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Posted 6/12/08
thank u! i hope it wasn't all too confusing tho. welcome and nice to meet u, if u have any questions/suggestions, feel free to ask!
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Posted 6/12/08

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thank u! i hope it wasn't all too confusing tho. welcome and nice to meet u, if u have any questions/suggestions, feel free to ask! :D


I'm back, professor with more question but what are the triggers of love?, like the saying "love on first sight" or around those points.
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Posted 6/13/08

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icekrystal06 wrote:

thank u! i hope it wasn't all too confusing tho. welcome and nice to meet u, if u have any questions/suggestions, feel free to ask! :D


I'm back, professor with more question but what are the triggers of love?, like the saying "love on first sight" or around those points.

well I'm not teacher but mind if I but in...at "love at first sight" it has to hit you...like you just feel it's something there,and it's all about chemistry,the way you click with a person..though I do think it's rare it's the best trigger to love...it can be something simple like a smile and you just fall in love with that,or something more complex that stirs everything up...
Posted 6/13/08

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psyopslayerx wrote:


icekrystal06 wrote:

thank u! i hope it wasn't all too confusing tho. welcome and nice to meet u, if u have any questions/suggestions, feel free to ask! :D


I'm back, professor with more question but what are the triggers of love?, like the saying "love on first sight" or around those points.

well I'm not teacher but mind if I but in...at "love at first sight" it has to hit you...like you just feel it's something there,and it's all about chemistry,the way you click with a person..though I do think it's rare it's the best trigger to love...it can be something simple like a smile and you just fall in love with that,or something more complex that stirs everything up...


interesting... i agree with you, and i don't mind you butting in, it's good that we can all share our ideas. people fall in love at merely a glance at someone, or a smile, it's hard to say why ,but the key is in our heart and desires. Everyone falls in love differently, some people falls in love instantly, and as instantly they fall in love, they lose interest and falls out of love, some other people, falls in love more slowly and likes a more steady approach, which can sometimes keep their relationships longer. Because love is such a complicated matter and everyone has different standards, desires and a different heart, everyone is different and there's no definite answer for why we fall in love. But as lys46 stated, it's about chemistry and the way you click with a certain person, and this is also why people have "soulmates" they are basically a person you were bound to by heart and love. We can't prove that there are such things but people consider it to be so.
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Posted 6/15/08
hi my real name is Aurora but u'll can call me aura.
i have a question who came up with the idea of soulmates?
Posted 6/16/08

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hi my real name is Aurora but u'll can call me aura.
i have a question who came up with the idea of soulmates?


Hi Aura! Welcome!! well, the answer to your question, it's hard to say... because not everyone agreed on the fact that soulmates even existed, there weren't really any records to who came up with the idea and when it started. For all we know, it could have started hundreds of years ago, or maybe it doesn't even exist1 Maybe they didn't even call it soulmates back then. Even now, people still argue over the fact if soulmates exist or not. Some say they definitely do, and some says they don't. I'm guessing because the meaning of soulmates are very similar to the meanings of what we call "the perfect couple" or what we call "true love" it gets mixed up. Some people claim the perfect couple is an classic example of soulmates. As to if it's true or not, we don't know. Because they are called soulmates, they're not actually supposed to know who their so called "the one perfect for them" is, or else it wouldn't exactly make sense. I know it's very confusing but i really don't think there's a definite answer to your question. we can only make assumptions, but we don't know for sure.
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Posted 6/16/08
k thanks Ice
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ur very welcome ^^
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Posted 6/17/08 , edited 6/17/08
well you can say if you believe in true love that soul mates existed since forever...people just name them so we can define them...you can believe in the so called soul mate or not,they represent what true love is supposed to mean-destined love,perfection!the matched souls to create love!
I would like to believe soul mates exist,but then again some search for them all their life and they never find them...let's put it this way,if God created Eve especially for Adam,maybe he made for every each of us a perfect pair!
Posted 6/17/08

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well you can say if you believe in true love that soul mates existed since forever...people just name them so we can define them...you can believe in the so called soul mate or not,they represent what true love is supposed to mean-destined love,perfection!the matched souls to create love!
I would like to believe soul mates exist,but then again some search for them all their life and they never find them...let's put it this way,if God created Eve especially for Adam,maybe he made for every each of us a perfect pair!


