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Posted 5/26/08

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Thanks, I'll try my best to suppose and love her.
Actually she's not obsessive jsut jealous. (of all the girls he brings.) I don't think he's really close to anyone guys or girls. The one he's closest too is Bee's sister and maybe Curly. Yeha he does have a attitude problem. I need to get her on here to talk to you guys. You're sooo helpful.


Please do. The more Christans on here the better and with such a wid range of view points, gender and ages. We can find the rigth adivce to give and to comfort.
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Yeah but she doesn't like anime. Most of the people at my chruch think it's weird to like anime and God. SHe doesn't have internet neither. But I'll try to get everyone I can. I so don't want this to end. Mayeb we should ocntinue it. Does anyone else have a problem they want to talk about? Come on don't be shy no one here will judge you.
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^_^ ooo pick me!

So I had a really awesome good friend in highschool who decided randomly one day to get mad at me and never talk to me again. I asked her a few times why she wasn't talking to me and she never gave me an answer. To make a long story short, she ignored me till the end of highschool and we never talked after we graduated which was like a year ago. I still like her a lot (for some reason) lol but I can't bring myself to call her because i'm pretty sure she doesn't want to make amends...what would you guys advise? I don't even know why she was ever mad . I'm asking because this has been bothering me for a long time...
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Hmmm this sounds familiar. Lots of friends go though this and msot make up. You don't have any clue at all why she's mad? Do you think anyone else might? Mutal friends?
But in your occur sitatuion. i would call her and say 'I don't know why you're mad but I;m sorry and hope you can forgive me in the long run.' At least that wayyou can say you tried. You can't do much if she doesn't want to become friends again. Trying is better than never knowing what could have happened. She migth forgive you. But you do that little message I sugegst doingit on an answering machine if you can. She might hang up on you otherwise if she is still mad.
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Ok, I would recommend calling her Abuarai. Chances are, there is a misunderstanding, she is blowing something out of proportion that shouldnt be, unless you have some skeletons in your closet that she might of found out about, its probably just a mistake, I would call from either an unidentified number not yet used, or a blocked number, that way you can spit what your going to say out before you get hung up on. If that were to be the case. But something along the lines, I'm sorry, I dont know what I did, can we get past this, I miss being your friend, what did I do? yadda yadda, you make up and your friends again. and to quote BloodlyRoses "Trying is better than never knowing what could have happened." Amen sista, that's my philosiphy on another subject hahaa, speaking of that other subject, I actually do have a dilema, a problem, a vexxing situation, a condundrum if you would. But I'll wait till Aburai is set on their answer, I will be patiently waiting in line.
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Honestly, it depends on why she is mad. I would pray about it and try and understand from her point of view (even if it is wrong) and then call and talk to her. But start with small talk and just ask how she has been, if it wasn't a big issue, act like you think she isn't still mad if you haven't seen each other for almost a year.
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Thanks Cryolyger. But yo udon't have to wait. Sya what you need to get off your chest.
Digs is right too. Pray first then decide. But remember God helps those who help themselves. But he stil lwants to share in your life too.
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unless you have some skeletons in your closet that she might of found out about.


Skeletons, wooo my favs. Can I have them. But, really praying, asking God if you should call and if so calling. Is they way to go.
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you know what ratman, your absolutely right, pray first. I skipped a step, thanks for correcting me
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Mine is simple, but complicated. There's a girl involved. (Isnt there always). to put it simply we are friends, however I really like her, she is a good christian girl, (well women she's 21) but i digress, I told myslef after my last fiasco witha girl I wasnt going to try and force anything and I was going to wait God out rather than take action myself. All I am doing is praying for guidance at the moment, and ya thats kinda it, oh and she might potentially like my brother, which would suck for me but lol. hmm.. i think i hit all the main points. I know her from school and we are taking classes together now, hmm.. still a fresh friendship though, i mean we played rockband once and thats about it other than phone and school. More information availible, I think it is understandable the situation, more of a heartbreaking dilema i suppose. Anycase, that's my conundrum, have fun with it lol. (I have never asked out a christian before, I usually get stuck with the heathens in the past) and I don't want to go against God obviously, His will be done, not my own, my own never works out lol. um, lets see, known her a couple months, last 2 weeks we have been slowly but surely being friends, and i mentioned she wants to take her remaining courses with me at the school we attend, um, I was born in August lol, i dont know what else to say, if anything is unclear let me know.

