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how can you assure that guys are serious about you?
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Posted 6/29/08
this guy is serious and i'm not sure because i think he is serious... he looks serious and he said he IS serious... and i hate to joke around about feelings... so what do you think? how can we know that a guy is really serious about us?
pls...help....
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Heres what you do... you ask for a ring, and if he doesn't put one around your whole eye, he's serious.
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Posted 6/29/08
Read his mind.
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Posted 6/29/08

DRO1 wrote:

Heres what you do... you ask for a ring, and if he doesn't put one around your whole eye, he's serious.


you're serious?
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DKangN3 wrote:

Read his mind.


for goodness sake...if only it's as simple as that...
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Posted 6/29/08
serious sex is hard to find
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norika-chan wrote:
for goodness sake...if only it's as simple as that...


Since you didn't seem able to figure it out, all sarcasm aside, let me explain.

You can't. Sorry, that's reality. Only time will tell. If he's serious, he'll be there an year from now. Otherwise, he just wanted into your pants. Or something. But I've heard of and seen relationships that have lasted happily for years, but then suddenly broke up when it started looking like marriage was in the future, etc. That's life.
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yea im also wondering this cause im in this kinda situation right now
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Posted 6/29/08
just that sometimes we will find many wrong people before meeting the right one... life's hard yet easy....
Posted 6/29/08
go to /b/ for answers
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norika-chan wrote:

this guy is serious and i'm not sure because i think he is serious... he looks serious and he said he IS serious... and i hate to joke around about feelings... so what do you think? how can we know that a guy is really serious about us?
pls...help....


Are we talking about a relationship here... because I'm going to assume that you are.

So I assume the question is, Is the guy serious about you and how do you tell?

Well, for one, every guy is different. They have different personalities and ensure that he behaves mostly the same around you as he does around other people. If he is putting up an act only around you, there's a high chance it's not serious.

Does he pay attention to you and do you know him? When I say, "do you know him?", I'm asking if you know what he's thinking and if you know that he's not hiding anything from you. Are there parts of him that you have no idea about? Does he let you into his life and his place? If he's only meeting you in private/rare times or refuses to invite you to his place, there's a chance that he doesn't want you to know much about him.

If nothing else, simply go up to him and ask him "are you serious about me?". If he really is serious about you, he should easily say "Yes" without any problem because he will understand why you are wondering about this question. If he's not, he'll probably hesitate or say "no" or he's a really good liar and you're pretty much screwed until you see the first real sign that he's not serious about you.
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Posted 6/29/08
if he's acting like a super-gentleman, then he prolly is. If he spends on you,better.
Posted 6/29/08
Ask igod.
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Posted 6/29/08
when he wants you to meet his parents...that's all i can think of...
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if the guy tells you EVERYTHING and talks EVERYTHING out with you~decisions, yada yada
aside from that, you'll know it (gut feeling) if he's serious. there isn't a 100% assurance in the world for anything,though.
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