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well....... my best friend has a prob!!!!! lol n I'm not the friend!!!! he doesn't come on cr much cuz of exams...... so, I'm asking for the advice:

well....... my friend has a gf in cr n they both love eachother really much...... I think (not my relationship so, I don't know) but my friend was already asked by another girl b4 he met his gf n my friend thinks of that girl as a really good friend but not as a gf........ that girl is a really good friend of his n he doesn't wanna break her heart but he doesn't want to break up with his gf either!!!!!!

so.......... it'd help a LOT if he'd get an advice!!!!! lol I'll tell him whenever I get the advice........ n I'd give him the advice myself but I'm a beginner in love too!!!!!


well....... this problem is very commun . if your friend really love his gf then he has to tell the other girl nicely no but if he is not sure about his feelings then he should think twice before responding , he might be wrong about his feelings and inside he prefers the other girl than his gf , you said that he was asked by her before his gf, maybe he said no at first because he didn t know her well or because for him his gf is the best , i advise him to look inside his heart and the first person that he thinks about is the right one and tell him that if he figure out that he loves the other girl more than his gf then he must dump her after. aFTER ALL HE CAN T BE WITH SOMEONE THAT HE DOESN T REALLY LOVE DEEP INSIDE HIS HEART OR HE WILL REGRET IT BECAUSE LOVE COMES ONLY ONE TIME IN LIFE


okies!!!!! thankz a lot!!!!! I'll tell him ASAP!!!!! well......... I still don't know if he can go inside his heart n do that....... but oh well....... if he can't then.......... it's his prob!!!! it's his life........ his prob....... his choice.... but thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcome anytime but the going inside his heart stuff isn t that hard you know , he has just to think about them both really hard and when his heart beats fast it means that the one he is thinking about is the wright person , it is just like magic it worked with me and all my friends, but i was wondering why is that girl still in love with him even if he has a girlfriend that he loves sooo much? and if you are a good friend to him and know the two girls you can help him to choose , maybe you know about them something that might help with the choice why don t you confess to him to end all this prob and let these girls down just kidding soon or later he will know the truth and tell the girl ( not his gf) to keep trying and remember this
don t blame those who try and fail , blame those who never try

WOW!!!!!! thankz a lot again!!!! is it really that easy???? WOW!!!!! I gotta try that once in a while!!! lolz n I'm really sowee but I 4got to tell ya that...... that girl doesn't yet know that my pal has a gf!!!!! I told him to tell her that but yet..... he doesn't wanna tell her cuz he fears that it'll break her heart!!!!! well....... but the sooner the better right???


he must tell her because she will figure it out soon or later and that will hurt her more belive me . she won t think that he didn t want to break her heart she will think he was lying to her and using badly her feelings


ohhhhhhhhhhh man!!!!! u just told the EXACT thing....... n I'll tell him..... thank u......... thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcomw anytime and if you have more problems i would love to solve them
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Posted 7/9/08

mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:

well....... my best friend has a prob!!!!! lol n I'm not the friend!!!! he doesn't come on cr much cuz of exams...... so, I'm asking for the advice:

well....... my friend has a gf in cr n they both love eachother really much...... I think (not my relationship so, I don't know) but my friend was already asked by another girl b4 he met his gf n my friend thinks of that girl as a really good friend but not as a gf........ that girl is a really good friend of his n he doesn't wanna break her heart but he doesn't want to break up with his gf either!!!!!!

so.......... it'd help a LOT if he'd get an advice!!!!! lol I'll tell him whenever I get the advice........ n I'd give him the advice myself but I'm a beginner in love too!!!!!


well....... this problem is very commun . if your friend really love his gf then he has to tell the other girl nicely no but if he is not sure about his feelings then he should think twice before responding , he might be wrong about his feelings and inside he prefers the other girl than his gf , you said that he was asked by her before his gf, maybe he said no at first because he didn t know her well or because for him his gf is the best , i advise him to look inside his heart and the first person that he thinks about is the right one and tell him that if he figure out that he loves the other girl more than his gf then he must dump her after. aFTER ALL HE CAN T BE WITH SOMEONE THAT HE DOESN T REALLY LOVE DEEP INSIDE HIS HEART OR HE WILL REGRET IT BECAUSE LOVE COMES ONLY ONE TIME IN LIFE


okies!!!!! thankz a lot!!!!! I'll tell him ASAP!!!!! well......... I still don't know if he can go inside his heart n do that....... but oh well....... if he can't then.......... it's his prob!!!! it's his life........ his prob....... his choice.... but thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcome anytime but the going inside his heart stuff isn t that hard you know , he has just to think about them both really hard and when his heart beats fast it means that the one he is thinking about is the wright person , it is just like magic it worked with me and all my friends, but i was wondering why is that girl still in love with him even if he has a girlfriend that he loves sooo much? and if you are a good friend to him and know the two girls you can help him to choose , maybe you know about them something that might help with the choice why don t you confess to him to end all this prob and let these girls down just kidding soon or later he will know the truth and tell the girl ( not his gf) to keep trying and remember this
don t blame those who try and fail , blame those who never try

