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stone032 wrote:

wow...'love'...sucks
ok..I got a problem..could you guys help me?
Ever since the beginning of 8th grade, everybody has told me that i have gotten prettier. Now that boosted my self-confidence ALOT. Over summer i lost like 20 pounds, grew 5 inches, grew out my hair,new hair color, my acne is almost gone, and i grew in..'other places'(if you catch my drift). I was so excited for school to start because there was this guy I liked and sorta became friends with. I wanted him to see me and think 'Wow'( I know that sounds self-loving, but trust me, I am the farthest thing from self-loving).
But as soon as i got to school, all my confidence seemed to slip through my fingers. I swear every girl at school was flirting him with in their little size 2 bodies crowding him.UGH! Why is it, that if your not a size 2 you're fat?(atleast that's how it is at my school) A size 5 is not fat, it's average/athletic.....I felt too 'overly-developed' for a girl my age. It was so awkward to stand next to my best friend(who the year before had been my same height) and tower over her my like 4 inches. I hated that she was so small and 'girly' compared to me. Now, I'm not saying I'm not girly, cuz I am. And I'm not fat nor thin. I'm athletic. Which I dont really like. My dad has always told me that guys like a girl who thay can relate to. But all the guys at my school seem to just wanna have me on their basketball team instead actually talk to me. Even the guy I like is kinda like that. Like the year before he and I used to always get into trouble during class for talking to eachother, now this year, he barely talks to me. Why? My attitude hasn't changed from last year, if anything I smile more this year.
Why can't any of the guys like me for me and not what's on my chest? If the guys at school aren't trying tho get me to play basketball with them, they're giving me perverted looks or cracking perverted jokes at me. Are all guys like this?
I just want this guy to notice me because I'm me. I really want him to like me..but how do I do that??
sooo..confused & frustrated




don't worry im just like you!!!! im atheletic and all mi other friends are taller then me. but i get along wit the guys. all i do is go up 2 them and joke aroung like hit them in the back and stuff u kno just get friendly!!! i mean u'll understand them betta if u get closer. if u get teased coz they think ur "fat" then just laugh it off and pretend to agree. coz if u show a sign of hurt then they'll kno that it makes u feel bad and do it more offten. don't be scared to do anything. if u make a mistake or do something stupid, dumb or shameful juat kaugh it off and sometimes people will think u were pretending. also if u laugh it off they'll kno that teasing will just be worthless coz they'll think u'll just laugh it off.

if u want to kno why the guys don't like u.just ask a guy 4 there opinion. but a guy u can trust!!!

good luck!!!

and i hope mi advice is good!
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sry guys i have neva liked sumone thats a bit weird

guys i sooo hot u wish u had me ....lol

im so crazy dw bing u r to
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i like someone.... he's tall, he is skin is white and he has long hair!!

hmm.... i like those guys!! ahahah or maybe a rocker...?
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pam-chan wrote:

i like someone.... he's tall, he is skin is white and he has long hair!!

hmm.... i like those guys!! ahahah or maybe a rocker...?


michael jackson!!!

to those with heads still stuck in the sand and their hearts some distance off on a sizzling grill, being cooked by some indian tourists preparing curry:
if you really love them, you'd undertand
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bisforbodacious wrote:

So, I don't understand what's wrong with the world. Let me elaborate:

I've always considered myself pretty attractive. People say that I'm overly confident. I have long blonde hair, big lake colored eyes, people always stare at my big butt, i have a nice chest, i'm average-heigth, i'm not skinny, but DEFINETLY not fat, i have muscular legs, and the only thing about me thats a bit unattractive is that my acne isn't so great. I don't consider myself like a total bombshell, but I didn't think that my physical appearance would be a reason for some one not to like me... and THEN.

I liked this guy named Dan since the beginning of this school year. He's smart, witty, funny, listens to good music, is tall, not too popular and kind of dorky. It's so cute. He brought a power ranger to school once, what's hotter than that? Anyway, I've been crushing on him for a long time and last semester we would do some group projects together with some other people that I know and it was fun just hanging out with him sometimes. Then, he sort of had a crush on my friend Suisa.

Suisa is not a babe. Suisa is cute. She is short with short hair, a CUTE face, a frail body, but she still has a decent chest. (which most girls her size don't)

I assumed that Suisa must have some special personality trait that I'm lacking and she's not interested in him so it will pass someday if I just sit tight and be friends with every one and Dan doesn't need to know I like him.

Then, this semester Dan and I haven't really talked a whole bunch because his friend Brian is in our class now and Suisa has stopped coming to school altogether I dunno why. I was about to give up when finally, Dan and I were in the same room for the SAT's and we would talk in the hallways and it was really cool and like old times and I started thinking, "now might be my chance..."

THEN. I found out something really disturbing. My best friend was talking to Dan's good friend Eve because they have a class together. Eve goes, "So, does Bethany still like Dan?" and my BFF is like "HUH?" Apparently Dan has known I liked him since God knows how long and I just haven't known about it. Then, Eve goes on to say that I don't have a chance with Dan because he's really superficial and only likes really small, skinny, short girls (like Suisa).

My response to this is WHAT?!?!?!?!?! It seems like a lot of guys are into smaller women these days. What's up with that? I thought guys LIKED big boobs? SHEESH. And Dan shouldn't be so picky anyways. He definetly isn't lean and muscular or anything. His body is pretty average. But I guess that's part of why I like him. That and he's a total jerk sometimes, its so cute.


