What Should I Do...!?
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Okay, so here is my "problem":

There is this really, really, good-looking Japanese guy in my school, who's in grade 10. I'm in grade 9. He's a transfer student, and has already been here for one year, so I am assuming that he is going to back to Japan this summer. I've seen him in the halls and no other guy has made me feel the way he does *gushes*. Yeah, its a crush, a really big one, but I've never had the guts to even go up to say hi to him or anything in halls, or when I see him eating outside with his friends. *fan girl squee*

Seeing as there are only 3 school days left (for me, anyways, not sure about you guys) I have no clue what to do! Should I randomly stop him in a crowded hallway and be like, "Umm... Hi." And then walk away, so that way I will have no regrets? (Hey, at least I can say that I talked to him! I don't want to confess my "love" - love at first sight - to him because that would just be awkward, ne?)

Or, should I find him at lunch and casually ask him if he is leaving this summer to go back home, and make topic about a new transfer student next year that could possibly be in my grade? Right now, I am clueless, and want to say something too him. But its just too... Embarassing! All of my guy friends make fun of me (they're just jealous, haha) and time is running out~!!

~doushiyo?!

>.<
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If you've never talked to him before, and you aren't about to spill your guts to him, just casually say hello. I mean, what do you have to lose, right?
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does he know who you are?
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One thing is obvious, if you don't do anything you will regret it for the rest of your life. Trust me. I had the same experience back in high school and i regret it now, still. Seeing as his leaving soon, just make the best of it. Date, talk, have conversations with him. Get to know each other till your satisfied. It may be hard to make the first approach but if you REALLY like him that shouldn't be a problem. All i'm saying is nothing comes easy, just do your best!!
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SasukesGirlfriend wrote:

Okay, so here is my "problem":

There is this really, really, good-looking Japanese guy in my school, who's in grade 10. I'm in grade 9. He's a transfer student, and has already been here for one year, so I am assuming that he is going to back to Japan this summer. I've seen him in the halls and no other guy has made me feel the way he does *gushes*. Yeah, its a crush, a really big one, but I've never had the guts to even go up to say hi to him or anything in halls, or when I see him eating outside with his friends. *fan girl squee*

Seeing as there are only 3 school days left (for me, anyways, not sure about you guys) I have no clue what to do! Should I randomly stop him in a crowded hallway and be like, "Umm... Hi." And then walk away, so that way I will have no regrets? (Hey, at least I can say that I talked to him! I don't want to confess my "love" - love at first sight - to him because that would just be awkward, ne?)

Or, should I find him at lunch and casually ask him if he is leaving this summer to go back home, and make topic about a new transfer student next year that could possibly be in my grade? Right now, I am clueless, and want to say something too him. But its just too... Embarassing! All of my guy friends make fun of me (they're just jealous, haha) and time is running out~!!

~doushiyo?!

>.<


You should talk to him at lunch, you don't want to have him leave with you full of regret.
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Posted 6/15/08

superboxy wrote:

does he know who you are?


Sadly, no. Actually wait, I did "fall for him". Him and his friends were eating lunch outside and I was walking by, tripped because of a hole in the ground, got up and RAN AWAY. (I had nice grass stains on my knees.) I couldn't even look at him to see his reaction. Afterwards, I walked by again and looked at one of his other friends - not him, I couldn't, I was blushing so much - and told them to forget what they just saw. ><
Posted 6/15/08
when you see him in the hall grab his dick and take him to the janitors cloest for some fun. and if that doesn't work. kidnap him and rape him. take his pride, honor and dignity away from his sorry little japanese ass
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SasukesGirlfriend wrote:

Okay, so here is my "problem":

There is this really, really, good-looking Japanese guy in my school, who's in grade 10. I'm in grade 9. He's a transfer student, and has already been here for one year, so I am assuming that he is going to back to Japan this summer. I've seen him in the halls and no other guy has made me feel the way he does *gushes*. Yeah, its a crush, a really big one, but I've never had the guts to even go up to say hi to him or anything in halls, or when I see him eating outside with his friends. *fan girl squee*

Seeing as there are only 3 school days left (for me, anyways, not sure about you guys) I have no clue what to do! Should I randomly stop him in a crowded hallway and be like, "Umm... Hi." And then walk away, so that way I will have no regrets? (Hey, at least I can say that I talked to him! I don't want to confess my "love" - love at first sight - to him because that would just be awkward, ne?)

Or, should I find him at lunch and casually ask him if he is leaving this summer to go back home, and make topic about a new transfer student next year that could possibly be in my grade? Right now, I am clueless, and want to say something too him. But its just too... Embarassing! All of my guy friends make fun of me (they're just jealous, haha) and time is running out~!!

~doushiyo?!

>.<


OMG if he is going back then you need his info soon! email and all that contact stuff NOW! Don't just let him slip away like that! You need to go for it. You should have no regrets. There is nothing to lose :)

But also do not go to crazy in love for him because he is an exchange student and will leave. So you should not get too attached :/
Posted 6/15/08
My advice is to use the help thread

The Help Thread

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1291/The-Help-Thread.html

If you are afraid of people making fun of you, then the only thing you can gain is nothing.

I hope you know what to do after reading that phrase.

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