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is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??
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um i dont know if you can help me
but ill try okay i like this guy that is realy nice and kind to me and my friends but he likes one of my friends and i like him and my friend will say yes to him if he ask her out but only cuz i like him but the thing is he is my friend and i dont know if he feels the same way about me wanting to be more then friends
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donnalyn17 wrote:

is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??


it is possible to love some one with out seeeing them as long as you two know each other and love one another you can alway love that person and there is ways the phone and e-mails and sending picture of how you are doing
- not sure if that help you but i hope it does >_<
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donnalyn17 wrote:

is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??


it is possible to love some one with out seeeing them as long as you two know each other and love one another you can alway love that person and there is ways the phone and e-mails and sending picture of how you are doing
- not sure if that help you but i hope it does >_<



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chocolateroses wrote:


donnalyn17 wrote:

is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??


it is possible to love some one with out seeeing them as long as you two know each other and love one another you can alway love that person and there is ways the phone and e-mails and sending picture of how you are doing
- not sure if that help you but i hope it does >_<



tnx


your welcome i hope i help you and that it works out
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donnalyn17 wrote:

is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??


not at all.
If you know the person really well.
for like a year or two then yeah.
but a long distance relationship is actually kind of hard to keep.
I don't really mind them, but an internet relationship never really lasted for me.
If you know what he looks like thats even better.
The thing is you get questions like:
"Is he seeing someone else"
"what if he was lying to me"
"does he really love me"
etc.

so yes it's possible but it's actually easier to date closer to you.
trust me. I've dealt with it before.
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chocolateroses wrote:

um i dont know if you can help me
but ill try okay i like this guy that is realy nice and kind to me and my friends but he likes one of my friends and i like him and my friend will say yes to him if he ask her out but only cuz i like him but the thing is he is my friend and i dont know if he feels the same way about me wanting to be more then friends


i always try my hardest to help people.
Like i said. I write romance novels, so basically i practically know every kind of romance thing.
lets see *reads*

Well heres the thing, if she doesn't really like him then it's not fair to him, cuz basically she's just dating him to make you jealous.
So really that also shows that she's not really a great friend.
But i've been in the situation before myself.
But on the girl wasn't really my friend.
i was holding in my feelings, then on the day i was going to tell him how i felt he got a girlfriend.

So what i suggest is tell him how you feel before it's too late.
If he accepts that then you have yourself a new boyfriend.
but if he doesn't, then accept it, i'm not telling you to forget about your feelings but friendship is more important the romance. cuz in one way or another he does love you as a friend.
I'm mean who knows maybe one day when you have a new boyfriend he'll find out that he actually likes you, but im just saying that.

There's no reason to hold back your feelings.
Maybe tell him that you like him and want to be his girlfriend, but if not you still want to be friends.
That way things might not be weird.

Hope my advice helped you.
If you have any more problems or questions just ask.
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i'm always here.
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chocolateroses wrote:

um i dont know if you can help me
but ill try okay i like this guy that is realy nice and kind to me and my friends but he likes one of my friends and i like him and my friend will say yes to him if he ask her out but only cuz i like him but the thing is he is my friend and i dont know if he feels the same way about me wanting to be more then friends


i always try my hardest to help people.
Like i said. I write romance novels, so basically i practically know every kind of romance thing.
lets see *reads*

Well heres the thing, if she doesn't really like him then it's not fair to him, cuz basically she's just dating him to make you jealous.
So really that also shows that she's not really a great friend.
But i've been in the situation before myself.
But on the girl wasn't really my friend.
i was holding in my feelings, then on the day i was going to tell him how i felt he got a girlfriend.

So what i suggest is tell him how you feel before it's too late.
If he accepts that then you have yourself a new boyfriend.
but if he doesn't, then accept it, i'm not telling you to forget about your feelings but friendship is more important the romance. cuz in one way or another he does love you as a friend.
I'm mean who knows maybe one day when you have a new boyfriend he'll find out that he actually likes you, but im just saying that.

There's no reason to hold back your feelings.
Maybe tell him that you like him and want to be his girlfriend, but if not you still want to be friends.
That way things might not be weird.