very nicely said!! ^^ i understand what u mean. It's probably very true that there's the perfect person out there for every one of us... but to say who they are and where they are... nobody knows and sometimes, i believe if you keep looking for them, u'll never find them. But if u just try to live ur life to the fullest everyday and be happy, that one person will come along to you. So don't worry about never finding the "one" but focus on ur own life instead... trust me, that perfect one will come along soon, for all of us! >_^ Just don't lose hope, altho sometimes it feels like it's really the end and nobody wants to date u, it's not the end just yet. Be patient and wait for them, they'll eventually come along.
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Posted 6/18/08

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lys46 wrote:

well you can say if you believe in true love that soul mates existed since forever...people just name them so we can define them...you can believe in the so called soul mate or not,they represent what true love is supposed to mean-destined love,perfection!the matched souls to create love!
I would like to believe soul mates exist,but then again some search for them all their life and they never find them...let's put it this way,if God created Eve especially for Adam,maybe he made for every each of us a perfect pair!


very nicely said!! ^^ i understand what u mean. It's probably very true that there's the perfect person out there for every one of us... but to say who they are and where they are... nobody knows and sometimes, i believe if you keep looking for them, u'll never find them. But if u just try to live ur life to the fullest everyday and be happy, that one person will come along to you. So don't worry about never finding the "one" but focus on ur own life instead... trust me, that perfect one will come along soon, for all of us! >_^ Just don't lose hope, altho sometimes it feels like it's really the end and nobody wants to date u, it's not the end just yet. Be patient and wait for them, they'll eventually come along. :D


I agree with what you said..it's all about having fun and if the right girl or guy comes the better...if not take advantage of what you already have...
Posted 6/26/08

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icekrystal06 wrote:


lys46 wrote:

well you can say if you believe in true love that soul mates existed since forever...people just name them so we can define them...you can believe in the so called soul mate or not,they represent what true love is supposed to mean-destined love,perfection!the matched souls to create love!
I would like to believe soul mates exist,but then again some search for them all their life and they never find them...let's put it this way,if God created Eve especially for Adam,maybe he made for every each of us a perfect pair!


very nicely said!! ^^ i understand what u mean. It's probably very true that there's the perfect person out there for every one of us... but to say who they are and where they are... nobody knows and sometimes, i believe if you keep looking for them, u'll never find them. But if u just try to live ur life to the fullest everyday and be happy, that one person will come along to you. So don't worry about never finding the "one" but focus on ur own life instead... trust me, that perfect one will come along soon, for all of us! >_^ Just don't lose hope, altho sometimes it feels like it's really the end and nobody wants to date u, it's not the end just yet. Be patient and wait for them, they'll eventually come along. :D


I agree with what you said..it's all about having fun and if the right girl or guy comes the better...if not take advantage of what you already have...


Exactly! But then again, love is a complicated thing, and sometimes people aren't as nice as they seem.As we all know, the world is not perfect and of course, the people on earth are not perfect either. Maybe some are a little better than others, but there will always be people who don't follow the rules and likes to cheat. Finding the perfect partner really isn't that easy. it takes time, strength and courage. If u really know how and when to let go, and know when's the right time to grasp the chance, then u are a true and great lover. sometimes, it's better to let go of them than to force them to love u back. When u and ur partner are forcing to love each other, the magic of the relationship eventually will diminish and turn to dust. As i said before, luck also has a great effect on love, but it isn't all when it comes just take it. Sometimes u have to wait for the right timing. Timing is also a great element of love. Love is really complicated when u think about it deeply, ppl who doesn't understand love will not understand how to love. But there's not need to think about all of these things when ur in love. When u are in love, it's best to let urself go and love freely, that way there wouldn't be so much weight on one's shoulders. After all, love should be relaxing, happy, calm and most important, free.

