First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  Next  Last
Post Reply More than fellow Christains
Moderator
3852 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / southern california
Offline
Posted 5/29/08
(I would like to appologize for my long posts, i type to fast for my own good, and unfortunately I have alot to say, alot to say about nothing sometimes)
Moderator
14744 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
64 / M / FL. But, I (May...
Offline
Posted 5/29/08
It just kind of hit me. Here we are a teenage, a 20 somthing and 56 married man talking about dating / marrage. lol. But one thing God selects your parter. In my case there is 4 year age diff. (I am the older). She is little country and I am rock and roll. She is normal and I am werted (I am not NORMAL). I am a NERD (hay I work in Data Processing and most of the guys / gals are the same). She has to ask me what to do every time some thing comes up on her lap top. So we are kid of diff. But that is what God put together. Do not limit God to one race or age (No lolas tho). Oh she is singer but, is afraid every time she has to go in frond of pepol and I love to be the center of attention but, no talent.
Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/29/08
lol It's okay Cry. I was joking. 20 something is a little too old for me. I like them older but... nevermind. My guy troubles need to stay in the closet.
Well rockband was a start at least you got her to the house. There's a big step for msot pople. ....or for people my age. lol What does she like? Maybe you could hit a mini golf, a coffe shop, the beach? I don't know whereyou live in caliy so....Take adventage of what arounds you. I personality like the idea of being married by 20 but now I think it's stupid. When you're 18-24 you're changing into the person who you're meant to be and bringing someone else into the mix is just bad.
Well I'm glad you don't have that screw girls over thing too many guys have that. Heck girls have it now towards guys. This world crazy now adays. Any ways back to the disscusion, it seems hard to find true christians here. Opposites do attract very well, my ex was a wall flwoer and I love to be the center of attention. (I have little to no talent too.) But you'll jsut have to keep waiting and wait for the right moment. But if the chance to hook them up, I think you're brother would find you very sweet ifyou hooked them up. I take it he's younger than you?

Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/29/08
well I like the fact that there's stuff an age different. I liek hearign different poitn of views Being 56 and married you can guide us (sorta) and being 22 you're in the thick of the action, dating and college. Well I guess I can give the wrap sense that's been install into me though tv and my upbringing. lol
Moderator
14744 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
64 / M / FL. But, I (May...
Offline
Posted 5/29/08

BloodlyRoses wrote:

well I like the fact that there's stuff an age different. I liek hearign different poitn of views Being 56 and married you can guide us (sorta) and being 22 you're in the thick of the action, dating and college. Well I guess I can give the wrap sense that's been install into me though tv and my upbringing. lol


