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Can having an affair save a relationship?
Posted 6/14/08
watch school days to get your "answer"
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Posted 6/14/08
Uh, nope that would never ever ever work. Because if I was cheated on, that would only make me want to divorce them straight out. It would never fix the problem, and would make it 100 times worse than it already was. I wouldn't be able to trust my spouse again, so why would having an affair save it. If anything it'd make me get really angry and emotional and irrational. You wouldn't want to do that to someone who might get violent or homicidal. Affairs can cause people to lose their mind, you can often hear about wives killing a husband who had an affair, or husbands killing off wives, or husbands deciding to kill their wives when they want to have an affair and don't want to pay divorce alimony. Though these are probably don't happen a ton in real life, but you see them on tv or murder shows a lot. So, considering it's been thought of, chances are it could happen to you.
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Posted 6/14/08
What kind of stupid ass question is this?!







Of course it'll save them, thats an awesome idea!!
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Posted 6/21/08
of course not daaaaaaaaaah
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Posted 6/21/08
I say yes but that is a rare yes like if it was your best friend i would be like "oh hell no" and some one would end up hurt but I mean for its depends on the situation

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Posted 11/21/08


that would totally ruin the relationship..
if you wanna save it..
why do it that way?
duh!
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Posted 11/21/08
No, a relationship is based on trust. If you assume that an affair or changing sex partners might spice things up, you're dead wrong, you'll be welcoming jealousy and distrust. Your wife/husband is your partner, a wrecking relationship requires discussion and understanding to sort the problems, they ought to understand since they agreed on this relationship in the first place. A relationship shouldn't be so easily wrecked in the first place anyway because once you get into one, you love the person for who she/he really is. Although you've seen their true image, you continue to love them and cherish the feelings you have. Think twice before you start a relationship, its a new life between two people that is to be taken seriously.
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Posted 11/21/08
more like end it for good
Posted 11/21/08
i think this is a simple NOO answer
Posted 11/21/08
No offense. This is a dumb question. And goes with the other dumb topic/thread of cheating on someone. Dump the person your with before you totally fuck up and do something that you will regret. Don't do that to someone. That wouldn't prove anything except how much of a dipshit you are. If you have problems in a relationship you talk about things. At least that is the real mature thing to do.
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Posted 11/21/08
no i don't think so.

unless they have already cheated on you, then it might just even out the universe
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Posted 11/21/08
read an article a about a couple who did this and it saved their marrige!! so I guess it depends on how strong the couple is!
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Posted 11/21/08 , edited 11/21/08
Well 40 - 50% of marriages tend to fail, so why get married in the first place ? If I do get married, shes signing a pre-nub.
Posted 11/21/08
Your only 19, you can't really say that. Marriage can be a good thing. It depends on what your looking for in a relationship.
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Posted 11/21/08

Shotaru wrote:

Your only 19, you can't really say that. Marriage can be a good thing. It depends on what your looking for in a relationship.


Well, if I know theres a 40 - 50 % chance it's going to fail, one of two things will happen, I get married and she signs a pre-nub, or I simply don't get married. But then again, a relationship seems like too much work for me.
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