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It Does NOT Matter (Hesitation)
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Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/20/08
Problem/Topic/Event/Randomness:

Are there times when you do something, a feeling of hesitation of doing it suddenly pops up?

Most of us write what we feel, in forum threads, in chatrooms, in GBs, and in the group walls. We might write bad things about an individual, or we might reply in a negative manner about a forum post. But do you think before you do anything? Do you ask yourself, "Does It Matter?" Does it matter if you hurt someone, does it matter if you offend someone, and does it matter, that a single word that you typed or said may have changed that individual's future.

As I have observed, many, many, many, many of us reply negatively. We try to antagonize someone who does a simple and little mistake, and someone who contrasts our views. When we are confronted, we directly attack back! When we do these things, cant we pause for a moment, and ask ourselves, "Does It Matter and Is It Necessary to do this?"

HESITATE?

So the questions are:

Do you hesitate when you do something? What are those specific instances?
Have you ever tried doing something bad and hesitated or not hesitated?
What do you think are instances when most people hesitate?

Please discuss anything related to HESITATION. A moment where you hesitated, or a moment where you should have hesitated, and thought of your planned actions before doing it.

(Note: I did NOT put this in the extended discussion section for I do not think it can accumulate to such.)

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Posted 7/4/08
um ofc u have to think of wut u say
or write...
thats pretty much wut i try to do b4 posting everything i post...
i hesitate alot and backspace alot of stuff cuz i think its inappropriate or just plain wrong...
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yeah, i hesitate sometimes.
i have to proofread what i type to make sure no one gets offended or takes what i said the wrong way.
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Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/4/08
^^ Is my title original? I like how it sounds. Nyahahahaha. I just thought of that Title for no reason, I didnt know what the content should be so I added (Hesitation).
Posted 7/4/08 , edited 10/26/09
yeah, i hesitate sometimes, like if i say something too mean or inappropriate, i just think about it and fix my mistakes.
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Posted 7/4/08
There's no need for hesitation with the all new
EDIT Button!

or Mods deleting your posts :<
(i'm bitter right now)
Posted 7/4/08
Hehe...I think that you must say what you think! So...It's better to hurt people than to tell a lay.... ^^"
But that doesn't mean that you can hurt them on purpose! It's good to be sure that, what you write(say) isn't wrong or unfair. ^_^
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Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/4/08

izickree wrote:

There's no need for hesitation with the all new
EDIT Button!

or Mods deleting your posts :<
(i'm bitter right now)


Do you need sugar?

Edit: I just used Edit! Hurrah!

Anyways, not necessarily forum posts only. When you talk to someone, or interact with some sort of conversation.
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Posted 7/4/08
sometimes i hesitate........^_^
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Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/4/08
Im sort of a "you don't fuck with me, I don't fuck with you guy". I've offended some, as I'm sure most of you have before, but I always know what I'm doing. Good topic btw.
Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/4/08
Yes I do hesitate sometimes when I'm not sure of the outcome; Playing Safe.
I hesitate when I do most bad things but sometimes I feel like it doesn't matter.
I hesitate sometimes in the forums whether I'm going to support, flame or simply observe what happens next.

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Posted 7/4/08 , edited 7/4/08

DRO1 wrote:

Im sort of a "you don't fuck with me, I don't fuck with you guy". I've offended some, as I'm sure most of you have before, but I always know what I'm doing. Good topic btw.


You're the winner! I was waiting for a compliment!

You get 10 Million Dollars of invisible money!
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I also have offended many people. That is what lead me to this post. I try to be as positive as I can get.


Bern34 wrote:

I'll gladly change someone's future.


I am also positive that someone out there will be also glad to change your future.
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Heck, yeah. When I'm thinking bad about someone or something in real life, I hesitate quite a bit. XD My good side would be all, "Uh oh.. D: -hesitate hesitate- " But then if I'm really pissed, my bad side just takes over and f*ck it, I don't give a shit. Sorta thing.. XP I usually don't voice it, though. Since the word REGRET kills me, lol.

It's easier on forums. I backspace and erase and edit a LOT. Then posting takes like 5~10 minutes.. >__> That's hesitation for you, I guess XD
Posted 7/4/08
Do you hesitate when you do something?
No.
What are those specific instances?
I can't think of anything ATM but usually I don't think of consequences or the outcome. I just do it.
Have you ever tried doing something bad and hesitated or not hesitated?
Yes, like stealing. I might hesitate, but in the end, I still take it.
What do you think are instances when most people hesitate?
Getting their ears peirced// tats

Going on an amusement ride

many things, but I'm braindead at the moment.
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I hesitate in sports a lot.

Basketball - Pass, drive, or go for the j
Football - Should I pass to a certain receiver or should I wait for them to blitz etc.
Tennis - Drop shot, slice, forehand, backhand... Basically a lot of things in tennis especially if I'm up at the net... Net is fucking hard ._.
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