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Can a guy and a girl be close friends?
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I know it is possible because my best friend is a man. We have been friends for 6 years.
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wushukid wrote:

so can a guy and a girl be close frends without falling for each other? i guess assuming theyre both single..



yeah it is possible.. i had a guy bestfriend before and we didn't have that special feelings between us.. i guess he's a total jerk ( that's why i didn't fall for him) but he's also the kind of person who you could count on during rough times.. and i'm not his type ..that's why.. we're just bestfriends...
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see my avi. she and I are close friends. you can even say we are best friends.
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I think its possiable, though hard to tell at times. Pluss the best relationships are based on friendship.
My best friend is my Ex Eric, I guess it depends on the people involved and how mature they can handle it *shrug*
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Definitely. Most of my guy friends have just always been close friends nothing more. And we've been even tighter than with some of my fem friends.
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yea my best friends are girls and i dont have any feelings for them
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sypris wrote:

yea my best friends are girls and i dont have any feelings for them


same
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24 / F / I am forever Wand...
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yep. It's called the "Friend Zone" where - if you're a girl - you love the guy like a brother and - if you're a guy - you love the girl like a sister.

(There's this movie how that happened and years later, the guy liked the girl, but the girl still felt the same and stuff.)
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of course!!! ahah *i think*
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yeah i think its possible
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29 / F / aruba
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most of my friends are guys. that's why im hated by some girls
they think im stealing them (the boys) from them( the girls).
and yeah, having guy friends are funner than having girl as friends, cuz im a little boy-ish inside i mean, i'd rather go to an arcade than go hang out at the mall
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yES tHEY cOULD bUT tHE gUY wOULd hAVE tO bE gaY!:LOL
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I used to think that me and this guy were really good friends, and best friends, and I'd never had anything more than a plutonic thought about him. Then one day, after playing videogames at his house, it just hit me: I was in love with him. It was so random I'd honestly thought we were nothing more than plutonic friends!! Then he went away for 2 weeks, and when he came back, we met up and he kissed me

But as always, we knew too much about each other, and the relationship was just too perfect. So it was ended, and we're still best friends ^_^ And I still love him, because he is fabulous.

So....yes. It is possible! But it has to be discussed at some point, because the other will always have assumptions All my friends are guys! And I've no feelings for any of them, past plutonic.
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Hmm... well... I'm not sure. I like hanging out with guys better than girls, cuz I like to play video games and stuff with them (love that whole competitive thing that guys have, I get really into it). I loathe shopping. But I admit that I'm a flirt, too.

I think you can be close friends with a guy or girl and not have any romantic feelings for one another, but it's a hard thing to do.
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of course. half my friends are guys.
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