Btw, i luv ur avii! Ren looks hot!!
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Posted 6/26/08 , edited 6/26/08

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lys46 wrote:


icekrystal06 wrote:


lys46 wrote:

well you can say if you believe in true love that soul mates existed since forever...people just name them so we can define them...you can believe in the so called soul mate or not,they represent what true love is supposed to mean-destined love,perfection!the matched souls to create love!
I would like to believe soul mates exist,but then again some search for them all their life and they never find them...let's put it this way,if God created Eve especially for Adam,maybe he made for every each of us a perfect pair!


very nicely said!! ^^ i understand what u mean. It's probably very true that there's the perfect person out there for every one of us... but to say who they are and where they are... nobody knows and sometimes, i believe if you keep looking for them, u'll never find them. But if u just try to live ur life to the fullest everyday and be happy, that one person will come along to you. So don't worry about never finding the "one" but focus on ur own life instead... trust me, that perfect one will come along soon, for all of us! >_^ Just don't lose hope, altho sometimes it feels like it's really the end and nobody wants to date u, it's not the end just yet. Be patient and wait for them, they'll eventually come along. :D


I agree with what you said..it's all about having fun and if the right girl or guy comes the better...if not take advantage of what you already have...


Exactly! But then again, love is a complicated thing, and sometimes people aren't as nice as they seem.As we all know, the world is not perfect and of course, the people on earth are not perfect either. Maybe some are a little better than others, but there will always be people who don't follow the rules and likes to cheat. Finding the perfect partner really isn't that easy. it takes time, strength and courage. If u really know how and when to let go, and know when's the right time to grasp the chance, then u are a true and great lover. sometimes, it's better to let go of them than to force them to love u back. When u and ur partner are forcing to love each other, the magic of the relationship eventually will diminish and turn to dust. As i said before, luck also has a great effect on love, but it isn't all when it comes just take it. Sometimes u have to wait for the right timing. Timing is also a great element of love. Love is really complicated when u think about it deeply, ppl who doesn't understand love will not understand how to love. But there's not need to think about all of these things when ur in love. When u are in love, it's best to let urself go and love freely, that way there wouldn't be so much weight on one's shoulders. After all, love should be relaxing, happy, calm and most important, free.

Btw, i luv ur avii! Ren looks hot!!

I agree with what you just said...maybe we're jumping topics but still...about forced love,it's the worst kind of love...I think love is like a symbol of freedom...you can love a person,not taking into account race,age,social position,why not gender..you have to let go of someone if the relationship seems forced and not cling to the other...Love for me has no logic whatsoever....when it happens it can be your doom or your heaven..that's why it's so painful at times but it can also be a bliss...I agree about the timing,it can be your perfect person but some things can quickly turn that around and making it impossible...finding the right person or at least someone close to it is really hard to do and that's how we return to our starting topic the soulmates...

thanks...he's gorgeous isn't he!
Posted 7/13/08 , edited 7/13/08

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I agree with what you just said...maybe we're jumping topics but still...about forced love,it's the worst kind of love...I think love is like a symbol of freedom...you can love a person,not taking into account race,age,social position,why not gender..you have to let go of someone if the relationship seems forced and not cling to the other...Love for me has no logic whatsoever....when it happens it can be your doom or your heaven..that's why it's so painful at times but it can also be a bliss...I agree about the timing,it can be your perfect person but some things can quickly turn that around and making it impossible...finding the right person or at least someone close to it is really hard to do and that's how we return to our starting topic the soulmates...

thanks...he's gorgeous isn't he!


Yup, sorry guys for the late reply, life is busy >.< but anyways, ur correct. It's funny how when u talk about love, most topics lead back to soulmates and that "right person" for you. After all, it's all we need and want when we think of love. Someone to be with, to spend the rest of ur life with. Sometimes, that can sound intimidating. to think that u could be spending the rest of ur life with whoever ur with right now. But as i said before, don't think too hard, it'll make everything worse and u'll start to hallucinate and mislead urself with questions like " do i really want to do that?" "maybe he/she's just pretending to love me and is actually playing with me!" "i should break up with him/her because he/she doesn't love me!" etc, and it'll really make everything go down the slope. Just take it easy and enjoy what u have with ur loved ones and when the time comes to let go, just break it off, and yeah, letting go is probably a hard thing to do, but not doing it makes it worst.
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