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what is the point of having a boyfriend(girlfriend) when you are always hurt at the end?
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....can i ask you of your opinions on this?
--the experience sis!

....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
--because the remedy for love is to love more...

....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
--age doesn't measure maturity..
--it is the experience

.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?
--yep..after college for me that is..
Posted 5/25/08
Idk. I thought about that today too.

But I guess it's because we're human...In other
words, we're desperate?

We all seek that special feeling of being with
someone and being happy.

Like right now for example, I really don't know why
I'm still clinging onto my relationship with my bf. And
all day today, I thought about this.."Do I really need
my bf? and Why I was doubting myself?"

Then I realized I like being single, but I also like
being with someone who I can talk to. Then again,
you have friends for that so why are we in a relationship?
Because that person knows us better prbbly even
more than our friends.

No doubt, I like recieving love, but
I like giving it out more.
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You learn from your mistakes
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quynhie wrote:

people want to experience what love feels like. something along that line. dating, breaking up, getting hurt, its a part of life.

sort of like practice for the real thing ( marraige )


I quite agree what you talking about.But i think people will find boyfriend/girlfriend when they are sad/breaking up because they need other people to comfort them but that is my opinion only...
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because we're human. sometimes we don't learn from our mistakes and, without warning, make the same mistake again.
Posted 5/25/08
why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
Unless you intend to die alone, fine.
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myLook wrote:

Idk. I thought about that today too.

But I guess it's because we're human...In other
words, we're desperate?

We all seek that special feeling of being with
someone and being happy.

Like right now for example, I really don't know why
I'm still clinging onto my relationship with my bf. And
all day today, I thought about this.."Do I really need
my bf? and Why I was doubting myself?"

Then I realized I like being single, but I also like
being with someone who I can talk to. Then again,
you have friends for that so why are we in a relationship?
Because that person knows us better prbbly even
more than our friends.

No doubt, I like recieving love, but
I like giving it out more.


Hmm, u like your explanation.In between i also like being single because if u have gf,u need to think about her,care about her, and try to make her not angry.Sometime it is very tired..... but that is my opinion only.
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Posted 5/25/08
because they dont want to feel lonely..
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reiDES wrote:

why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
Unless you intend to die alone, fine.


I think people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one because they are upset and the soul are empty(in Chinese is 心灵空虚...sorry if i using broken English).So they need to find some1 to fill up his/her emptiness....That was i thought.
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Sex.
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why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?

hahaha puppy love...make me think again..i dunno wat the answer for this answer lol..XP
Posted 5/25/08

AnimeLover999 Hmm, u like your explanation.In between i also like being single because if u have gf,u need to think about her,care about her, and try to make her not angry.Sometime it is very tired..... but that is my opinion only.


Lol. That's very true. But you have to admit that "boys/guys/males" whichever
name you want to call it lol are very hard to take care of too
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geeene_16 wrote:

People need to procreate/copulate/fornicate so they get boyfriends or girlfriends and maybe in the future husbands or wives. (-_-")

Young people get into those things maybe because of peer pressure or they're lonely, they dislike their family, they're horny, or they're curious.

I think the right time is up to the person's maturity level.
And being hurt is unavoidable. You need to get hurt in some way to learn from it.


I think the same
Posted 5/25/08 , edited 5/25/08

eynge wrote:

....can i ask you of your opinions on this?
....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?




(this just popped out of nowhere,,, sorry,,, )


1. They need a rebound guy/girl to help them feel better.
2. They think it makes them cool.
3. I think whenever it's fine so long as the person is mature and ready. Too many immature little brats getting into relationships and end up popping out bastards these days.

Well, that's just my pessimistic view on all this. I could look on the bright side, but I choose not to.
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....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
Because you shouldn't give up the whole forest for one tree.
....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
Because they think they're mature enough to handle it-which in most cases, fail because of this naive thought.
.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?
When it happens, it happens-there's no particular time.
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