Well thats warp sense, Gee you spell as bad as me..... , any way my warp senses installed by working with Computers. . A I love PC's. A what were we talking about? O hai, age differents and dating and inter personal interfacing (sorry nerd speak). The one who is set for you is another gift from God (As well as friends also). BTW what DO YOU MEAN sorta guide you. Just kiding (maybe). Well guess dating and inter personal interfacing among Christans is teme of this thread. Dont want the mods to shut down this thread (wait a minute I am one of mods).
Moderator
3852 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / southern california
Offline
Posted 5/29/08
"O hai, age differents and dating and inter personal interfacing" I laughed right out of my chair on that one. haha, well it's more along the lines of God's will and understanding it was my intention, I am a charmer, gifted with talents of laughter and flattering speech. I do not however know or try and understand God's will, I am baffled how things have progressed to this point, let alone whats in store in my future, I am a bit of a geek I like computers, not nearly as much to get into a field of it, I was born to write and teach, those are the passions I have been given to follow for the glory of Christ. And I have no problems taking advice from one such as you, as I see in your situation is my goal. I would love to be able to be 70 and still guiding youngin's. But you are far from old, if this was old testament you would be an infant still, they lived well into their hundreds. You are still at your peek. I know you were joking bloodly roses i was just teasin, see you have the advantage of just being able to wait, you don't have to do anything but say yes or no lol. we have to work up the speech or get the courage to ask the opposite sex out, well I won't discredit you, however, I could never be a girl too much work there, just in this area we are different i guess is the correct term. (for being told I'm smart i say a lot of stupid things, if this is one of them disregard it lol) Any case, southern California, is where I reside, I don't know too many fun things to do while broke, being a student isn't beneficial to the money factor, at least at the moment. But hmm, I know she likes greens and yellows, she deals with the real, she is herself and looks at actualities, she wrote a paper on maintaining the environment, how we kinda met, we had barely spoken up till this point, but she asked if I could look over her paper and peer review it, I don't know too much about her, and that's hard in itself, I talk to her on the phone usually about school stuff, so to call just to say hi would be awkward for the both of us to say the least. she is not flowery, but she still is a girl, not a valley girl type, or a tomboy... It's odd, I have never encountered someone that was themselves, a collaboration and compilation of all the stuff she likes, rather or not its popular or trendy, I am out of my area of expertise, every other girl I have known except family is 2-d. they like this, they are into punk. she is like me in the sense that she likes what she likes, and its odd that we can listen to the same music it seems, i have a wide range of musical knowledge and she as well, everything from Sinatra to metallica, to Christian hymns. But it's odd we mesh well, and can play off each other. It's hard, I have never felt intimidated before, well intimidated isn't the word, someone on the same page, someone that can keep up? well, we'll leave it at that, when it comes down to it all I can really do is wait it out and pray about it, so with that let's hopefully get someone else to step forward with a dilema to solve.
Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
mhh......
It sounds liek you guys do mesh well together. Something tells me if you don't need up together you will become close friends. You don't have this much in common with someone and walk away with nothing.
She's not tomboy but not a valley girl? I didn't know there was an inbetween. lol j/k Honestly I tihnk it's harder to be a guy. You have to ask us out, you have to pay for dinner, you have to make the first move. lol (not in my relationships you don'y.) SOrry waaaay off track. I understand beign a studnet is hard. I start college thisfall and well....I have NO IDEA where I;m gonna get the money. If she lieks yellwos and greens try a park. SOunds stupid/corny I know but hey you never known. I live in Florida so a lto of the aprks here are beautiful we even have a flower park near one of the post offices. (I don't think I live near Ratman though, if he does live in the same city I feel sorry for him.)
Moderator
3852 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / southern california
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
You know what, I always wanted to take a girl to the park, but then theres that romance twist to it, if you go walking in a park your filling the stereotype, and whats the problem with actually wanting to get to know someone at a park, is that such a crime, kissing can come later, I want to know who I am talking to lol. Or smoochin with before I start smoochin them... ahaha, well i got a good laugh i went off track again but ya. Haha, i feel bad for ratman. But ya in cali, all the guys are single-open minded and giving the rest of us bad reps. so I have to break the stereotype, break the mold. And in all honesty, I like being the one to ask a girl out, I would hate to be the one rejecting the other. but i am no stranger to rejection, thankfully most of them were secular girls so it didnt break my heart. But girls have alot more maintanence, girls have to wait, oh my worst fear has got to be uncertainty. Drives me insane, put me in a crowded room and let me public speak 10x fold, versus not knowing if a girl likes you or not. and rather or not your going to look like a fool. but I have developed charm, charisma and smoothness(i dont know how to word being suave lol) but ya I deffinately got some character development out of being the asker and not the askie? haha.
Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
lol Yeah I hate that too. I'll avoid somethign liek crazy if has a remote possibly of turning me into a fool. I have team matesto thank for that complex. I perfer to ask them out so the guy doesn't have to do so much work and al lthe guys I knwo are shy. lol Or they're jsut afraid to come to me because from what I've been told I;m a real punch to the male ego. I'm a 21th century woman. If you know what that means.
I think uncertaintly will drive most people insane. But if I;m asking someone out I realllly I mean reallly like I turn itno someone completely different then I do turn into a girl. lol But I don't know what is I guess I'm easy to be around and I;m pretty easygoing and I guess I'm funny.I'm still only 17 so I haven't figured everything out yet.
Moderator
3852 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / southern california
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
haha, well with time comes experience and wisdom, i been at this game a couple more years than you. but I can guarantee you are doing better at it lol. The past year I gave up on trying to win people over, trying to empress people. I have been told im awesome once you get to know me, so I'm playing that card, and if they dont like it then it wasnt meant to be. so no sweat off my back anymore, i turned to steel lol. Christ has shown me humility and I work that well. I have no problems making myself look like a fool if its not at my expense, meaning, if i do it for a girl or a friend i dont mind, but if im the butt of a joke thats when it gets to me. but ya just be yourself, and if guys cant hang or keep up with the 21st century girl then they need to try again at a later time when they are ready.
Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
lol thanks. I'm doingbetter? HA! That's funny. I have a horrible track record for a christian but good for msot girls my age. lol I'm stuck in the middle. My friend likes to rub it in ym face I haven't had jsut oneboyfriend liek her. But anyways....I don't mind beign a fool for a friend but not for a boy and if Im the butt of a joke and I find out OHHH you better wtch out! I won't do anything but you will get a piece of my mind. Yeah if you don't like me oh well that's how the cookie crumbles.
Mhhh new need a new subject. Where do you stand o nthe whole love thing. I've heard lvoe doesn't jsut happen Love at first sight is and that you can learn to love someone and the love is a thought. I don't knwo where to stand on the subject I jsut know what I've expericene. I can't learn to love someone but I don't expericene love at first sight.
Moderator
14744 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
64 / M / FL. But, I (May...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08

