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When You Have to Let Go
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Posted 3/4/07

Quincy_Ishida wrote:

o i have a question if you guys can anwser, can u save a quote or do you have to keep re-typing it???


u click on a quote. on the top right corner. Says Quote. the quote that you want to reply on will show up and u type below it. below the [ /quote ] line

like wat ive just done
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Posted 3/4/07
its happened to me quite a lot with close frends.. and it always really hurts, but time heals all wounds... give it some time and eventually u'll be able to move on. i never separated with a gf that way so i dont think i ever took more than a few weeks to mope about something. i did the long distance relationship thing for a while but it was hard and eventually fell apart. so i think u made the right decision... but yea.. it just takes time.
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its normal... when you grow mature... you can handle it.. happened alot ... sure it did hurt..
just eat alot or flirt with some guy's girlfriend and eventually it'll be allright
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Posted 3/4/07

PaperTiger wrote:

Okay, this is my first topic, and I'm not sure if it already exists, I didn't see it in the older threads...

Yesterday my girlfriend move to Seattle in Washington state, and I live in Florida, across the damn country. We had our tearful goodbye at the airport, and then she left. We decided not to have a long distance relationship, even though we do love each other, we both thought it would be easier to let go and move on, even though we will be friends and keep in touch. I wanted to know about other times when other people had to let go of something or someone, even when they didn't want to, and how they moved on.


wow... that is soo sweet!
thats a smart idea to break up though... dont waste each other times rite? lol
if i was that girl... i would cry for plenty of days T.T
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39 / M / NEW YORK
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^ Smart idea?....what's the matter with U, there was no choice!!!
I've been though this situation. It depend on the people and the stiuation. from the distance mentioned, there's no way you could carry on a relationship. The need to see each other in person would be too strong and would drive both of you crazy.
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31 / M / San Diego
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everything happens for a reason
thats life... you just gotta accept it for what it is.
if it happens again... it happens? just gotta keep yourself busy this time and let time take its toll. either way if it ends up good or bad,failure or sucess, you'll be learning something out of it.
Posted 3/4/07
I don't like letting go of the things and people I love because I have so much memories with them! But in the end I always look to the brighter side if the picture! It happens because life is complicated and unpredictable so you will always learn something from it.!
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Posted 3/14/07

When You Have to Let Go

^ i have a hard time thinking about it lately.
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27 / M / Toronto
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It is always hard to let go...I mean you have already thought of those wonderful stuff to do and then you just see it all come crashing down like nothing happened. For my case, I took it hard but oh well now I know better.
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29 / M / 美國...加利福尼亞洲
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Posted 3/14/07

catex wrote:

I might be unsympathetic but at least you know she's alive, safe and sound. Be glad about that. I didn't want to let my parents go for a long time, but in middle of a class lesson half a year later, I had a realisation that I have to accept it and move on, so I did. I had a tougher job letting go of anger over that dumb fuck who drank and drove and that he got only three years for it, but I got over it. Life goes on. People die every day. People leave every day. Memories are born and, with time, some fade away. It can get harder to remember their faces clearly, but that's the way it goes.

Now when friends move away or when I break up with a girlfriend, I'm fine with it because it's just a page in a book. You have to keep turning pages if you want to live your life. At least you can always flip back to their page if you want to remember them.


Yes... Just another page... Just make sure you read the last one carefully
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Posted 11/9/07
have that one last cry ... before you leave it all behind...
then turn around, walk away, never look back until you're in a good place in your life.
otherwise you'll never be able to move on.
your life is not for lingering over their leftovers.
it is worth something more than living in a memory.
it is worth another adventure.
& maybe this time you've learned something that has helped you grow into a better , not bitter person.
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Circumstances are the rulers of the weak; they are but the instruments of the wise.

If you go through this experience you are free to choose how to assimilate it. You can either, learn from it, be grateful for what it gave you and appreciate what you lived with that person and move forward or become affected by it, get all sad, and let yourself not understand it. Either way it's your choice and same amount energy is being used so might as well gain from it.
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27 / M / Australia, queeee...
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heh i fink its best not to say goodbye, then you dont get forced into the feeling of "its already over" and can take it at your own pace ^_^
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I'd say don't let it go, let it be. Remember good ones, don't cry about bad ones. She'll be part of you and you'll be part of her. Live on that's what I would do.
Posted 11/9/07
i really really feel bad for you....
i kind of have the feeling that will happen to me..... because my dad wanted me to go to taiwan with him to go shopping and my bf doesnt want too because he doesnt want to waste money.. == '''''''' yaaaaaa
and i really want to go and i really want to spend more time with my dad..
im scared things will happen when i leave... so yaa
well my other friend she has long term relationship.. and she told me that shes really upset how she cant touch her " girlfriend " ( shes a lesbo ) and how she cant hug her or anything like that... she said shes really upset and how she miss her... so she told me that she gave up on her..

i think giving up is better because you guys are like far away... you cant do anything and you don't know what their doing right and its hurts more not to see her but if you move on... it prob wont hurt more well prob a bit... but yaa

so sadd.. T^T you guys will see eachother soon =]
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