WOW!!!!!! thankz a lot again!!!! is it really that easy???? WOW!!!!! I gotta try that once in a while!!! lolz n I'm really sowee but I 4got to tell ya that...... that girl doesn't yet know that my pal has a gf!!!!! I told him to tell her that but yet..... he doesn't wanna tell her cuz he fears that it'll break her heart!!!!! well....... but the sooner the better right???


he must tell her because she will figure it out soon or later and that will hurt her more belive me . she won t think that he didn t want to break her heart she will think he was lying to her and using badly her feelings


ohhhhhhhhhhh man!!!!! u just told the EXACT thing....... n I'll tell him..... thank u......... thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcomw anytime and if you have more problems i would love to solve them

OKIES!!!!! thankz god.......... now that I know that I can come to some place for my love probs!!!! thankz a lot again....

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Posted 7/9/08

Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:

well....... my best friend has a prob!!!!! lol n I'm not the friend!!!! he doesn't come on cr much cuz of exams...... so, I'm asking for the advice:

well....... my friend has a gf in cr n they both love eachother really much...... I think (not my relationship so, I don't know) but my friend was already asked by another girl b4 he met his gf n my friend thinks of that girl as a really good friend but not as a gf........ that girl is a really good friend of his n he doesn't wanna break her heart but he doesn't want to break up with his gf either!!!!!!

so.......... it'd help a LOT if he'd get an advice!!!!! lol I'll tell him whenever I get the advice........ n I'd give him the advice myself but I'm a beginner in love too!!!!!


well....... this problem is very commun . if your friend really love his gf then he has to tell the other girl nicely no but if he is not sure about his feelings then he should think twice before responding , he might be wrong about his feelings and inside he prefers the other girl than his gf , you said that he was asked by her before his gf, maybe he said no at first because he didn t know her well or because for him his gf is the best , i advise him to look inside his heart and the first person that he thinks about is the right one and tell him that if he figure out that he loves the other girl more than his gf then he must dump her after. aFTER ALL HE CAN T BE WITH SOMEONE THAT HE DOESN T REALLY LOVE DEEP INSIDE HIS HEART OR HE WILL REGRET IT BECAUSE LOVE COMES ONLY ONE TIME IN LIFE


okies!!!!! thankz a lot!!!!! I'll tell him ASAP!!!!! well......... I still don't know if he can go inside his heart n do that....... but oh well....... if he can't then.......... it's his prob!!!! it's his life........ his prob....... his choice.... but thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcome anytime but the going inside his heart stuff isn t that hard you know , he has just to think about them both really hard and when his heart beats fast it means that the one he is thinking about is the wright person , it is just like magic it worked with me and all my friends, but i was wondering why is that girl still in love with him even if he has a girlfriend that he loves sooo much? and if you are a good friend to him and know the two girls you can help him to choose , maybe you know about them something that might help with the choice why don t you confess to him to end all this prob and let these girls down just kidding soon or later he will know the truth and tell the girl ( not his gf) to keep trying and remember this
don t blame those who try and fail , blame those who never try

WOW!!!!!! thankz a lot again!!!! is it really that easy???? WOW!!!!! I gotta try that once in a while!!! lolz n I'm really sowee but I 4got to tell ya that...... that girl doesn't yet know that my pal has a gf!!!!! I told him to tell her that but yet..... he doesn't wanna tell her cuz he fears that it'll break her heart!!!!! well....... but the sooner the better right???


he must tell her because she will figure it out soon or later and that will hurt her more belive me . she won t think that he didn t want to break her heart she will think he was lying to her and using badly her feelings


ohhhhhhhhhhh man!!!!! u just told the EXACT thing....... n I'll tell him..... thank u......... thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcomw anytime and if you have more problems i would love to solve them

OKIES!!!!! thankz god.......... now that I know that I can come to some place for my love probs!!!! thankz a lot again....



my first priority is to make people love this group and feel free to talk , come here anytime and be sure that i will be here to listen to your love problems
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Posted 7/9/08

mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:


mytalove wrote:


Nagir wrote:

well....... my best friend has a prob!!!!! lol n I'm not the friend!!!! he doesn't come on cr much cuz of exams...... so, I'm asking for the advice:

well....... my friend has a gf in cr n they both love eachother really much...... I think (not my relationship so, I don't know) but my friend was already asked by another girl b4 he met his gf n my friend thinks of that girl as a really good friend but not as a gf........ that girl is a really good friend of his n he doesn't wanna break her heart but he doesn't want to break up with his gf either!!!!!!

