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What do u do when u fall for your friend but they have a boy/girlfriend?
Posted 6/23/08
so i have fallen for my friend but she already has a boy friend i was just wondering if u where in the same position what you would do and my friend realy likes her boyfriend.
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Posted 6/23/08
Suck it up. Situations like these happen to everyone-you can't blame anyone but yourself for missing the opportunity. Who knows-maybe things won't work out for them. Confess to her that you like her and she might consider dating you instead of him.
Posted 6/23/08 , edited 6/23/08
If you have any integrity , you won't do anything. If you love her , you want to see her happy even if she's with someone else.
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Posted 6/23/08
im kinda in the same situation right now as well and i dont have the guts to confess to my friend....but u shud look for a good opportunity to tell her that u like her or u will (maybe like me) hold, not being able to confess, in your heart for a really long time.
Posted 6/23/08 , edited 6/23/08
man i love her and shes a very fragile type u know and the last thing i want to is hurt her but u know its hard seeing her with him and still having to smile but as eplic said i gues i'll have to suck it up and just do nuthing for the time being
Posted 6/23/08
Hmmm ~ probably i would avoid her ...or ..just ignore her.
Posted 6/23/08 , edited 6/23/08

dark215000 wrote:

man i love her and shes a very fragile type u know and the last thing i want to is hurt her but u know its hard seeing her with him and still having to smile but as eplic said i gues i'll have to suck it up and just do nuthing for the time being


If she's fragile, then you definitely don't say or do anything. It hurts watching her with something someone else (I had a similar situation with a girl I liked), but you're a man. You can handle it. What's worse, you hurting her or your pain?
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Posted 6/23/08
I was in a depression for a while where I didnt have the will and time to spend on my girlfriend, I apologized to her about it but I just had to get out of it on my own.
A friend of my ex used that to his advantage by giving her a lot of attention and performing a bit of so called "grooming".
He talked her out of loving me which is the worst thing I've experienced so far. I've been so sad since then that just out of the blue she drops a line on me "I dont think it'll work... I want to break up."

A month later she's now dating that guy that gave her tons of attention and I'm alone, even more depressed now :(

Oh well, life sucks.
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Posted 6/23/08 , edited 6/23/08
Back off, find someone better..
I bet there's tons of girls out there that are single.
I mean, that you can like.
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76 / M / Singapore
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Posted 6/23/08
make yourself more interesting and fun than her boyfriend. she'll take care of the rest
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Posted 6/23/08
I guess the right thing to do is to leave the couple alone even if its hard to handle.
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27 / F / Georgia
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Posted 6/23/08
D: There will be someone else for you, someone who's single. Wait it out. If she had some crazy passionate feelings about you, I don't think she'd be dating her boyfriend right now. So just keep it quiet and don't make life complicated for the 3 of you.
Posted 6/23/08
i want to thank you all for your help man and as for xandarion trust me man i would never try to steal her from her boyfriend man i know he likes her alot u know so if i steal her i know id hurt him and her so u know so as i said i wont hurt her and as for me trying to find another girl yeah im trying to but i tend to be a pain when it comes to choseing a girl but when i saw her it was wat u call love at first sight u know man for some reason the more i try to forget her the more i keep thinking of her man some times i feel stealing her would be best but im confused god i hate how i feel i feel depresed i wish i never met her and at the same time i dont because she's made me feel things i never felt before
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Posted 6/23/08

miilki wrote:

Back off, find someone better..
I bet there's tons of girls out there that are single.
I mean, that you can like.


yeah i agree with this ^^
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Posted 6/23/08
I never fall for a close friend... i usually fall for the ones who i don't talk to much... -_-
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