being with someone u love VS being with someone who loves you...

I'll rather be with the person I love ( but i dont wanna be with him if he never gunna love me) than with someone who love me but I don't love them back. XD ... Love this Drama

its hard tuh answer!!!

man thats a tough one, well even if i love the person if that person dont love me then i rather go with someone who loves me and eventually fall for them

im not part of this group but i found it realy interesting reading all your responces. in my opinion there is no right or wrong choice you take a chance either way. ive personaly been on both sides of the fence an from my experience i would say that i will not settle for less then what i want . but you have to be able to love yourself b4 you can ever love somebody else .

well obviously, u're already hurting the person who loves u for not loving him and if i'u'llsettle down with him, then u'll be only hurting him more...u'll just hurting that person. if the one u love can't love u in return it's painful right? do u want someone who cares for u feel the same way too? i think the best way not to hurt that person is to let time heals everything; someday he'll let u go and find someone destin for him, and u...u dont have to hold on to someone who can never love u...someone will come into ur life and love u back...people must know when to hold on and to let go...
but then again, in life, u just cant avoid hurting ur self and those around u, everyone must feel pain so they'll get stronger right?

to let go of someone is not as easy as letting go of a balloon in the sky, in Xiang qin's case, what if Zhi Shu will never fall for her, what will happen? honestly speaking, she'll be the most idiotic person in the world if she'll devote the rest of her life loving Zhi Shu who will never love her...one must learn to let go...it's not right to force someone to love u or to force urself to love someone who loves u! after u let go of the one u love, it's only natural to feel all kinds of miseries and pain(sometimes, to the point of thinking of committing suicide), but if one overcomes all of these, slowly, wounds will all be healed: and that's the only time, one can open her heart and love again.
haha i dont want to hurt the one who loves me, and i dont want to force my loveone to love me either...so i'll just wait till time heals everything...
honestly, i'm broken-hearted myself xD!!! i suffered one sided-love, and there's a person like ah jin in my life, and since i cant love him coz i still love my first love and i dont want to hurt him more, i let time handle its course and now, he's happy being with his gf(Like Christine)...i can relate to this drama and topic coz my story is a bit related to this one!!!
And after my first one-sided love story, i fell inlove again and at that time, what do u know!!! he loved me back...but...haha in the sudden twist of fate, his ex-gf got preggy and he's the father!!! and for the sake of an innocent life, i let him go and i didn't even attend his wedding xD...i guess i just have no luck inlove...but it's ok who knows? maybe after i'll get over this one, i might find the right one for me...haiz...another one-sided love affair-sigh-
anyway!!! Thx for opening this topic...it seems that everyone can relate to the topic!!!^^

i will say~~~the person i love~~because sure time can change thing but i need to mend it myself it selffish to sick with someone to forget someone esle, cause i believe both will be unhappy. so it time that are needed. if the person u love does not love u the best thing to do id forget~~

For me, I'd rather settle with loving somebody who doesn't love me back. I mean .. I love him with or without anything on return. You love a person not because he loves you back but because you found something in him that caught your heart. It may sound cheesy but true. This is why there's a term called one-sided love. Plus, if I settle with the one who loves me and the feeling is not mutual, I'll just hurt him in the end. So yeah .. I'll with the one I truly love. (:

for me, I'll choose the one that i love. i'll give him my 100% love and care.. even if he doesn't treat me well, i will still show him what kind of girl i am. and i also believe that loving someone is not expecting anything in return. you just love that person because he or she makes you feel something that you can't feel with somebody else. the feeling that you like when you see that person and thus, makes you smile though you're in hard times.
i don't agree when you choose the person that loves you just because you don't want to be hurt. it is just being selfish and you will end up hurting that person. how sad..