Hope my advice helped you.
If you have any more problems or questions just ask.
=]
i'm always here.


thank you but my friend ask him out to day and now they are going out i sow it on my myspace he was ask out thought that so when i went to post something i sow it but oh while im still his friend
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aw im sorry.
i can't believe your friend did that when she knew you liked him.
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Ehh compitions compition should of acted quicker ^^ sorry tho
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Posted 8/11/08

ButterflyRomance wrote:


donnalyn17 wrote:

is it possible 2 love someone far from u and u did not see him even once??


not at all.
If you know the person really well.
for like a year or two then yeah.
but a long distance relationship is actually kind of hard to keep.
I don't really mind them, but an internet relationship never really lasted for me.
If you know what he looks like thats even better.
The thing is you get questions like:
"Is he seeing someone else"
"what if he was lying to me"
"does he really love me"
etc.

so yes it's possible but it's actually easier to date closer to you.
trust me. I've dealt with it before.


yah hehe tnx
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My friend has a problem.... she has a (they are madly in love)boyfriend who is very sweet and nice, but he tends to be a pussy.... they have been together for more than a year but now she is starting to like this other guy friend because they have been close and she has thought about doing naughty things with him even though she never does because she is scared that the boyfriend may kill himself (happened once, different problem though). So she likes the guy but doesn't know if he likes her because he is very secretive. What do you think this is, is she falling for the guy and betraying the love of the boyfriend? or is it just a phase that she is going through? Is it ok for her to have this feelings?!?! please help my friend is desperate because she doesn't know what she will do tomorrow at school when he sees him and the boyfriend is starting to get suspicious and worried.
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My friend has a problem.... she has a (they are madly in love)boyfriend who is very sweet and nice, but he tends to be a pussy.... they have been together for more than a year but now she is starting to like this other guy friend because they have been close and she has thought about doing naughty things with him even though she never does because she is scared that the boyfriend may kill himself (happened once, different problem though). So she likes the guy but doesn't know if he likes her because he is very secretive. What do you think this is, is she falling for the guy and betraying the love of the boyfriend? or is it just a phase that she is going through? Is it ok for her to have this feelings?!?! please help my friend is desperate because she doesn't know what she will do tomorrow at school when he sees him and the boyfriend is starting to get suspicious and worried.


It could be that her feelings for her boyfriend has changed, meaning she doesn't love him anymore, which means she should move on.
A relationship doesn't work well if it's just one sided. It actually kinda sucks, especially if your the one that doesn't like the person.
It could be that her guy friend has something that her boyfriend doesn't have and she wants that in a boyfriend as well.
She should try to figure out how much she loves her boyfriend.
She should probably tell him the truth that she doesn't know if she loves him that much anymore.
I mean i've liked more then one guy before, but ever since i started dating Luke, i kept those feelings back.
So i don't really know how to help.
Sorry. I hope what i told you helped a little. =[
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ButterflyRomance wrote:


summer_boredom_75 wrote:

My friend has a problem.... she has a (they are madly in love)boyfriend who is very sweet and nice, but he tends to be a pussy.... they have been together for more than a year but now she is starting to like this other guy friend because they have been close and she has thought about doing naughty things with him even though she never does because she is scared that the boyfriend may kill himself (happened once, different problem though). So she likes the guy but doesn't know if he likes her because he is very secretive. What do you think this is, is she falling for the guy and betraying the love of the boyfriend? or is it just a phase that she is going through? Is it ok for her to have this feelings?!?! please help my friend is desperate because she doesn't know what she will do tomorrow at school when he sees him and the boyfriend is starting to get suspicious and worried.


It could be that her feelings for her boyfriend has changed, meaning she doesn't love him anymore, which means she should move on.
A relationship doesn't work well if it's just one sided. It actually kinda sucks, especially if your the one that doesn't like the person.
It could be that her guy friend has something that her boyfriend doesn't have and she wants that in a boyfriend as well.
She should try to figure out how much she loves her boyfriend.
She should probably tell him the truth that she doesn't know if she loves him that much anymore.
I mean i've liked more then one guy before, but ever since i started dating Luke, i kept those feelings back.
So i don't really know how to help.
Sorry. I hope what i told you helped a little. =[


thnk you very much i guess ill tell her... ^_^
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Yes i know, this is weird.
Now i need someone elses help.
Ok my boyfriend and I broke up.
and i've started talking to one of my best friends (it's a guy), well i always talk to him, but we talk more and more now...about certain things.
and i used to have a crush on him and he used to have a crush on me, but i ened up telling him on the day he got a new girlfriend >.<
well i think i'm starting to like him again, but he's taken by someone else now. >.<
i know i should just forget about these feelings, especially since i want my ex back soo badly
But right now he's giving me mixed signals.
So what do you think i should do?
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