her, is to explore some new avenues. I mean, you don't have to change your self but go out and try new things and stretch your comfort zone. Find new things that you enjoy and you will find with every new activity that you start you will slightly develop and change. It’s just a fact of life, people change with experience.
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34 / M / East Coast, USA
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brendonx wrote:
The problem for you is, you can't change free will. Nor can you control what she thinks. It troublesome, but the only hope you have if what your doing now doesn’t work for her, is to explore some new avenues. I mean, you don't have to change your self but go out and try new things and stretch your comfort zone. Find new things that you enjoy and you will find with every new activity that you start you will slightly develop and change. It’s just a fact of life, people change with experience.


She's a girl, of course you can control what she thinks. You just have to know what she's thinking and how she reacts to different things. With the right series of events he can get her to fall for him.

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hard choice dude all i can say is try to like what she likes and understand her interests but not to an extent where you are being fake and if she still doesnt like you then tough luck youll find a ton of these girls in your life
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hmm this is a tough one. you should still definately stay friends with her, even though she said she doesn't like you the way you like her. who knows, maybe your friendship will go in a new direction. (a lot of older people i know have married their best friends) just try to give her a little extra space because it might take time for her to get used to a friend liking her in that way.
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all i got for you is brutal honesty. tough love. if she doesn't see you that way then thats that. the way i see it, you got 3 options. 1. become a monk. 2. continue to be her friend and don't hold a torch for her. 3. become really annoying trying to get her to like you.

she knows how you feel, she didn't reciprocate. you knew that that might happen when you admited to liking her. now, grow up and deal with her desicion. at least she didn't push you away completely.
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Posted 1/30/07

snckpack wrote:

Alright theres this girl i like and shes one of my friends.I told her but she told me she doesnt like me like that.What should i do?I mean i cant stop thinking about her and in my minds eye shes perfect.She has beautiful eyes and the way she wears her glasses at the end of her nose and when she smiles at me its the greatest feeling in the world AND she likes anime.I...*sigh* I just dont know what to do and its killin me inside.


Wow. There are others like me. This exact same thing happened to me. You just got to force yourself to move on. if you don't then you will be one misorble kid. Trust me I didn't let go for over a year and it tore me apart.
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snckpack wrote:

Alright theres this girl i like and shes one of my friends.I told her but she told me she doesnt like me like that.What should i do?I mean i cant stop thinking about her and in my minds eye shes perfect.She has beautiful eyes and the way she wears her glasses at the end of her nose and when she smiles at me its the greatest feeling in the world AND she likes anime.I...*sigh* I just dont know what to do and its killin me inside.


awww..it's so cute tha way you talk about her!! lol but how sad..hmm..jus be yourself nd maybe she'll end up falling for you!! or maybe you'll get over her nd find another girl that will complete take your heart away<3 umm..whutever happens happens..jus do watever makes you happy! good luck w/everything!!
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27 / F / california
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snckpack, if she doesn't like you that way, then it's best to move on and stay good friends with her. >< I'm sorry to say, but you can't force someone to love you back no matter how hard you try. Also, if you really like her, then you should respect her feelings instead of trying to hurt her and all that. I hope that helped. Good luck!
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