Oh wow. My friend and I were JUST talking about this the other day. xD The conclusion we came to is that guys like small girls cause they're...small in a particular area (not sure how to phrase this in a PG-13 manner @_@).

Also, I'd talk to some of my guy friends and, though they do like big boobs, if the girl doesn't look proportionate, it's just a big no-no. Then again, I guess it's a manner of preferance. A lot of guys liked me cause I have a big butt. HAHA. xD

As for the first post, I totally understand. There was I friend that I liked, but he didn't like me back. I woefully accepted his decision. Time went on and I was glad that we didn't hit it off. So don't worry about her. You'll a better catch once you get into college... or wherever you go. :D


Lol no offense....we're talking about appearance NOT that....lol although I dun blame you trying to rationalize the situation XD
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The answers to all your questions lie
on this site
doubleyourdating.com

It answers everything.
Posted 1/31/07
Either understand she's not interested or give it time.

Before you know it, you'll get over it if she's not.
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Ok, now this is gonna bother til the end of my days...
a lot of you guys and girls are still too young to know anything about love. Hell I'm still too young to know about love. But what I do have what a lot of you youngins don't (and if you feel that I'm wrong then...well thats your opinion and this is mine) is experience. First off if you like someone tell em straight out. Get it out in the open else it eats you from the inside out. Nothing worse than to have that "what if" feeling cause you didn't go for it. I'm sure a lot of the older people will tell ya the same thing. Of course, some common sense factor comes in to play too. All you hustlers and "Playaz" out there, don't pretend you don't know what I'm talking about either. (Yes I will hate)

Now obviously I was talking about the guys in that first one. No for the gals.

First and foremost (and I know you already know this but...) all men are dogs. No ands ifs or buts. (guys accept it) with that being said, the type of dog you get is up to you. Do you want a high maintenance pedegree (I like to call em pretty boys), a low maintenance mutt (hmmm jocks maybe, mainly them bad boyz) or that one dog that just melt you heart whenever you look at it. (Those of you lucky enough to have that one friend thats always there. you just never ever notice that they look at you ~_^) Now for those of you that think your "not all that" then hey first off slap yourself now for thinking that way. DO NOT LET ANYONE make you think that way (same for the guys if your still reading this). And if they try to, well for one pick yourself up, rise to the challenge and prove em wrong.

I got more to say but its better for ya'll to find it out yourselves no?
(so I'm long winded, bite me)
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^*sigh* not as easy as you think to make youself think your perfect. (but ofcourse im perfect! <totally concieted)
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xoxjamayaxox wrote:

sry guys i have neva liked sumone thats a bit weird

guys i sooo hot u wish u had me ....lol

im so crazy dw bing u r to


Now your making me jealous.

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naruto9817 wrote:


xoxjamayaxox wrote:

sry guys i have neva liked sumone thats a bit weird

guys i sooo hot u wish u had me ....lol

im so crazy dw bing u r to


Now your making me jealous.



hmmm i dunno bout that....lol if I had to give away a dime whenever I hear that...I'd b stinking poor by now lol
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Posted 1/31/07

phyro989 wrote:
Don't lisen to this person. She does not know what she is talking about. I tried for everything for a year. Being my self trying to make her jelious. The point is move on. Nothing good can come of it.


isn't it alrite tuh have my own opinion? you kno he duhzn't hafta listen tuh whut u or me say..jus let him do whutever makes him happy..

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snckpack wrote:

Alright theres this girl i like and shes one of my friends.I told her but she told me she doesnt like me like that.What should i do?I mean i cant stop thinking about her and in my minds eye shes perfect.She has beautiful eyes and the way she wears her glasses at the end of her nose and when she smiles at me its the greatest feeling in the world AND she likes anime.I...*sigh* I just dont know what to do and its killin me inside.


Dude go for it. If you don't try you don't get. When I'm out and I see someone who I think is hot I go straight up to them. Sure some people might reject you but some might not. If you try it and she says no then so what, all you've lost is false hope that you might get with her.

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snckpack wrote:

Alright theres this girl i like and shes one of my friends.I told her but she told me she doesnt like me like that.What should i do?I mean i cant stop thinking about her and in my minds eye shes perfect.She has beautiful eyes and the way she wears her glasses at the end of her nose and when she smiles at me its the greatest feeling in the world AND she likes anime.I...*sigh* I just dont know what to do and its killin me inside.


Dude go for it. If you don't try you don't get. When I'm out and I see someone who I think is hot I go straight up to them. Sure some people might reject you but some might not. If you try it and she says no then so what, all you've lost is false hope that you might get with her.



I agree, but only to that go for it part. If she says ok, then ur the luckiest man on earth. If she turns you down, then thats better than clawing your own throat for being ignorant of her feelings. Haha i shouldn't be the one saying since I'm in the same position....lol and coincidence with the glasses XD.
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rawrrusuck wrote:

^*sigh* not as easy as you think to make youself think your perfect. (but ofcourse im perfect! <totally concieted)


I didn't say make yourself think your perfect. perfection is just a matter of opinion. being "all that" and being "perfect" are (although similar) two different things...in my opinion being perfect is being a pedigree, no? ^_^
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