so.......... it'd help a LOT if he'd get an advice!!!!! lol I'll tell him whenever I get the advice........ n I'd give him the advice myself but I'm a beginner in love too!!!!!


well....... this problem is very commun . if your friend really love his gf then he has to tell the other girl nicely no but if he is not sure about his feelings then he should think twice before responding , he might be wrong about his feelings and inside he prefers the other girl than his gf , you said that he was asked by her before his gf, maybe he said no at first because he didn t know her well or because for him his gf is the best , i advise him to look inside his heart and the first person that he thinks about is the right one and tell him that if he figure out that he loves the other girl more than his gf then he must dump her after. aFTER ALL HE CAN T BE WITH SOMEONE THAT HE DOESN T REALLY LOVE DEEP INSIDE HIS HEART OR HE WILL REGRET IT BECAUSE LOVE COMES ONLY ONE TIME IN LIFE


okies!!!!! thankz a lot!!!!! I'll tell him ASAP!!!!! well......... I still don't know if he can go inside his heart n do that....... but oh well....... if he can't then.......... it's his prob!!!! it's his life........ his prob....... his choice.... but thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcome anytime but the going inside his heart stuff isn t that hard you know , he has just to think about them both really hard and when his heart beats fast it means that the one he is thinking about is the wright person , it is just like magic it worked with me and all my friends, but i was wondering why is that girl still in love with him even if he has a girlfriend that he loves sooo much? and if you are a good friend to him and know the two girls you can help him to choose , maybe you know about them something that might help with the choice why don t you confess to him to end all this prob and let these girls down just kidding soon or later he will know the truth and tell the girl ( not his gf) to keep trying and remember this
don t blame those who try and fail , blame those who never try

WOW!!!!!! thankz a lot again!!!! is it really that easy???? WOW!!!!! I gotta try that once in a while!!! lolz n I'm really sowee but I 4got to tell ya that...... that girl doesn't yet know that my pal has a gf!!!!! I told him to tell her that but yet..... he doesn't wanna tell her cuz he fears that it'll break her heart!!!!! well....... but the sooner the better right???


he must tell her because she will figure it out soon or later and that will hurt her more belive me . she won t think that he didn t want to break her heart she will think he was lying to her and using badly her feelings


ohhhhhhhhhhh man!!!!! u just told the EXACT thing....... n I'll tell him..... thank u......... thankz for the advice!!!!


you are welcomw anytime and if you have more problems i would love to solve them

OKIES!!!!! thankz god.......... now that I know that I can come to some place for my love probs!!!! thankz a lot again....



my first priority is to make people love this group and feel free to talk , come here anytime and be sure that i will be here to listen to your love problems

Thankz again........ n I'll be sure to come....
Posted 7/11/08
*Smiles*
..may I ask...something...
Uhm...you can say... A very foolish boy...

Believed he had fallen in love with a great girl... He would do anything for her...
..but then he met another girl...he treated her as a lil sister almost...but...
He started to notice he would become more attached to her than his girlfriend...
..the lil girl had confessed to him...but he kept treating her the same...
She was obviously hurt...because the guy she confessed to was already taken...

So the boy decides to disappear from the lil girl...but as he did...he had missed her a lot...
..he and his girlfriend break up...the boy had wanted to come back for the lil girl...
When he comes back to her...to tell her that they could...try to be together...
..he finds that the lil girl already had a boyfriend... The boy is hurting inside...
He doesn't know what to do... His mind tells him to leave her be...and let her be happy...

Unfortunately... The lil girl still clings and his heart tugs ever so slightly to her...
..the boy cannot decide what to do...and the girl cannot decide on who to pick...
Is there a way...in which no one can get hurt..? ..where no one has to suffer..?
..or does the boy have to take all the pain and suffering...so that the lil girl can be happy...

[[I know it was really long.. and I'll be really glad and grateful if you could help...even a little.. >-< ..thank you..!]]
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*Smiles*
..may I ask...something...
Uhm...you can say... A very foolish boy...

Believed he had fallen in love with a great girl... He would do anything for her...
..but then he met another girl...he treated her as a lil sister almost...but...
He started to notice he would become more attached to her than his girlfriend...
..the lil girl had confessed to him...but he kept treating her the same...
She was obviously hurt...because the guy she confessed to was already taken...

So the boy decides to disappear from the lil girl...but as he did...he had missed her a lot...
..he and his girlfriend break up...the boy had wanted to come back for the lil girl...
When he comes back to her...to tell her that they could...try to be together...
..he finds that the lil girl already had a boyfriend... The boy is hurting inside...
He doesn't know what to do... His mind tells him to leave her be...and let her be happy...

