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Solbi is hurt because of “stupid image”
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If anybody thinks/judges her as stupid, you have no manners, or respect.
I just hope that those people who call her mean things and judge her
would see how cold they act. And how ignorant.
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organicangelalexial wrote:

um she seems pretty stupid in "We Got Married"......

and isn't that supposed to be her true self?

if she doesn't want to be seen as being stupid then maybe she shouldn't make really stupid comments and fawn all over andy like some house cat in heat..... women are always thought less of by men when they act in such a manner..... (and by a few women with brains enough to know that worshipping a man too much takes the fun out of it for him.... noone likes things too easy....)

and also i hated how she mentioned that when she wants to get married she will quit her job of being famous and concentrate on being a house-wife and taking care of her husband.....

I mean if that isn't stupid sounding for a young woman who is famous i dont know what is.....

i guess you could lay the blame largely if not partly on the fact that she is in a largely asian community which seems pretty misogynist in its views of women (like most asian countries can be if not are) and women can be brought up to be subservient ..... but even i would like to think that some women who did grow up in such circumstances won't totally bend to such stereo-typing....

but in the end she is just a person who is living in a korean man's world with really harsh people who seem really judgie maybe....

but if she is showing her true self on we got married ..... she really needs to take some lessons on how to get and keep a man.... (well at least at seducing one)

i dont know if its just me but i really cant stand women acting really clingie and pushy and so obvious in their liking of a person because that same man who is getting such attention will think that way of alot of women if that is all he expieriences in this world.... or at least of her..

what can seem really stupid though is for her to show that she is so hurt by this... it only fuels those who make such statements and gives them some sort of satisfaction....

she should become stronger than that.


She seems stupid in wgm... i really can't understand from what you got this idea. i watched every episode and i read your comment and it just seems to me that you don't think the same as her in matter of confessing and marriage life. But if a persons doesn't share your opinion it doesn't mean she's stupid. Or else i'd consider almost everyone around me stupid. . Actually i like her because many female celebrities tend to be so conservative in order not to be criticized and she exposed her true way of thinking and of feeling without being scared that this will bring her anti's (which it did, of course).You just called honesty stupidity. And if she gets more stronger then this she'd be wonderwoman. . i consider her one of the strongest women i ever heard of and i admire her for this.

And quiting after marriage.. i think it' s a sacrifice she would do because she wants a family. I can't imagine how she can have a family if she keeps her current schedule. She's busy from early morning till late night. So i this is not a stupid thing to be done but a loving act towards her future family.
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Check out my other comment too.
I'm still steaming from what that other person said, that I quoted.
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YuNhO_4EvA wrote:

Check out my other comment too.
I'm still steaming from what that other person said, that I quoted.


i read all your 3 comments and i'm glad that you defended Solbi. It's good to see people loving her for who she is. When i read that comment i was thinking really: is this person jocking?". It didn't even talk about her intelligence, just about her way of acting towards "seducing man" ( probably we are talking to an expert that's way) and her opinion about marriage, which is just personal belief and not something to be commented upon. It really got me out of my nerves that comment
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if she kept her smile and shrugged such comments off like specks of dust though and said "you know what i am me and anyone who wants to think i am something i am not that is their problem not mine! , because i know who i am and thats all that matters." she would feel better.

Thats what you said.

Now, if the show is about her being truthful. Then that, would be a lie.
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But of course, I am not saying that she should totally be depressed and let the comments wear her down. I'm saying she shouldn't just blow them off like nothing. It would hurt her, but I think its okay that she expresses that a bit. And plus, I don't think she would cry about it if it was nothing, like you describe it to be.
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organicangelalexial wrote:

um she seems pretty stupid in "We Got Married"......

and isn't that supposed to be her true self?

if she doesn't want to be seen as being stupid then maybe she shouldn't make really stupid comments and fawn all over andy like some house cat in heat..... women are always thought less of by men when they act in such a manner..... (and by a few women with brains enough to know that worshipping a man too much takes the fun out of it for him.... noone likes things too easy....)

and also i hated how she mentioned that when she wants to get married she will quit her job of being famous and concentrate on being a house-wife and taking care of her husband.....

