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Dealing with illogical actions
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Posted 2/9/07
This might be a VERY weird toic...but hey...

Does your parents/boyfriend/girlfriend/friend don't let you do the littlest or simplest things?!? They try to control you and get mad at you over the littlest thing?!?

Like they say "why you go on this or that site" and have a huge argument over it, when it's such a small matter.


For example, just a few hours ago, my husband and I had a argument about me uploading videos on this site. I was uploading a video and it was 98% done then he stops it. I was like WTF...!!! He makes such a big deal over it, like why do you do it, what's your reason, and what do you get out of it. GOOD thing he doesn't know i uped over 150 vids. But yeah....he's becoming too controling like whoaaaa..... I wasn't mad at the fact that he stopped the uploading, it's the fact that's he gets controlling and overreacted over small things...

Anybody ever go through something similiar?!?
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Posted 2/9/07
That sucks big, that kind of stuff your talking about doesn't happen to me anymore since I live by myself. The only people that seem to control my life is the wierd pack of neighbours I have. They don't sleep, and its not uncommon for me to get a knock at 3:00 AM asking me to go out to some random place in a part of the city you don't wanna be in at a certain hour.
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Posted 2/9/07
Maybe he thinks you don't spend enough time with him. Most of the time people end up argueing and by the time their done they don't even remember what they were argueing about. But you should just talk to him.


Don't you think this is sorta what you should solve on your own?
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Posted 2/9/07

rawrrusuck wrote:

Maybe he thinks you don't spend enough time with him. Most of the time people end up argueing and by the time their done they don't even remember what they were argueing about. But you should just talk to him.


Don't you think this is sorta what you should solve on your own?


daddy's wise

But more seriously, talking about it about the only real solution. When I was younger I used to have that problem with my parents all the time. We never talked about ti and pretty much faught constantly. But as I grew up they got abit less protective and controlling. That won't work in your case, and it is quickest to talk and figure out what the root of the problem is.

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Posted 5/22/08
my parents used to be over-protective...

you just need to learn show them you are mature enough t take care f yourself...
Posted 5/22/08
my money thieving parents think they can tell me where to work, what to do, how much of thier car payments i should pay, etc. etc.
but thats only the smallest of thier personality problems.
My way of solving things is my plan to disappear without notice, and leave no way of communication.
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Posted 5/22/08
Nope. Im single now. And my parents dont really bother with what I do on the net. Though sometimes, my mother ask me "Who do you keep talking too?" But thats bout it.

Im no expert but maybe try talking nicely to him?
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Posted 5/22/08
My mom still nag at me if I dont go to bed at 12am.... -.-
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Posted 5/24/08 , edited 5/24/08
All you say is... "Mind your own business you sons of bitches?! So what if I'm an alcoholic??!!"
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Posted 5/24/08
erm wel I'm gona go with what just about everybody else said, u need to talk to him about it before it gets too out of hand and you both end up resenting eachother or something ^^
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Posted 5/24/08
i ignore illogical actions
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Posted 5/24/08
this is why i don't do dating.
my family doesn't make a fuss and the only problem with my friends is my hair they seem like they can't ignore.
Posted 5/24/08
my father is overly strict
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Posted 5/24/08
it's either I deal with it or ignore it.

like hell one time my teacher asked, "okay, who wants to be the room president?"

my classmate stands up and said, "me."

okay, what the hell is your reason?

he replied, "I'm the biggest, so I'm the boss!" hands on waist, stomping like an old rhinocerus =____="
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Posted 5/24/08
my mom is really a very-over-over protective person... hate it... she dosn't even allow me to join karate or something when the teacher is a boy... i kept telling her that even if he(the teacher) is a boy... he's there to teach... and she also get mad when i'm near boys(even if it is just my cousin) and playing with them.... urgh!
but my dad don't really care....so my mom decides things....--->because she had a really high self confidence<--- enough to kill me....
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