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Why do most guys hate it when girls cry ?
welook 
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cause its just sad. when a man crys its just funny then sad, but for a girl or women, its just sad
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I think guys hate it cause they
don't know how to react to it.
And of course they have this
guilt and their conscience is
telling them that they might
have something to do with it.

That's what I think. Haha.
I'm a girl and even when a girl
or a guy cries I still panic. Haha.
Posted 6/15/08

welook wrote:

cause its just sad. when a man crys its just funny then sad, but for a girl or women, its just sad


I find it funny and annoying for both boys and girls. I rarely find it sad.
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evin5fwtr wrote:

guys who hate girls when they cry are usually the egotistical assholes who're more interested in trying to get into your panties. if you cry it means they've failed at their chance.


For the most part, I hate it when girls cry because usually it's about trivial matters and it shows how spoiled and sheltered they are. Example, too many times I have seen girls cry because they got bad grades or they have to "study" too much. These are not intermediate or high schoolers that I'm talking about; I'm talking about full fledged adult college students. Why the hell would they cry about grades? If you fail a class, it's ultimately because you didn't study enough or you just aren't meant to be in the class. Simple as that. Crying is such a "Help me/Pity me" response and it annoys me that a girl cannot take care of herself. They're basically creating the "weak and insecure" stereotype which feminists around the world are working so hard to eradicate.

If it's not about this, they cry about stupid issues from drama which they probably chose to be a part of and ultimately could have avoided. That guy broke up with you and cheated with you? Well gee, the signs were all there: he flirts around, he doesn't answer your calls, he hides things. Hmmm I wonder what's happening there... yet you don't see it coming and choose not to do anything about it. Grow some balls and man up; and yes, I mean this figuratively not literally.

When they cry about these unimportant stuff, what the hell am I to say? "Study harder?" or "that guy was a jerk, you don't need him"?. Any girl knows that these examples are not the correct answer and basically anything I say, no matter how well inteded it is, will be the wrong thing to say. If I try to comfort them, they usually dismiss it and don't really take heed to what I say. Long story short, whatever I say, no matter how nice or rude it is, will make an ass out of me; and this is because the girl isn't mature enough to handle her own consequences.

It has nothing to do with getting into her panties... and quite frankly, I don't want to be in there.
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Posted 6/15/08
because of their high pitched crying voice (not applicable to all girls though).
In movies, girls cry in soft voice.
but IRL, its sooo different....
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makix wrote:


evin5fwtr wrote:

guys who hate girls when they cry are usually the egotistical assholes who're more interested in trying to get into your panties. if you cry it means they've failed at their chance.


For the most part, I hate it when girls cry because usually it's about trivial matters and it shows how spoiled and sheltered they are. Example, too many times I have seen girls cry because they got bad grades or they have to "study" too much. These are not intermediate or high schoolers that I'm talking about; I'm talking about full fledged adult college students. Why the hell would they cry about grades? If you fail a class, it's ultimately because you didn't study enough or you just aren't meant to be in the class. Simple as that. Crying is such a "Help me/Pity me" response and it annoys me that a girl cannot take care of herself. They're basically creating the "weak and insecure" stereotype which feminists around the world are working so hard to eradicate.

If it's not about this, they cry about stupid issues from drama which they probably chose to be a part of and ultimately could have avoided. That guy broke up with you and cheated with you? Well gee, the signs were all there: he flirts around, he doesn't answer your calls, he hides things. Hmmm I wonder what's happening there... yet you don't see it coming and choose not to do anything about it. Grow some balls and man up; and yes, I mean this figuratively not literally.

When they cry about these unimportant stuff, what the hell am I to say? "Study harder?" or "that guy was a jerk, you don't need him"?. Any girl knows that these examples are not the correct answer and basically anything I say, no matter how well inteded it is, will be the wrong thing to say. If I try to comfort them, they usually dismiss it and don't really take heed to what I say. Long story short, whatever I say, no matter how nice or rude it is, will make an ass out of me; and this is because the girl isn't mature enough to handle her own consequences.

It has nothing to do with getting into her panties... and quite frankly, I don't want to be in there.


so you dont care about them at all. just how their crying affects you. we'll put you under the impotent self absorbed asshole catagory then.
Posted 6/15/08
Maybe cause it puts them in an uncomfortable position or makes them feel guilty? Well thats my opinion anyways.
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Posted 6/15/08
Well, most guys I know says it makes them feel helpless and sad when a girl cries. They also don't know what to do...it's like, confusion.

Eh...I'm a crier I try not to in front of people though...it's impolite.
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Posted 6/15/08 , edited 6/15/08

evin5fwtr wrote:


makix wrote:


evin5fwtr wrote:

guys who hate girls when they cry are usually the egotistical assholes who're more interested in trying to get into your panties. if you cry it means they've failed at their chance.