BloodlyRoses wrote:

mhh......
It sounds liek you guys do mesh well together. Something tells me if you don't need up together you will become close friends. You don't have this much in common with someone and walk away with nothing.
She's not tomboy but not a valley girl? I didn't know there was an inbetween. lol j/k Honestly I tihnk it's harder to be a guy. You have to ask us out, you have to pay for dinner, you have to make the first move. lol (not in my relationships you don'y.) SOrry waaaay off track. I understand beign a studnet is hard. I start college thisfall and well....I have NO IDEA where I;m gonna get the money. If she lieks yellwos and greens try a park. SOunds stupid/corny I know but hey you never known. I live in Florida so a lto of the aprks here are beautiful we even have a flower park near one of the post offices. (I don't think I live near Ratman though, if he does live in the same city I feel sorry for him.)


Imouto Gomenasai Jacksomville Fl. mattaku kawaii

Arigatou Ratman21 Jesus Oniisan
Moderator
14744 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
64 / M / FL. But, I (May...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08

cryolyger wrote:

haha, well with time comes experience and wisdom, i been at this game a couple more years than you. but I can guarantee you are doing better at it lol. The past year I gave up on trying to win people over, trying to empress people. I have been told im awesome once you get to know me, so I'm playing that card, and if they dont like it then it wasnt meant to be. so no sweat off my back anymore, i turned to steel lol. Christ has shown me humility and I work that well. I have no problems making myself look like a fool if its not at my expense, meaning, if i do it for a girl or a friend i dont mind, but if im the butt of a joke thats when it gets to me. but ya just be yourself, and if guys cant hang or keep up with the 21st century girl then they need to try again at a later time when they are ready.


Well I asked my now wife to go to church with me on our 1st date. O I was head over heals with her after I 1st saw her. She was Mattaku Kawaii
Moderator
3852 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / southern california
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
haha, i used that Kawaii phrase before but then felt retarded when she stared at me blankly, and i had to explain. Here's a question whats the deffinition of a date, because I have taken girls to church before, but i never thought of it as a date-esk thing to do.
Moderator
10834 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Mare Serenitatis...
Offline
Posted 5/30/08
it it but it isn't. If yo ureally dating the girl then yeha I guess it sorta is but if you're just bringing her to expose her to god then I don't think it is. I brought a guy to chruch and I didn't think it was a date.
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.