Thank you for your time, and it might be silly but, then again it's going against God's will, or possibly coinciding, so its relevance is there.

thank you again, take care God bless (capital G for God)
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As I said before real life drama. Hmm I wish I could help you here but, let me tell you a storie of me and my wife. I was desperit for girl friend after I left the Navy and prayed to the Lord for a girl to pair with before I turned 26. well with in a year of praying this I had met my Girl (it was blind date set up by my mom and her hair dresser - My wife was hair dresser at the same shop and got roped in to by her co worker.). I would say the 1st time I saw her I was hokt. And one week before I turned 26, I was married to my Girl. When I look back on all the ex girl friends, I had found on my own and lost, I know God selected my wife for me.
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"Mhhh this sounds so familiar. Cry (do you mind if I call you that?) You and me shouldget together over this whole dating thing. lol JK.
Well from my experciene if you wait too long you will lose her to someone. (or your bro) But considerign the relationship is still young I wouldn't push much. Just continue to build the relationship and then slowly take if farther. But don't jump the gun it'll scare her off and defintly don't force anything. Girls don't like being forced. Just wait it out. No need to rush. And if you think she starts feelign that way about you ask her. Don't assume she lieks yo uand ask her out and make yourself look dumb. Be catious and careful.
Wow! 26! No wonder you and your wife have been together so long. Everyone I know is getting married 18,19 or 20. Or they are engaged. (It drives me insane.)
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[Wow! 26! No wonder you and your wife have been together so long. Everyone I know is getting married 18,19 or 20. Or they are engaged. (It drives me insane.)


Yup 31 years togetter. And on top of that my wife was told that she would never even get a boy frd because she was just a little over waite.
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You're kidding?! I hate when people say that. Well I;m glad she foundyou then and vise versa. Sounds like you guys deserve each other. But what you said before God has selected her jsut for you. Cry jsut remember that, someone out there is meant just for you.
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i hate that over weight crap. no one should tell you how you should look, if your satisfied with yourself that should be enough, now comes the scripture on lazziness A lazy person hates work (Proverbs 21:25), A lazy person loves sleep. (Proverbs 26:14) “As a door turns on its hinges, so does the lazy man on his bed.” and so on so forth. According to the secular world I am over weight, so I hate that, I won't go into that, at this time thats a new topic for a new discussion.

back to my problem i guess lol, I am not even sure if I believe in dating. It seems such a secular thing, my childhood dream was to be madly in love with the girl of my dreams at 18, married at 20, succesful writer/professor at 22, I will be 23 this August and I have none of these lol. And ya I would never force anyone to do anything, thats not my way, thats not the christian/gentleman way.(by all means call what is easier for you, Cry, or Mike even, (Michael is my name outside crunchyroll) but I don't mind cry. But I mean if she is interested in my brother than I have no problem stepping aside, my brother is a good guy, he is a strong christian, if they were together they would be unequally yoked, but that's on him.When it comes to biblical reference and the history of biblical events I goto him, just he is getting a shcolorship for football to play in Missouri, now it's almost a little unfair to, lol. But if it does it's not a curse to me and a blessing for his time with God. And I wouldn't be jealous but, like ratman when u hit mid-late 20's you start getting desperate. And I am at my peek, I have had secular relationships and they screwed me over. I want to be cautious with her and I want everything right. right timing, me, her, and God's timing. (You ever try and mesh watches to the same exact time, try that with 2 people in 2 different directions and timing it with God's will lol. It's hard! but anyway, I honestly want whats best for her, and I think that is me, well could be, I am not perfect but I am a gentleman, I am a knight of Christ. I could weigh the pros and cons of me and my brother, but the fact is we are close, and I think he would be happy for me if I ended up with her, but he's in same boat, going on 25 this year. Unfortunatelys bloodyroses you are a little young for me hahaha, j/k j/k but i'm just trying to hit every note. And I am in no hurry, only to be happy lol, but it's a driving force. I can do so much more if I had motivation of a gal pal. My dedication to lose 20 pounds in a summer was sparked by a co-worker and asking her out. She is agnostic, so that wasn't the smartest thing I have ever done. Just games, anime, and life in general just isn't doing it for me, I need companionship. Oh heres a question, I have 1 entertaining source at my disposal, rockband, but I don't want to invite her over to just play rockband all the time. Any suggestions on how I can at least be a good friend? (All my life I have been the best friend to the girl I like, I have been the one always told I am the kind of guy you settle down with, where does that guy come into place, when does he get the girl?) (my appologies for not being a typical guy, my fault for being a christian and not the ability to screw girls over)

ok I will rant forever if given the oppurtunity, so ill shut it here.

Your friend in Christ;

Mike (Cryo, Cry, Lyger... It means cryo-cryogenics:the study of ice, and lyger-the cross between a male lion and a female tiger, has all the perks of both and none of the weaknesses.) so Ice Lyger or, simply ice being born of the earth but not of it, like christians. symbolic even...
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