Unfortunately... The lil girl still clings and his heart tugs ever so slightly to her...
..the boy cannot decide what to do...and the girl cannot decide on who to pick...
Is there a way...in which no one can get hurt..? ..where no one has to suffer..?
..or does the boy have to take all the pain and suffering...so that the lil girl can be happy...

[[I know it was really long.. and I'll be really glad and grateful if you could help...even a little.. >-< ..thank you..!]]


don t worry , i love solving problems and giving the details makes my job easier :)
well to tell the truth it is a very commun problem , i want to tell the boy that we make lots and lots of mistakes in our lifes because we are humans after all and the most important thing is to learn from these mistakes so we can avoid them and not fall in them again, you made a mistake toward that girl and toward you gf too, even thought you felt something for the girl you ignored that and moved on with your gf hiding from her the truth which means you lied to your gf and to yourself and that is why you are in this situation now, the chance can knock your door only one time and the girl confessed to you but you lyed to your feelings and kept looking at her as a lil sister , i know how she felt , she felt torturated and dead inside , you broke her heart , you might think that she hates you after what you did but a girl can not stop loving her prince if it is the great love for her , now that she has a bf doesn t mean she loves him but it means she is trying to forget you but of course she can t , and your running away didn t solve the problem but it made it worse, you are not a foolish boy or a stupid one , that was hard on you too, i advise you to tell her how you really felt about her all this time and you kept thinking about her , and ask her if she can forgive you and start over with you, she might say no at first and she has the right to but don t give up and tell her * i am sorry ..........i promise i won t hurt you again.......don t answer now and think twice before you respond because it will be the greatest decision of your life........ don t make the same mistake as me and hide your feelings thinking that it will be better this way or you will regret it*
after you tell her this , there are three possibileties
1 she says* no* again and run away and never talks to you again , be happy if that happens because if she wanted to do so but she said yes , it means this is revenge
2 she says i will think then she tells you that she loves her bf and needs to be with him , it will make you sad but it might be that she really loves her bf
3 she thinks then after few days she tells you yes and tell her bf that she really loves you , you will be happy but you will have to be ready to spoil her and serve her as much as you can or she will make you regret all this story
remember , whatever is the answer you should always move on and never look back
Posted 7/11/08
Haha.. Thanks...
*Pokes*
..nowhere in it did I imply...that it was about me...
But thanks...you're good at reading people...from just their words huh..?
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Posted 7/12/08

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Haha.. Thanks...
*Pokes*
..nowhere in it did I imply...that it was about me...
But thanks...you're good at reading people...from just their words huh..?


if it didn t solve the problem then tell me don't be shy. and i didn t know it was about you i said " i want to tell the boy"
Posted 7/12/08
Really..? >.<"
..I thought you did... Because the word, 'you' was everywhere.. O.O
Haha...sorry...
..and okay... Thanks.. ^-^
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Really..? >.<"
..I thought you did... Because the word, 'you' was everywhere.. O.O
Haha...sorry...
..and okay... Thanks.. ^-^


you are welcome
Posted 7/28/08
dont have much to say and well dont have idea what the clue of love and well one likes me a guy friend from school and well other guy friend is my buddy dont how describe how to felt. and well hawtdawggy is good friend and well flattered and other sayori-kun hard to understand him i just ignored the fact how he felt about me dont want to get hurt i have my guard on him so hard to descide those two guys
Posted 7/28/08
well other problems is i was unsure i how i felt dont how to say this well hard to say dont know that well =
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dont have much to say and well dont have idea what the clue of love and well one likes me a guy friend from school and well other guy friend is my buddy dont how describe how to felt. and well hawtdawggy is good friend and well flattered and other sayori-kun hard to understand him i just ignored the fact how he felt about me dont want to get hurt i have my guard on him so hard to descide those two guys


as i said before so many times, when it comes to love, you have to fallow your heart, you don't have to lie to yoursel to not hurt athor people. if you think that you like sayori-kun then go for it girl and don't worry, if hawtdawggy is a good buddy he'll understand, and if you like your buddy then sayori-kun will understand too. but attention, you might be wrong about your feelings toward hawtdawggy, you might like him but it can be something else than love, maybe you like him because he's your best friend but that's not enough.finally, i advise you to wait and learn to know about them both, and don't worry too much cause love always finds a way to reach the hearts. whatever your choice is, feel happy about it and enjoy your self and your love life because we live only one time, then it will be all gone, enjoy your youth like we say in tunisia(my town) and if you make the wrong choice don't be sad, you'll find a way to correct your mistake, wish you love dear
Posted 8/1/08
thank u mytalove
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