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how can you assure that guys are serious about you?
Posted 7/11/08

macphapie wrote:

serious sex is hard to find


i second that.
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Posted 7/11/08

norika-chan wrote:


FateAtYourWindow wrote:

If he starts acting like me lol


and how do you act?


I act serious when it comes to emtions xD well I don't know, I just act like I mean it, though not everyone gets it
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Posted 7/11/08 , edited 7/11/08
wow...it's easy to look through you then...if only it's that easy to read him...haha...
Posted 7/12/08
Ok, let's brake this down:

How long have you known him?
Does he show up on time for dates?
How much does his eyes wander during those dates? (hey, guys, I understand it can't be helped, but when you got a chick in front of you, it's a little... troublesome)

Does he actually listen to your banter, or does he nod and smile?


General question: how much respect does he give you during the times you see him?



A quick way to see if anyone's serious is to sit down, get your head out of the emotional clouds, and look at everything the person has done concerning the relationship, and this applies to both male and female. If they are meeting their end consistantly, without any weird colorization of... character for a long period of time, then there aren't any problems.

*note: You don't have to know everything. Anything that is important or suspicious will rear it's ugly head if you pay atttention. We call them "red flags".
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Posted 7/12/08 , edited 7/12/08

norika-chan wrote:

this guy is serious and i'm not sure because i think he is serious... he looks serious and he said he IS serious... and i hate to joke around about feelings... so what do you think? how can we know that a guy is really serious about us?
pls...help....



correct answer is you cant, period... most men have brains consisting of a lie center..which dominates about 29% of the brain. and thats coming from male.

but seriously you cant... if he sticks long enough (about 1-2 years) without sex, then probably his serious..
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Posted 7/12/08
ok i dont wanna sound like the asshole but get ur hottest freind to hang out with him and if he makes a move on her....any guy thats worthy at least should be able toto do that unless he's reading this
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Posted 7/12/08
sorry i mean not do that
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Posted 7/12/08
I actually don't know..
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Posted 7/12/08 , edited 7/12/08
If the guy respects your decision, loves you and accepts you for who you are regardless of your imperfections, if he's honest w/ you about everything, if the guy is patient enough to wait for you, if he cares about your happiness.
Posted 7/12/08
i don't know. D: urgh.
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Posted 7/12/08
hmmmm....

I seriously don't know how to answer this... coz' I my self haven't experience to criticize a man's action toward a girl and his truthfulness to the girl....

coz' I don't take it seriously when someone ask me if I think the guy is serious or not...

but I think the guy is serious towards a girl when he wait for you until you become ready for a relationship.... without any word...

when he is courting you, he would not keep on asking the state of your relationship... but will just be with you every time you need someone... and support you...

and accept you being what you are and who you are.....

loves you for your best and still loves you with your worst.... and still appreciate you more!!!!

and that's what I can say.... I know its a bit fancy... soo far from reality... so ideal... aahahaha.....
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Posted 7/12/08
idk. maybe if he's always mad and advices you?
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Posted 7/12/08
girls, you probably have to give him the old jealousy-1-2!!! test , bring in a gay friend and be affectionate around him =D
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Posted 7/12/08

cdplayer6 wrote:

girls, you probably have to give him the old jealousy-1-2!!! test , bring in a gay friend and be affectionate around him =D


how well does this test really work? cuz it's pretty easy to tell whether or not someone is gay (at least for me) and if the guy is actually secure with himself he'd be fine with it and won't act any different
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Posted 7/12/08

pathogenesis wrote:


cdplayer6 wrote:

girls, you probably have to give him the old jealousy-1-2!!! test , bring in a gay friend and be affectionate around him =D


how well does this test really work? cuz it's pretty easy to tell whether or not someone is gay (at least for me) and if the guy is actually secure with himself he'd be fine with it and won't act any different


lol i guess put a bunch of manly crap on him like men Cologne, a new haircut, a bunch of rocker clothes, but if this doesn't work, you could make a fake confession that you have a thing for homosexuals >.<
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