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Posted 2/4/07

rawrrusuck wrote:

Hit on him. If he likes it go for it.


i like forward women ....
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Posted 2/19/07
on a real yea i think u jus say if u love em or not dats what i did then i went out wid a girl n we broke up then i sed to a next girl i loved her den me n da next girl started goin out lol
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Posted 2/19/07

Tracy_almazar09 wrote:


rawrrusuck wrote:

Hit on him. If he likes it go for it.


i like forward women ....

I'm with you on that one it makes me wonder less. As far as a girl telling me she loves me it's pretty much a sure way to end the relationship if it comes too soon. Let the guy say it first. Normally it's best to wait until you're sure the feeling is mutual. The whole "I love you but I know you don't love me." thing is just awkward.

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hm.. I really have no advice on this. For me, we were five months into our relationship and I was just like, "I love you." o.o; Then he said he loved me too. After that, we had a little awkward silence and I broke into this gigglefit thing.

If you're not sure if he'll feel the same way or won't take it well, instead of just straight forwardly saying "I love you", perhaps adding "I think" to it before that might help a bit? 'Cause it is just less intense.

Or go with like I read before, say "I really like you." If he says he really likes you too, then tell him how you REALLY feel. But then again there's always that chance that he's lying when he says that he really likes you too.. and then he might freak out. Chances are that if he freaks out about you saying you love him means that he was lying about saying he likes you and is using you.

Just don't be paranoid.
Actually forget that whole last paragraph.

Edit edit edit;;
That was just how you could tell him. x.x;
You'll know WHEN you could tell him when you start to think about him no matter what you're doing at any time in the day and can't get him off of your mind. You'll definately be able to tell the difference between what you felt like before you were in love and what you feel like when you are in love. Just wait a while into the relationship, atleast a few months even if you are in love with him within the second week. That way he won't think you're pathetic.
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Posted 2/19/07
i think it's one of those things that just slip out. you know you actually mean it then.
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Posted 2/19/07
...What length of relationship are we talking? Because people now a days are stupid with the word. It's lost all meaning. Me personally I refused to say it to girlfriends sure I liked them but Love... no sorry. You may think you "love" the person but you really don't. Not to mention guys are even more careless with it then girls when trying to "get down" a guy will use that like there is no tomorrow:
"No no more"
"Oh come on Babe you know I love you"
It makes me sick. Thinking of people doing that. So I will boycotte the word untill I know for sure that I could not live without the person and they are the only one for me... Untill I or they die... you have to move on eventully when someone dies.
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Posted 2/19/07
I dun want this to come out from me but then what the heck...

I think the right time is when you get entranced in that really awkward moment when nothing else mattered. That kinda hints you that the other person is really in love with you. I love silence oh yeah. Then you just do whatever you do but not sex, if so then the guy just likes your tits or that girl just wanna get laid.
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Posted 2/19/07
The right time? If you think you can handle the pressure of being with someone, then go - being able to handle pressure means you know your limitations and obligations.
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Posted 2/20/07
anytime
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Posted 2/20/07
it shouldn't be premeditated....there is really no right answer to this, i think....

it's just something you both feel or you don't, no matter how far into the relationship you are. if you tell someone you love them and they don't love you back just be satisfied with the fact that you got to tell the one person that means the world to you how you really feel....it might hurt not to get the same feeling back, but it's still great to just love someone ^_^
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technoinfection has a point, it's a feeling, you either feel that you love the person or you don't there's really no thinking involved.

but i also feel that some of you people wondering this are still young and that love can be confused with infatuation or lust, just don't throw around the word love in that sense of the word unless you know for sure in your heart, and soul.

took me 22 years, but i finally said it to someone, and now we're engaged.
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29 / M / Sydney Australia
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Posted 2/20/07
Its something you don't say in a first relationship, I believe.
If you feel it then say it. If you hold back then your being dishonest and a dishonest relationship may as well not exist.
Trust is to important.
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Posted 2/28/07
It will present itself when u really know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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36 / F / East Bay California
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Posted 3/1/07
Usually I'm a big fan of letting the other person say it first...but this one time I remember saying it but it was a total accident. I meant it, I just didn't want to say it first...but it just kind of came out...and I was so horrified that I think I tried to take it back but he just kissed me instead. It was weirdly perfect... so I think that if you are meant to say it...you'll say it (even if you don't expect to)
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Posted 3/1/07
maybe kiss?
or say i love you before its too late
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