For the most part, I hate it when girls cry because usually it's about trivial matters and it shows how spoiled and sheltered they are. Example, too many times I have seen girls cry because they got bad grades or they have to "study" too much. These are not intermediate or high schoolers that I'm talking about; I'm talking about full fledged adult college students. Why the hell would they cry about grades? If you fail a class, it's ultimately because you didn't study enough or you just aren't meant to be in the class. Simple as that. Crying is such a "Help me/Pity me" response and it annoys me that a girl cannot take care of herself. They're basically creating the "weak and insecure" stereotype which feminists around the world are working so hard to eradicate.

If it's not about this, they cry about stupid issues from drama which they probably chose to be a part of and ultimately could have avoided. That guy broke up with you and cheated with you? Well gee, the signs were all there: he flirts around, he doesn't answer your calls, he hides things. Hmmm I wonder what's happening there... yet you don't see it coming and choose not to do anything about it. Grow some balls and man up; and yes, I mean this figuratively not literally.

When they cry about these unimportant stuff, what the hell am I to say? "Study harder?" or "that guy was a jerk, you don't need him"?. Any girl knows that these examples are not the correct answer and basically anything I say, no matter how well inteded it is, will be the wrong thing to say. If I try to comfort them, they usually dismiss it and don't really take heed to what I say. Long story short, whatever I say, no matter how nice or rude it is, will make an ass out of me; and this is because the girl isn't mature enough to handle her own consequences.

It has nothing to do with getting into her panties... and quite frankly, I don't want to be in there.


so you dont care about them at all. just how their crying affects you. we'll put you under the impotent self absorbed asshole catagory then.


Guess you didn't (or lack the capacity to) understand a single thing of what I said or what my deeper message was. I would cliff note what I said for you, but it really cannot get any simpler than that.
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I may not be a guy, but if a girl cries, I feel like a total asshole, especially if it has to do with me. I want to know what to do to make them feel better, but the only thing I can really do is hug them.
It just makes me sad.
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Posted 6/15/08
Cause the guys aren't softies and they don't want to comfort the girls.. :]
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Posted 6/15/08
i dunno about other guys, but i find girls beautiful when they cry.
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japaw wrote:

i dunno about other guys, but i find girls beautiful when they cry.


same, but I still feel like an asshole because they're sad, haha.

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makix wrote:


evin5fwtr wrote:


makix wrote:


evin5fwtr wrote:

guys who hate girls when they cry are usually the egotistical assholes who're more interested in trying to get into your panties. if you cry it means they've failed at their chance.


For the most part, I hate it when girls cry because usually it's about trivial matters and it shows how spoiled and sheltered they are. Example, too many times I have seen girls cry because they got bad grades or they have to "study" too much. These are not intermediate or high schoolers that I'm talking about; I'm talking about full fledged adult college students. Why the hell would they cry about grades? If you fail a class, it's ultimately because you didn't study enough or you just aren't meant to be in the class. Simple as that. Crying is such a "Help me/Pity me" response and it annoys me that a girl cannot take care of herself. They're basically creating the "weak and insecure" stereotype which feminists around the world are working so hard to eradicate.

If it's not about this, they cry about stupid issues from drama which they probably chose to be a part of and ultimately could have avoided. That guy broke up with you and cheated with you? Well gee, the signs were all there: he flirts around, he doesn't answer your calls, he hides things. Hmmm I wonder what's happening there... yet you don't see it coming and choose not to do anything about it. Grow some balls and man up; and yes, I mean this figuratively not literally.

When they cry about these unimportant stuff, what the hell am I to say? "Study harder?" or "that guy was a jerk, you don't need him"?. Any girl knows that these examples are not the correct answer and basically anything I say, no matter how well inteded it is, will be the wrong thing to say. If I try to comfort them, they usually dismiss it and don't really take heed to what I say. Long story short, whatever I say, no matter how nice or rude it is, will make an ass out of me; and this is because the girl isn't mature enough to handle her own consequences.

It has nothing to do with getting into her panties... and quite frankly, I don't want to be in there.


so you dont care about them at all. just how their crying affects you. we'll put you under the impotent self absorbed asshole catagory then.


Guess you didn't (or lack the capacity to) understand a single thing of what I said or what my deeper message was. I would cliff note what I said for you, but it really cannot get any simpler than that.


this is starting to amuse me now. yes i read it. it was terribly geeky and boring. you can assume why they'd cry all you want but if you dont try and see whats wrong or trying to cheer them up it comes down to how it affects you. i think you love yourself a little too much.
Posted 6/15/08
No idea, but it's traumatizing >.<
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