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What do you do when you and your girlfriend/boyfriend are drifting apart???
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Posted 7/17/08 , edited 7/17/08
well me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 2 months now and lately we been getting in to alot of arguments, not loud ones or angry ones it just, ummm different that it use to be... i feel like we arnt as close if any of u have any suggestions to help it would be greatly appreciated
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I hate when that happens but we all have to realize that not every day is going to be a honeymoon. It's perfectly normal to get into occasional fights, sometimes we need a break from eachother.

Don't panic just yet, find a way to hear eachother out. Sometimes just taking time to understand the other person's point of view helps. Find little ways to be romantic and show that you still care.
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Posted 7/17/08
Maybe she just has something on her mind that's disturbing her.. Ask her if there's anything wrong.

And don't get mad at her easily.
Posted 7/17/08
dump her - get a better one
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Posted 7/17/08

milktea24 wrote:

Maybe she just has something on her mind that's disturbing her.. Ask her if there's anything wrong.

And don't get mad at her easily.


i no something is bothering her and every time i ask her she just like "dont worry about it"
so what am i supposed to do??
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Posted 7/17/08

n_n303 wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:

i no something is bothering her and every time i ask her she just like "dont worry about it"
so what am i supposed to do??


ugh! I HATE that!
Just slap her around until she tells you.


LOL, just one problem, cant hit girls
Posted 7/17/08

edmondkwan333 wrote:


n_n303 wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:

i no something is bothering her and every time i ask her she just like "dont worry about it"
so what am i supposed to do??


ugh! I HATE that!
Just slap her around until she tells you.


LOL, just one problem, cant hit girls :P

woman beaters are successful in life
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Posted 7/17/08

n_n303 wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:

LOL, just one problem, cant hit girls :P


^
dont HIT her.
Thats not what I meant. Slap her around..as in...Poke at it until she cracks and tells you. Be a little annoying and keep telling her theres obviously something wrong, and that you have every right to worry. And if she doesnt tell you still then threaten her to dump her.



(and if it backfires and you get dumped..er..sorry? )


she hates when i poke her because she always burst out laughign, thanks for the advice ill try that (not threnten her but ahh)
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Posted 7/17/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:


n_n303 wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:

i no something is bothering her and every time i ask her she just like "dont worry about it"
so what am i supposed to do??


ugh! I HATE that!
Just slap her around until she tells you.


LOL, just one problem, cant hit girls :P

woman beaters are successful in life


ummmm ya......... dont think your right on that
Posted 7/17/08 , edited 7/17/08

edmondkwan333 wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:


n_n303 wrote:


edmondkwan333 wrote:

i no something is bothering her and every time i ask her she just like "dont worry about it"
so what am i supposed to do??


ugh! I HATE that!
Just slap her around until she tells you.


LOL, just one problem, cant hit girls :P

woman beaters are successful in life


ummmm ya......... dont think your right on that

am i?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwWM9zlKbaE

may this enlighten you
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Posted 7/17/08
why don't you try this I've felt that way before with my current boyfriend and we had been cranky towards each other not aruging but, give her some space I don't know how much you two hang around each other but it might be that you see each other everyday or theres nothing really to talk about. Or she might have some doubts on her mind about you, maybe her past bpyfriends did something and she might think you might do it too, just ask her nicely whats wrong and gave her some time to answer don't rush her or you could ask her to write her feelings in a notebook and give it to you, she might be shy to tell you things but if it all works out, just tell her to be more open because you care about her.
Posted 7/17/08

asamiueto wrote:

dump her - get a better one


I second this!!
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Posted 7/17/08

Bishhieful wrote:


asamiueto wrote:

dump her - get a better one


I second this!!


i dont:(
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Posted 7/17/08

thechibiness wrote:

why don't you try this I've felt that way before with my current boyfriend and we had been cranky towards each other not aruging but, give her some space I don't know how much you two hang around each other but it might be that you see each other everyday or theres nothing really to talk about. Or she might have some doubts on her mind about you, maybe her past bpyfriends did something and she might think you might do it too, just ask her nicely whats wrong and gave her some time to answer don't rush her or you could ask her to write her feelings in a notebook and give it to you, she might be shy to tell you things but if it all works out, just tell her to be more open because you care about her.


thanks ill try that note book thing, and she is going out with her friends for a couple of days so yea
thanks a lot:)
Posted 7/17/08

edmondkwan333 wrote:


Bishhieful wrote:


asamiueto wrote:

dump her - get a better one


I second this!!


i dont:(


Why not??
it's better than just watching her gradually go away....
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