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Will the sweet relationship between Solbi and Andy get stronger?
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I voted yes.

They as a couple are the most real to me. They balance each other out in my opinion and they both have good and bad qualities that make a relationship fresh. They argue but they make up instead of holding long grudges and have actual conversations that real couples should have. Instead of ignoring their problems, they talk it out and eventually get closer.

I think Andy doesn't know how to show his feelings as so bluntly as Sol Bi does, but i'm sure he carries feelings for her somewhere in that lost portal of his
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pandabear104 wrote:

i was really dissapointed after seein the special and how andy really is.
if you've watched it, you'd know what i mean.


i know what u means...i watched special after watching ep 15...and really disappointed with andy..and somehow feel that he really treat this as show...while we are hoping for them to really being together...or having feeling towards each other..sometimes i felt like being cheated for believing them..

but then, the special recorded little bit earlier...maybe during that time, he really treat it as show w/o thinking that it will turn to real...can see that he is bit unwilling to kiss on solbi's cheek for the first time...i think he is the kind who don't date unless he really believe and love the girl..bcoz he may devote himself for his love..and that's may be the reason why he don't have girlfriend for 6years....

but with solbi who honestly liking him...and straightforward and make move and always cheering him up...can see how andy slowly accept and like solbi more...like in episode 17, he also enjoy kissing solbi...can see his shy yet happy face...maybe he just really need time to openly admit his feeling...

i don't think that he is so insensitive about solbi's feeling...if i'm andy, i would be touched with solbi's love..i heard they really become close nowadays even off screen...i think they really become stronger after ring's case...
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pandabear104 wrote:

i was really dissapointed after seein the special and how andy really is.
if you've watched it, you'd know what i mean.


i know what u means...i watched special after watching ep 15...and really disappointed with andy..and somehow feel that he really treat this as show...while we are hoping for them to really being together...or having feeling towards each other..sometimes i felt like being cheated for believing them..

but then, the special recorded little bit earlier...maybe during that time, he really treat it as show w/o thinking that it will turn to real...can see that he is bit unwilling to kiss on solbi's cheek for the first time...i think he is the kind who don't date unless he really believe and love the girl..bcoz he may devote himself for his love..and that's may be the reason why he don't have girlfriend for 6years....

but with solbi who honestly liking him...and straightforward and make move and always cheering him up...can see how andy slowly accept and like solbi more...like in episode 17, he also enjoy kissing solbi...can see his shy yet happy face...maybe he just really need time to openly admit his feeling...

i don't think that he is so insensitive about solbi's feeling...if i'm andy, i would be touched with solbi's love..i heard they really become close nowadays even off screen...i think they really become stronger after ring's case...


hopefully you're right. i've yet to see episode 17, but am anxiously waiting for it to be released with subs. i really like solbi, but for some odd reason, after watching the special, i'm starting to dislike andy. yeah he might have relationship issues, but you'd think after being together with solbi for so long, he'd know that she really likes him. i always thought he was the perfect husband, but i have to put my mind into the position of thinking that it's just a show. nothing real may even occur.
o well, it makes me laugh so i'll still continue watching the "development" of those two.
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about the lost ring incident, was it true dat some1 stole her purse .... or was it scripted ?


i think it's true.. logically speaking.. if you watched in episode 11, andy asked solbi why she changed her cellphone.. and i think it was the time where solbi lost her ring.. her old cellphone was in her purse along with her ring.. :]


That's a really good point, I didn't think of that.... hmmm
Poor Solbi though...
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People are mad at Andy? Oh c'mon. Solbi lost the ring, but what bugged Andy was that she lied about it. He put effort into finding it, making something special with the balloons for her and he put his emotions into that. Then she lost it. It wasn't the losing it that he was mad about. It was her lying about it. In Korean culture what she did was a huge no-no. She was more concerned about her own feelings and embarrassment than she was about Andy's. In a relationship there has to be consideration for the other person's feelings. In Korean culture you are considerate by being straight forward with your feelings and having the decency to read other people's emotions. She did neither. He has a right to be mad at her. It's going to take a while for him to get over it.

She's also being pushy. I mean she knew in episode 16 he had a cold... he even had a fever, but she was more concerned with herself and going to a hair salon which had to be hers. She wasn't thinking about his health or well being. I can't blame him for being cold towards her for that. She didn't listen to him for what he wanted. She wasn't reading his feelings and was more concerned with her own.

He said point-blank that he can't forgive liars. But me, I can't forgive inconsiderate people who think of only themselves. Her behavior is considered really immature in Korean society. I would consider it immature in ours too. If someone gets sick, do you insist on taking them out and making the more sick? Or do you have the decency to say we'll stay in and I'll buy you medicine. We can do this next time? (Like another couple.. *cough*)

So don't say poor Solbi. She created this situation. Hey! Has anyone noticed that the "evil" women in dramas are never straight forward with what they feel, manipulative and never considerate of others feelings? This tells you a lot about Korean culture... and I feel Solbi did this more and more.

