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what is the point of having a boyfriend(girlfriend) when you are always hurt at the end?
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Posted 5/25/08
haha i think ts's stand is too extreme. you don't always get hurt. i have friends who are happily enjoying their first relationship from young til now.

i think the best period of time to have a boyf/girlf is during uni studies. because both parties are old enough to know what's good and reasonable for each other. they'll know what's the best thing to do etc. unlike for relationships for students attending secondary schools, where both parties are still young and immature.

it's a risk worth taking, and even though personally i've been hurt before, i still want to take the risk. because the payoffs are a lifelong soulmate
Posted 5/25/08
it's a part of life

when your hurt just move forward because being downed by problems will just make you life hell ~_~
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Posted 5/25/08
Thrill of the ride.
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Posted 5/26/08
....can i ask you of your opinions on this?
-sure why not?

....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
-because they simply want to move on and love again

....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
-well..they think they are "in-love" and some of them,just for fun,experience,you know..

.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?
-i believe that love knows no time
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Posted 5/26/08

eynge wrote:

....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?





Because no none likes to be lonly
The same reason
There is no on exact time for all of us - it is wery individual for each of us and only yourself can cedide when right time comes
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Posted 5/26/08

eynge wrote:

....can i ask you of your opinions on this?
....why do people still look for boyfriends or girlfriends even if they were already hurt with the previous one?
....why do people get in to relationships though they are still very young?
.....when is really the right time to have or get in to boyfriend and girlfriend thing? or is there really a particular time or not?





(OPINION)- do not expect everyone will share the same thought on the matter

I got bored and thought to give it a go.

You just did. But sure, why not.

It's what you gain from love. Romance. Memories. Empathy. Ability to trust and more. Things you can understand only by love. Love serves as different thing for people; loneliness, lust, pressure, whatever.

Immature puppy love, they don't understand its importance or realize it'll fail. Or too impatient or pressured to be in a relationship.

Love doesn't follow time or convenience, it just happens but you can feel it grow.
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Posted 5/26/08 , edited 5/26/08
ok not EVERYONE gets hurt in the end. true, breakups maybe painful but most of the people that get hurt are hurt because of the way they broke up like the other person cheated or something. But yea when people are about to break up, they tend to like blow everything up to be bigger than it is and both parties are just hurt more in the end as a result.

But back on topic, being in a relationship feels great and if anything im willing to feel that pain of a break-up for a short time if it means i can be in a meaningful relationship for a long time.
Posted 5/26/08
People don't give up their hopes on love. Obviously he/she wasn't the right one, and there is still someone out there for everyone. So why stop looking?

Everyone is different. Age is a very important aspect to relationships, but whether they are mature enough to be able to properly have one is a big matter too. And besides, their outlook on the whole 'relationship & love' thing will hopefully be a lot better as they grow older.

There is no right time to start a relationship, as everyone is different thus it being different for everyone. And trust me, you know when the time comes.
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Posted 5/26/08
they feel lyke it

smart kids dat dont waste none of their youth

its ur decision if u want one or not

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Posted 5/29/08
i totally agree with u!
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Posted 5/29/08
What's the point? Because sometimes journey is more important than the destination itself.
Posted 5/29/08
well, finding love is all about risk and taking chances. getting hurt is inevitable. you cant avoid getting hurt, but just because you got hurt doesnt mean you have to give up completely.

young people get into relationships young cuz they feel like they have to in order to fit in, or cuz they think they can handle it, but they cant.


And the right time to get into a relationship is when the both of you are mature enough and can handle a relationship and know whats implicated being in one
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Posted 6/1/08
hmm. it's for the experience. E-X-P-E-R-I-E-N-C-E
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Posted 6/20/08 , edited 6/20/08
sumtimes ppl do it cuz they think its cool and bein in a relationship means ur a man. Thats how it usually is around here... Im actually looking 4 serious relationships even tho im 14 I know I'll break up later but the memories I'll receive is worth it. Besides who ever said that if I break up I'll get hurt? We'll might b able 2 stay friends maybe

also when ur in love u have a special person.. a person no 1 else can do 4 u only that person ur in love with
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Posted 6/22/08
Here's my opinions...

I don't know. Maybe because deep down, every one wants to find that one person, than we can honestly say: "No matter what happens, I want to stay with them."
Even though the end result will probably be the same...
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When it happens, it happens. Some of us have control over these kinds of things, other don't.
But, when it does happen, we're always happy...at least for the time being.
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Love finds everyone at different times. It's up to the person if they're ready or not.
If you're not ready for one, don't go out looking.
If you are ready, than try and find that someone. They're out there somewhere...you just have to look.
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It's weird coming from me,
But, I believe that a special someone is out there, waiting for all of us...maybe closer than you think?


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*shivers.*
I just read this over, and it still feels weird coming from a guy like me. -__-
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