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Posted 6/12/08
Really, why does people has to be so mean to other when we can live off nicely without having a total b**ch or a jerk ruining your day?
Yes, I know, maybe this question sounds a bit dumb but today this guy just was such a total jerk.

**Flashback**
So it was a self-study period and I sat down with Jayson, a guy I used to like (and I still do.. just a bit) and we're friends. Sitting beside him there was Tim, a really "hot" emo-ish skater guy (he sounds wonderful doesn't he.. meh, not my type >.>) also friends with Jayson.
They were cutting paper men (haha yep, Jayson is so childish but he's also cute and funny) and when I sat down Tim told me "what are doing?" a bit rudely.
"Um, I'm just sitting.." I said. "Shut up!" he said. "Um, why should I shut up??" >.> "Mhh, because I'm bored". (Ha.. nothing better to do?) "Yeah.. so?" "Shut up". I roll my eyes and look at Jayson.. he's in his own world cutting little men (way to help, Jay).
So to make it short, Tim just keeps getting rude and also presumingly insulted me.
That was it. I was mad so I ignored him. And guess what? Jayson didn't help at all.
It was pretty weird Tim usually is ok with me, not extra-friendly but at least a bit nice.

Anyways my point is, I know people gets mean because of anger or jealousy, etc; but does people just gets mean because they're bored too?? What's up with that???
Posted 6/12/08
Some people enjoy the pain that other men/woman feels.
They like to feed off of it with makes them bitter.
Or they are usually bored and thinks it's fun and when you start to fight they make up some lie about it.
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Point short don't mind them and your friend was probably in his own little world not thinking really. Your closest friends woulda backed you up and next time stand up for yourself and tell him/her [incase of female] to leave you alone. Or for laughs and to get him off of you just yell harassment if he touches you and your friends will help you.


I hope that helps. ^^
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Posted 6/13/08
Um, regarding the

enjoy pain that other men/women feel.
does that mean they masochist? xD
Jokes apart, yeah probably they think it's soo cool and fun, but I would like to see how that would feel. >.>
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Yeah that's what I though so too, my closest friends would've backed me up double>.>
Haha, "harassment!!" but what if s/he didn't touch me at all?
Posted 6/13/08
Eh at least they'd know to leave you alone. At any means nessecary.
Posted 6/14/08 , edited 6/14/08
its just because Tim is trying hard to live like an Emo.
trying to transcend his life into the emo side.
he's pushing himself to be something that he's not.
he doesn't enjoy pain he's acting a bad ass coz he think it's emo-ish
and emo-ish is cool for him.
he probably can't handle the real life of an emo (not that i am)
you can find a lot of those in the CR chatroom.
idk what the heck is happening to the youth today.
yeah just ignore him.
he'll realize one day when his emo phase passes away and
how pathetic he is.
and you could talk to Jayson about how Tim acted and
why he didn't defended you.
i think its probably coz he got used to Tim and thought it was okay with you.
then let Jayson talk to Tim about being nice to you.
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Posted 6/14/08

princess_cristine wrote:

its just because Tim is trying hard to live like an Emo.
trying to transcend his life into the emo side.
he's pushing himself to be something that he's not.
he doesn't enjoy pain he's acting a bad ass coz he think it's emo-ish
and emo-ish is cool for him.
he probably can't handle the real life of an emo (not that i am)
you can find a lot of those in the CR chatroom.
idk what the heck is happening to the youth today.
yeah just ignore him.
he'll realize one day when his emo phase passes away and
how pathetic he is.
and you could talk to Jayson about how Tim acted and
why he didn't defended you.
i think its probably coz he got used to Tim and thought it was okay with you.
then let Jayson talk to Tim about being nice to you.


Wow, that was.. illuminating, but still u know some boys just don't want to make such a drama out of little things.. what if i become annoying? O.o Actually he doesn't act emo, he's always social and smiles.. and he's random too. The only thing thing "emo" about him is how he dresses and the hair. Still it was really rude and mean of him. >:(
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Posted 6/15/08
Speaking in the way a shrink would, I would tell you that he might feel threatened by you if Jayson seems to like you more than him, but thats just one possibility.
Another would be he was just having a bad day or maybe he didn't approve of something you did earlier.
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Posted 6/16/08
Hey, probably! He seems to be really close to Jayson lately...
p.s. i didn`t do anything to him actually before.
Posted 6/20/08
wow i made it obvious that i hate emo posers..
the greatest solution about it..
is to talk to him or with jayson..
everything can be resolved with a simple conversation..

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Posted 6/21/08
I think you're right, I already talked to the dude (Tim) and I think he's not going to bother me anymore...
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