I'm not saying Andy is free from "blame", but it does take two to create a situation...
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I feel bad for Solbi. Clearly she felt horrible for losing the ring, even Andy noticed that. Its not like she misplaced it, the ring along with her bag was stolen.

I don't think that she intentionally lied about the ring, but rather avoided it and Andy. She didn't set out to hurt Andy by any means, I think she was just scared and nervous of what Andy's reaction would be and I would be too if I were in her shoes. She was really worried about confessing and it took her awhile to gather enough courage to do so. However, at the same time, avoiding Andy and the ring would obviously confuse and hurt him.

So really, with this ring incident, Andy isn't to blame because he didn't do anything wrong except be confused by Solbi's distance, but I do understand Solbi at the same time.

With the whole Salon incident...Yes Andy was sick, but he wasn't on his death bed and he went to get his hair done anyway so why couldn't he have just gone to Solbi's. Yes I know, he doesn't have to do everything that Solbi wants, but it was a special day. They were taking "wedding" photos, usually couples go to the same salon and it is essentially the Bride's day. Even Andy's hairdresser at the Salon that he went to said he should have gone to Solbi's salon with her.

Yes, he went to the hospital, but if he really wasn't feeling that well he should have told Solbi that they needed to stop there, She would have went with him without any hesitation.

She knew he wasn't feeling well, but he never told her that he went to the hospital. Which is slightly hypocritical coming from the man who hates the liar.

Its not about which hair salon he went to, but the fact that he chose to "do his own thing" rather than be with Solbi on the day that they were taking their wedding photos.
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solbi's so...DEMANDING...she always wants it HER way...


like for example...SPOILER FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT UP TO DATE!!! at the wedding pictures thingy...she like DRAGGED him with her to HER hail salon place even though andy said he didn't want to...
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solbi's so...DEMANDING...she always wants it HER way...


like for example...SPOILER FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT UP TO DATE!!! at the wedding pictures thingy...she like DRAGGED him with her to HER hail salon place even though andy said he didn't want to...


She was so understanding at this part... remember that this day should be the brides day and that the couple should be together the whole day. And of course she wanted to go to her salon because this pictures were important for her and she wanted to look good, but wanted to be with her groom at the same time. Andy only had to do his hair a little, not put up a whole set of make up on his face.I was quite dissapointed with Andy because he did that, he should've had more consideration for her feelings.. . But in an end, as usual, Solbi was the one the gave up and let Andy do what he wanted.If you watch episode 16, you'll see that everyone is shocked of what andy did,and even his hairdresser tells him that the groom should be next to his bride in this day and that it's the bride's day.

So, what i wanted to say is that she was not DEMANDING ENOUGH from my point of view
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I feel bad for Solbi. Clearly she felt horrible for losing the ring, even Andy noticed that. Its not like she misplaced it, the ring along with her bag was stolen.

I don't think that she intentionally lied about the ring, but rather avoided it and Andy. She didn't set out to hurt Andy by any means, I think she was just scared and nervous of what Andy's reaction would be and I would be too if I were in her shoes. She was really worried about confessing and it took her awhile to gather enough courage to do so. However, at the same time, avoiding Andy and the ring would obviously confuse and hurt him.

So really, with this ring incident, Andy isn't to blame because he didn't do anything wrong except be confused by Solbi's distance, but I do understand Solbi at the same time.

With the whole Salon incident...Yes Andy was sick, but he wasn't on his death bed and he went to get his hair done anyway so why couldn't he have just gone to Solbi's. Yes I know, he doesn't have to do everything that Solbi wants, but it was a special day. They were taking "wedding" photos, usually couples go to the same salon and it is essentially the Bride's day. Even Andy's hairdresser at the Salon that he went to said he should have gone to Solbi's salon with her.

Yes, he went to the hospital, but if he really wasn't feeling that well he should have told Solbi that they needed to stop there, She would have went with him without any hesitation.

She knew he wasn't feeling well, but he never told her that he went to the hospital. Which is slightly hypocritical coming from the man who hates the liar.

Its not about which hair salon he went to, but the fact that he chose to "do his own thing" rather than be with Solbi on the day that they were taking their wedding photos.


totally agree with you in every word PrityFlower, I feel bad for Solbi too..Andy's going to hospital by himself made Solbi an careless wife though she ain't ...Solbi is a strong girl, i believe she knows what she should do to be happy with Andy...but finally as expected, Andy redeemed his mistake by his sweet words and charisma eyes ...how kute they are in photoshoot day <3 AnBi hwaiting ~~~
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cindy30894 wrote:

solbi's so...DEMANDING...she always wants it HER way...


like for example...SPOILER FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT UP TO DATE!!! at the wedding pictures thingy...she like DRAGGED him with her to HER hail salon place even though andy said he didn't want to...


