When feeling stronger emotions toward a childhood friend
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I've got a childhood friend (My male best friend we know each other other since kindergarten) We went to the same primary school,middle and next year we will be going to different high schools. We have a kind of ''siblings'' relationship. I never felt indifferent towards him until he told me he would be going to a different high school but would still keep in touch. I felt like telling him something --- but at that moment --- he was smiling, I told him what happened and he said that the girl he always liked is finally going out with him. That's when I felt a bit of jealousy, and when I realized that I liked him. It's not that I want to go out with him but I want to tell him how I feel and at the same time I don,t want to ruin the siblings relationship.


Not to turn this into a personal thread , have you ever liked someone more then a friend... if you had the courage to tell the other you liked them ... did it work out?


Did you ever have a ''sibling relationship'' with a male? (Well except your brother of course )

If you are a male ... *mute* I think you get the point (¯++­¯)


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Yeah, you're totally jealous that you're not the only girl in his life that he can confide in anymore.

And yes, I've liked someone more than a friend and had the courage to tell him that I like him. Yes, it worked out.

No, I've never had a "sibling relationship" with a male.
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Yeah .. but he passed away ...
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Yeah I had a ¨sibling relationship¨with a male i was the only one that trusted and he told me everything


We are both changing schools and i thought he would keep talking to me but when i talked 2 him on msn he wouldnt answer and he doesnt pick up my phone calls


I like anime but without even noticing i got addicted and tried to watch even more anime just to make me feel closer 2 him because he is always watching anime i think i like him but im not sure everytime i watch anime he i keep thinking about him

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Posted 7/10/08

cnw64 wrote:

Yeah .. but he passed away ...


Oh, I'm sorry.
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n_n303 wrote:

Pfftt... My childhood guys arent my type.
Sure we get a long, and hang out a lot. But neh. Definitely not B/f material. If he was though, I'd go for him. He's pretty good looking and fun to be around with. Never fell for any of my childhood friends.


Oh.

I don't want him as my b/f though. I just tell him everything and that's one thing that I want to tell him but can't. And I don't want to break the relationship with the women of his dreams
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NiNaBoN wrote:


cnw64 wrote:

Yeah .. but he passed away ...


Oh, I'm sorry.


Its ok ... u didnt know.
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You won't break the relationship you have with him if you strongly tell him that you don't want a romantic relationship with him. Instead you should probably tell him that: even though he's got a girlfriend now, you hope your relationship won't change and that you guys can still talk freely.
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n_n303 wrote:


NiNaBoN wrote:
Oh.

I don't want him as my b/f though. I just tell him everything and that's one thing that I want to tell him but can't. And I don't want to break the relationship with the women of his dreams


If you dont want him as a boyfriend, then leave him alone with his new girl. If you want to tell him that you're going to miss him and that it sucks that theres two girls in his life, then go ahead. But dont give him false hopes or lead him on if you're going to tell him how you feel. Also..dont double post
Theres an "edit" button there so you dont double post.


I did a double post? Oups didn't know sorry
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cnw64 wrote:

Yeah .. but he passed away ...


aww...

that must've been sad for u...

sry to hear it....

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most of my childhood friends are guys so...

if i were you.. hmm.. arrrgh i don't know xD
first thing is, is it really love you're feeling for him? cuz if it is, it will surely hurt you as time passes. i mean, he'll go for the girl he likes but you're there without even confessing. the risk is really high in your case, if you tell him what you're feeling he may gol awkward and will ruin your "sibling relationship".. the other thing is, maybe it is "sibling love" he's feeling for you not the romantic type..
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well i grew up with my bffs brother,and next year we will be going to the same middle school. and there is this girl i realy dont like and she starts rumors about me all the time. and i dont want dakota (the boy i like) to hear any of them. SO YOU GIVE ME ADVISE PLEASE!!!!!
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yebinyubin3 wrote:

well i grew up with my bffs brother,and next year we will be going to the same middle school. and there is this girl i realy dont like and she starts rumors about me all the time. and i dont want dakota (the boy i like) to hear any of them. SO YOU GIVE ME ADVISE PLEASE!!!!!


go f her up.lol.nah but confront her. if she hits u beat the crap out of her n say it was self defense.
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Posted 7/11/08

chinita333 wrote:


yebinyubin3 wrote:

well i grew up with my bffs brother,and next year we will be going to the same middle school. and there is this girl i realy dont like and she starts rumors about me all the time. and i dont want dakota (the boy i like) to hear any of them. SO YOU GIVE ME ADVISE PLEASE!!!!!


go f her up.lol.nah but confront her. if she hits u beat the crap out of her n say it was self defense.


LOL!!

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