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How to dump someone or be dumped
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Posted 2/3/07 , edited 4/16/07
Title changed from "How to be the dumpee" to "How to dump someone or be dumped"

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Hmmm ok. I saw something a while ago about how to be dumped or getting away from a relationship. Well, in other terms, having a "softer landing." Dumping someone is kinda harsh so you try to make the other person dump you! Does anyone have any ideas? I think it'll be handy in the future. XD
Posted 2/3/07
Act annoying? =S It sounds kinda harsh, but i would rather be the person who dumps the other person than the person who gets dumped... am i mean now?
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Posted 2/3/07
It's really hard to do if the person likes you enough. It's kinda cowardly to try and make someone else break up with you. But if you want to know be an ass, if the person isnt an idiot they should get fed up with it and break up with you. I don't know how you could make the person break up with you and still want to be friends with you.
Posted 2/3/07
Just tell her that your not really content in the relationship but to make things less of a burden on her (because you still care about her alot) that she should be the one to end it soo @ least she can say it was "her decision" and no hard feelings right!?


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Posted 2/3/07
WTF just be a man and say "your not my sex bunny anymore"

Seriously though, If you don't want to do it face to face do it over the internet, but still expect to run into them and it to be a bit awkward at first.

To get them to dump you should be ez, just don't do anything with them, and they will lose interest. Never go out, say your busy, etc. She'll get the hint.
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Posted 2/3/07
i think thats rather childish, to make someone dump you. Just be honest. Honesty is the best policy.

and also... when dumping someone. Do not text them a message, or email them. like my friend did... haha.. omg... coz he was afraid to talk to her. Thats just stupid.
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Posted 2/3/07
"Personally, I think handcuffs are boring. You NEED a gimp mask to spice things up."

"You're not cluastrophobic are you? The trunk in my basement is really small."

"Crap, I forgot to pick up my herpes medication."

"You know they always tell you to register as a sex offender, but they never tell you where to register."

"I hope my NAMBLA newsletter cam today."

"Sorry I can't go there with you. I'm not allowed within 500 feet of school grounds."

"I like anime."

This is fun, I'll think of alot more later.

EDIT: You guys are taking this topic waaaaay too seriously.
Posted 2/3/07

Eros wrote:

WTF just be a man and say "your not my sex bunny anymore"

Seriously though, If you don't want to do it face to face do it over the internet, but still expect to run into them and it to be a bit awkward at first.

To get them to dump you should be ez, just don't do anything with them, and they will lose interest. Never go out, say your busy, etc. She'll get the hint.



on a slightly similar note...ontop of the say your busy idea...say your busy with another lady friend that always gets their attetnion!


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Posted 2/3/07

azrael910 wrote:

"Personally, I think handcuffs are boring. You NEED a gimp mask to spice things up."

"You're not cluastrophobic are you? The trunk in my basement is really small."

"Crap, I forgot to pick up my herpes medication."

"You know they always tell you to register as a sex offender, but they never tell you where to register."

"I hope my NAMBLA newsletter cam today."

"Sorry I can't go there with you. I'm not allowed within 500 feet of school grounds."

"I like anime."

This is fun, I'll think of alot more later.

EDIT: You guys are taking this topic waaaaay too seriously.




mmm ill take me some of that north american man boy love association action anyday!

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Posted 2/3/07
Lol but then when we dump another person, we don't actually know what would happen afterwards, well usually people end up being strangers to each other. But when you create a "softer landing," there would be a high chance that the person will just break away and offer a permanent friendship with you. At least no one's feeling bad.
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Posted 2/3/07
Being open is what being in a relationship is all about. Just straight out say that you don't feel the same way anymore.

Oh and guys.. never break up with a chick over the internet.. that pisses me off.
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making someone break up with you is stupid. if they really like you it would be really hard for them because they would think ur acting weird even friend wise which would heighten the chances for them to not want to be friends and it makes them feel like crap. if you dont wanna go out with someone tell them! your going to be hurting them so dont make it so they hurt more because they have to end it. and as for ending realationships i would talk more about whats bugging you cuz if you find out from your friends friend you could have lost the relationship when it was just a misunderstnading so somthing. and if you dont like the person dont go out with them in the first place.
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Posted 2/3/07

bleach-xo wrote:

making someone break up with you is stupid. if they really like you it would be really hard for them because they would think ur acting weird even friend wise which would heighten the chances for them to not want to be friends and it makes them feel like crap. if you dont wanna go out with someone tell them! your going to be hurting them so dont make it so they hurt more because they have to end it. and as for ending realationships i would talk more about whats bugging you cuz if you find out from your friends friend you could have lost the relationship when it was just a misunderstnading so somthing. and if you dont like the person dont go out with them in the first place.


That is why I'm asking for the perfect way to do it...I understand that not everyone can tell it straight to a person that...ok we're through, especially if that person is really nice.
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Posted 2/3/07
if your a guy tell the girl you like anime.


if your a girl ignore the guy for like a week.
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Posted 2/3/07
LOL... You want a sure fire way of getting dumped... I did it to a girl that treated me like crap...

I invited her out to a real expensive resteraunt... told her to go all crazy cause it's a celebration... rack up a $100+ bill... tell her you need to use the bathroom... and walk out the door where she does not see you... (better if you drive her there). That always worked for me... to the bad girlfriends.

To a girlfriend you don't want to hurt... dump her verbally... if she does not get the point, slap her.... She will hate you
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