She was so understanding at this part... remember that this day should be the brides day and that the couple should be together the whole day. And of course she wanted to go to her salon because this pictures were important for her and she wanted to look good, but wanted to be with her groom at the same time. Andy only had to do his hair a little, not put up a whole set of make up on his face.I was quite dissapointed with Andy because he did that, he should've had more consideration for her feelings.. . But in an end, as usual, Solbi was the one the gave up and let Andy do what he wanted.If you watch episode 16, you'll see that everyone is shocked of what andy did,and even his hairdresser tells him that the groom should be next to his bride in this day and that it's the bride's day.

So, what i wanted to say is that she was not DEMANDING ENOUGH from my point of view


good speech Standiari.... Solbi was not demanding girl...i've got shocked when Andy went to hospital by himself without telling Solbi ... how sad she was when she found out by watching in the big screen...but i think they're gonna go through those things to be happy finally
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standiari wrote:


cindy30894 wrote:

solbi's so...DEMANDING...she always wants it HER way...


like for example...SPOILER FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT UP TO DATE!!! at the wedding pictures thingy...she like DRAGGED him with her to HER hail salon place even though andy said he didn't want to...


She was so understanding at this part... remember that this day should be the brides day and that the couple should be together the whole day. And of course she wanted to go to her salon because this pictures were important for her and she wanted to look good, but wanted to be with her groom at the same time. Andy only had to do his hair a little, not put up a whole set of make up on his face.I was quite dissapointed with Andy because he did that, he should've had more consideration for her feelings.. . But in an end, as usual, Solbi was the one the gave up and let Andy do what he wanted.If you watch episode 16, you'll see that everyone is shocked of what andy did,and even his hairdresser tells him that the groom should be next to his bride in this day and that it's the bride's day.

So, what i wanted to say is that she was not DEMANDING ENOUGH from my point of view


good speech Standiari.... Solbi was not demanding girl...i've got shocked when Andy went to hospital by himself without telling Solbi ... how sad she was when she found out by watching in the big screen...but i think they're gonna go through those things to be happy finally


totally agree she's not demanding....i'm a bit disappointed with andy i know he's sick but he's suppose to tell it to his wife if he want to go to the hospital...andy makes solbi looks not a good wife..he's lucky sobi forgive him fast..
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I said yes cause i really hope so!! I absolutely adore this couple and wish they were goin out in real life!! ^^
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They really make a cute couple.
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michelle_chen wrote:


standiari wrote:


cindy30894 wrote:

solbi's so...DEMANDING...she always wants it HER way...


like for example...SPOILER FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT UP TO DATE!!! at the wedding pictures thingy...she like DRAGGED him with her to HER hail salon place even though andy said he didn't want to...”

She was so understanding at this part... remember that this day should be the brides day and that the couple should be together the whole day. And of course she wanted to go to her salon because this pictures were important for her and she wanted to look good, but wanted to be with her groom at the same time. Andy only had to do his hair a little, not put up a whole set of make up on his face.I was quite dissapointed with Andy because he did that, he should've had more consideration for her feelings.. . But in an end, as usual, Solbi was the one the gave up and let Andy do what he wanted.If you watch episode 16, you'll see that everyone is shocked of what andy did,and even his hairdresser tells him that the groom should be next to his bride in this day and that it's the bride's day.

So, what i wanted to say is that she was not DEMANDING ENOUGH from my point of view ”

good speech Standiari.... Solbi was not demanding girl...i've got shocked when Andy went to hospital by himself without telling Solbi ... how sad she was when she found out by watching in the big screen...but i think they're gonna go through those things to be happy finally ”

totally agree she's not demanding....i'm a bit disappointed with andy i know he's sick but he's suppose to tell it to his wife if he want to go to the hospital...andy makes solbi looks not a good wife..he's lucky sobi forgive him fast..


I agree with some things that were said but... I think that the reason Andy didn't tell her he went to the hospital was because he knew it was an important day so he didn't want to worry her AND he was tought not to depend on others when he's sick... he said it himself... my parents say the same thing to me... I might not have someone to "help" me when I'm sick (one day, who knows XP) so I should depend on myself... but that's just me...
But I still think he should of went to the salon with Solbi! She wasn't demanding... she just wanted to be with him...

And yes, I think their relationship will get stronger...
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Definitely a YES!
If solbi can be more truthful and caring to andy and andy getting better in expressing himself.
Andy is slow in love but he is not oblivious to her giving.
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