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What do you do when you're in love with someone you can never have?
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Posted 2/27/07
You'll have to deal with it as best as you can and move on. Can't think of anything better than that, sorry. Good luck.
Posted 2/27/07
either deal with it and forget
or tell her your feelings get an answer
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27 / M / Deep,deep,deep in...
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i know what you ve been going through trust me, think of other stuff it will help you a lot, i know it will be really hard but you have to do it, if you don't wanna tell her what u feel for her
Posted 2/27/07
Well, if you say that you can never have her, i would probaly just try to move on =O
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Hmmmmmm???? love someone you can never have....sound taboo to me...anyways....there are multiple scenarios you can consider as those mentioned above. But if you really cant have the one you love...I will refer to a saying that i have heard countless times...."If you truly love someone,you have to learn to let them go."
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Posted 2/27/07

suollac2 wrote:

because i dont know and its killing me. plus she doesnt even know


Then Let her know!!!! thats the most important thing ebfore u even think that u can never be with her and stuff...
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Posted 2/27/07
well you should let her know! for all you know there could be a chance after all!
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28 / F / U.S. of A.
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Posted 2/27/07
let her know of course! or unless she has someone, just wait for them to fizzle out, and then jump in!
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20 / M / Boston
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Alternately you can flee the country in an attempt to get away from anything that reminds you of her. Letting her know could be dangerous if you value her friendship though. Sometimes it will make things awkward and tear apart the relationship you already have with her. It's a fine dance between keeping a friend and losing a lover, keeping a friend and gaining a lover, and oh so often losing your friend and a lover.
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Posted 2/27/07
you answered your own question by saying never. if that's your attitude then i say move on. also we need more general infos on the girl/situation if we're to give you our two cents. 'cause i'm gonna assume there's something that made you use the word 'never.'

here are my general two cents:
be objective. i know it's hard when you think you're in love with someone. but ask yourself objective questions and be truthful in answering them since they'll help you decide the course you should take. questions such as: how does she feels about you? how long have you been in love with her? why are you attracted to her? directly questioning your feelings and thoughts could help to clear some of the fogginess that "lovey dovey" feelings create in your mind. in the end, be true to yourself and live without regrets. i feel everyone, no matter who they are, likes the feeling of being loved or wanted. however, don't have unrealistic expectations (shouldn't have any if you've truthful thought about your feelings and her as well) and be patient.

in general: i think you know what you can do and what you should do already. be decisive and make a decision. be indecisive or holding back your own feelings, and you'll end up like those characters in those tragic love dramas. haven't you noticed that they almost always regret not being true to their feelings at the end? (at least in the movies i've seen anyway *shrugs*) if you're truly in love like you say you are, then rephrase the question to : "what do you do when you're in love with someone who doesn't know/love you yet?"

btw. it IS easier to give advices than to actually follow through with them. that's why people who take action are often richly rewarded. well a happy ending is never a guaranty, but it'll definitely have an altering effect on your life. for better or worse, of course, depends on you.

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Posted 2/27/07

SexyWhiteGodOfLove wrote:

why cant you have her?
is she dating someone else or something?
and go tell that bitch
hurry !


hahaha i agree but i know thats not reallly really really easy!!
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First it depends on who??

If it's a celebrity then ur pretty damn busted! But if it's an ordinary girl...u'll always have the chance...so GOOD LUCK and try to show her that ur interested in her,maybe ask her out to the movies or something
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Hmmmm....Too much drama for me. I think what the problem is, is that you make the simplest things more complicated than they really are. Dont think about it too much and do what you think you would want to do.
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Posted 2/27/07
I concur with most of everyone here.

Just tell her how you feel, it might be harder then it sounds but at least you won't be hurting yourself like you are now.

If she still says no and she just might stop talking you all together; move on.
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