I mean if that isn't stupid sounding for a young woman who is famous i dont know what is.....

i guess you could lay the blame largely if not partly on the fact that she is in a largely asian community which seems pretty misogynist in its views of women (like most asian countries can be if not are) and women can be brought up to be subservient ..... but even i would like to think that some women who did grow up in such circumstances won't totally bend to such stereo-typing....

but in the end she is just a person who is living in a korean man's world with really harsh people who seem really judgie maybe....

but if she is showing her true self on we got married ..... she really needs to take some lessons on how to get and keep a man.... (well at least at seducing one)

i dont know if its just me but i really cant stand women acting really clingie and pushy and so obvious in their liking of a person because that same man who is getting such attention will think that way of alot of women if that is all he expieriences in this world.... or at least of her..

what can seem really stupid though is for her to show that she is so hurt by this... it only fuels those who make such statements and gives them some sort of satisfaction....

she should become stronger than that.


She seems stupid in wgm... i really can't understand from what you got this idea. i watched every episode and i read your comment and it just seems to me that you don't think the same as her in matter of confessing and marriage life. But if a persons doesn't share your opinion it doesn't mean she's stupid. Or else i'd consider almost everyone around me stupid. . Actually i like her because many female celebrities tend to be so conservative in order not to be criticized and she exposed her true way of thinking and of feeling without being scared that this will bring her anti's (which it did, of course).You just called honesty stupidity. And if she gets more stronger then this she'd be wonderwoman. . i consider her one of the strongest women i ever heard of and i admire her for this.

And quiting after marriage.. i think it' s a sacrifice she would do because she wants a family. I can't imagine how she can have a family if she keeps her current schedule. She's busy from early morning till late night. So i this is not a stupid thing to be done but a loving act towards her future family.
as YuNhO_4EvA said: Solbi-unnie, FIGHTING






i didnt mean to say i disliked her ... but i guess after re-reading my post i come off really harsh like i do irl .....

I am rather blunt and cant hold my tongue but i didnt actually call her stupid but i think some of her actions can be seen as such....

i just was really disappointed in her too when she mentioned in the special that after she gets married she wants to stop being famouse and concentrate on supporting her husband....

i guess i just wouldnt want to live for a man/...... i mean what if she gets divorced what will she do "un-retire" and be famouse again?

to me that is not a smart life plan which can support her if things dont work out.....

and um i pretty much posted in response to stuff with someone else which pretty much states what i wish to express...

she is honest... this is true but too much honesty is not always a good thing .... its like too revealing making people critically aware of your actions.... but again i wasnt alluding to this as her attributing factor as to why i thought some of her actions could be seen as being stupid....


and i hate to say it but men always look down on women as being the weaker sex and stupider sex all the time whether your in america, or korea, or alot of places.... its just in our nature to be critical ....

and well i really dont know what else to say.
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aww, Solbi isn't stupid.
She just likes to play around.
People can be so ugly... D:<
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i thought that she was a lil bit 'blur' when i first saw her in love letter but then i i realized that she is one smart and quick witted girl when i saw her 'smashed' park myung soo in one of the new xman game (cant remember the name of the game) . i really like the way she pretended not to know anyting when myung soo tried to attack her with his 'psychology/knowledge' game. she is one smart girl and i like her a lot so solbi fighting!!
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Posted 6/29/08
may be she is silly, not stupid.
fighting. i love you,solbi.
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she's silly to me but that's what i like about her she doesnt seem stupid.
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She's not stupid at all!
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i don't think solbi is stupid at all...................
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Posted 7/15/08
I dont think she is stupid at all, there is a different between acting and real life
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Aww... poor Solbi. I love her on the show, she's so real..... I think she's very smart. I don't think she's dumb at all. Her and Andy are my Favs!!!! SHe seems to sho w her real self and real emotions. Which is endearing. JIA YO Solbi!!!!!!!!
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