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Would you ever agree to marrying a stranger?
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Dramas have released many plotlines about marriage that are something like this:

1. Arranged marriage
2. Marriage to a Complete Stranger
3. Marriage to someone you don't love but know

They make out-of-the-blue marriages so damn romantic! But we all know that's not how it works in real life! But hell, if I was ever asked to marry a hot actor or actress (for the guys out there) I'd immediately accept!

In any case, here are my questions:

Would you ever agree to an arranged marriage?
Would you agree to marry a complete stranger (but not an arranged marriage)?
Would you agree to marry a friend of yours who you only love as a friend?


Personally, I would want to be caught up in an arranged marriage because I seriously do not feel like I would ever find 'the one' for me. So, why not let my parents do the looking right?

For the complete stranger one, I wouldn't marry a complete stranger because there are such things as serial killers, pedophiles, and such... My parents always taught me to be careful of who I marry because we've seen so many instances on the news about a husband or wife killing their spouse.

On the other one, I would definitely agree to marry a friend of mine even though I only consider him as a friend. I'll learn to love him...

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Would you ever agree to an arranged marriage? mmmm maybe if it's hot yup xDDD lol is like if it's hot and my parents accept it hell yeah i'll marry him right away x3
Would you agree to marry a complete stranger (but not an arranged marriage)? now eww~ it's like my inner would never let me do that xD
Would you agree to marry a friend of yours who you only love as a friend? nop D: ...

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me ...

i will be married to somebody i barely know.,.,

its a arrange marriage.,.,

he is not completely stranger to me.,.,

is that im not close to him.,.,




basic profile.,.,is the only thing i know about him.,.,









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well i dont think i will maybe if i get to know him more then maybe it will change i will know when it happens
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Would you ever agree to an arranged marriage? no because what if i love someone else already
Would you agree to marry a complete stranger (but not an arranged marriage)? nope cause i don't know how he going to treat me after i marry him
Would you agree to marry a friend of yours who you only love as a friend? maybe cause what if after marry him i find him more interesting
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arranged marriage---- i will agree if i am 40 years old

stranger------if he looks like yamapi and have the wealth of domiyouji, yes.

friend------- if i am 35 years old, and since this frd loves me, that's better than nth. its always better to be loved.
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marc_iloveyou wrote:

me ...

i will be married to somebody i barely know.,.,

its a arrange marriage.,.,

he is not completely stranger to me.,.,

is that im not close to him.,.,




basic profile.,.,is the only thing i know about him.,.,











Woah... is he attractive? LOL...

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well the movies and such do make it seem fun..but reality check? how often does someone that rich, that good looking, and have a great personality come around with no other lover attached/soem kind of death disease/butt load of debt or soemthing crazy along that line..movies make them seem fun..but i dont think i would be as fortunate in real life if i did something like that..
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If he was my type then I would have no doubts on marrying him since my parents arranged it. BUT if he WASN'T my type at all then HELL NO! hahah i'm serious.I'm really picky, i notice everything and i base everything by their looks and not personality at first.

but if it was XIAH JUNSU, then......i'll marry him anytime anyday!!! hahaha or if it was someone that was exactly like him! haha
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1. only if I like him
2. not unless the lives of my parents/the world/ etc depends on it (same for 1)
3. see number 2

I think, people can grow to love each other because if you live with someone long enough, you'll realize that they're all good people. However, there are different types of love. The first is more like a love of a friend or family.
Dramas make it seem like they are all good, but the truth is, many young women and men (especially women) suffer because of arranged marriages.
Posted 7/16/08
1,2,&3 all depends on the situation. like the dramas, they all get caught in situations were they cant refuse so.
Posted 7/16/08
Would you ever agree to an arranged marriage?
No way in hell. I hate being told what to do.

Would you agree to marry a complete stranger (but not an arranged marriage)?
No. Why would I want to add myself to the list of miserable, married couples? I've seen what it's like to be married to someone you didn't know enough and it's not pretty.

Would you agree to marry a friend of yours who you only love as a friend?
No. When I start liking someone as only a friend, through and through, it stays that way.
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haha looking for the right one is half the fun ey so no arranged marriges here
no complete stranger either gosh knows what kind of person they may be!!
and a friend.. well maybe when im like 45 and just want to settle down with someone...
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summerbeat wrote:

arranged marriage---- i will agree if i am 40 years old

stranger------if he looks like yamapi and have the wealth of domiyouji, yes.

friend------- if i am 35 years old, and since this frd loves me, that's better than nth. its always better to be loved.


muahaha my thoughts exactly!!

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BE_LOVED wrote:

Would you ever agree to an arranged marriage?
No way in hell. I hate being told what to do.

Would you agree to marry a complete stranger (but not an arranged marriage)?
No. Why would I want to add myself to the list of miserable, married couples? I've seen what it's like to be married to someone you didn't know enough and it's not pretty.

Would you agree to marry a friend of yours who you only love as a friend?
No. When I start liking someone as only a friend, through and through, it stays that way.



I was thinking exactly like yours~~~~

i juz can't live with someone that totally stranger to me~~~

and, i used to date my friend that become my boyfriend, but, i felt awkward when i'm with him as a lovers~~~
we are not who we are when we become lovers~~
so, the relationship was last for about a month then, after that, we totally become stranger to each other~~~
we can't be friend like we use to be~~~
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