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is it justified for a social outcast to pay a prostitute to lose their virginity
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That guys only mistake was admitting it was a prostitute, he would have been A-O-K if he had just lied and said it was a one night stand. Then he could get high-fives from all the guys if he pretended he had her number and deliberately wasn't going to phone her after all. What he did was justified because everybody was willing to tell him its something important without being willing to do him.
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Sognidolci wrote:


J1nn wrote:


ok 1
it does matter if ur a girl or boy, because male social structures, heirachy system and interaction are toooootally different from a females ... as is how their minds work

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scenario ... im assuming yours was nothing like ours, and you're forming an opinion based on your growing up and enviroment and both just cant be compared

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forcing opinions like that is only feul for flame so please keep a respectable tone


It does not matter, he still fell into peer pressure and some of the other guys here are saying that too. Different environment or not, a lot of people my age have gotten into a situation where they want to prove they're so hardcore and grown-up by losing their virginity by any means necessary. I knew a kid whose goal was to lose his virginity before or on his birthday by any means. And for fuck's sake this isn't AIM, this is a public forum. Take the time and try to type correctly, because I can barely understand you or take you seriously.


well first of all, situation DOES matter ... you talking like that is sure sign that you really never could understand, so im ending our little convo here and now ... and as for correct spelling, i'll use that when its needed
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Posted 7/31/08

J1nn wrote:


Sognidolci wrote:


J1nn wrote:


ok 1
it does matter if ur a girl or boy, because male social structures, heirachy system and interaction are toooootally different from a females ... as is how their minds work

2
scenario ... im assuming yours was nothing like ours, and you're forming an opinion based on your growing up and enviroment and both just cant be compared

3
forcing opinions like that is only feul for flame so please keep a respectable tone


It does not matter, he still fell into peer pressure and some of the other guys here are saying that too. Different environment or not, a lot of people my age have gotten into a situation where they want to prove they're so hardcore and grown-up by losing their virginity by any means necessary. I knew a kid whose goal was to lose his virginity before or on his birthday by any means. And for fuck's sake this isn't AIM, this is a public forum. Take the time and try to type correctly, because I can barely understand you or take you seriously.


well first of all, situation DOES matter ... you talking like that is sure sign that you really never could understand, so im ending our little convo here and now ... and as for correct spelling, i'll use that when its needed


The other guys would agree with me that he gave into peer pressure and is pathetic for allowing people to do that to him. Fuck social structures and the gender gaps here, all that matters here is that he allowed himself to be used and is now probably regretting his decision for being a dumbass.
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For me, it's not that he went to a hooker at all. That's a whole different discussion. It's as simple as this: How does bowing down to pressure (and doing whatever, drugs, hooker, crime) prove that you're not a wuss? It doesn't. It proves exactly the opposite. Because you folded under pressure and went against your own will.

The ones that would condem you for not bowing down, are the ones that have the extremely skiewed view of civilization and societal obligations. So yeah, they might target you for harrassment and even violence, but always know, that they are the ones that are wrong.

Again, it's a matter of dying on your feet, or living on your knees.
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The guy's a wuss, simple as that. He made a potentially life changing decision based on peer pressure. I live in a pretty rough neighborhood too, and yeah, it's tough to be a guy. I've had to fight off gang members that were trying to extort money from me, just as I've had to fight off girls that were looking for a good time. One I didn't want to provide.

You know what? Sometimes standing up for yourself is worth getting your ass kicked or being ridiculed. I know that's not a very popular idea these days, but it's true. At least for me, it is.

Wow. Does he think this attribute of being scared and easily pushed around is going to make him any MORE popular with the ladies?



dunno where you came from but sounds sweet ... in london a beatdown isnt abeat down unless you get a chelsea smile (stomp the back of your head to the floor to bust up your teeth) a chelsea grinn (slice open ur chin to leave a smile scar) or just fucking stabbed up

if it was just a beating every nerd or little pussy would probably revolt sooner or later


A stomp to the back of the head here, is attempted murder and rightly so. Still, it must be nice not having to worry about getting shot.
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Posted 7/31/08

Vividdreamer wrote:


J1nn wrote:


Vividdreamer wrote:

The guy's a wuss, simple as that. He made a potentially life changing decision based on peer pressure. I live in a pretty rough neighborhood too, and yeah, it's tough to be a guy. I've had to fight off gang members that were trying to extort money from me, just as I've had to fight off girls that were looking for a good time. One I didn't want to provide.

You know what? Sometimes standing up for yourself is worth getting your ass kicked or being ridiculed. I know that's not a very popular idea these days, but it's true. At least for me, it is.

Wow. Does he think this attribute of being scared and easily pushed around is going to make him any MORE popular with the ladies?



dunno where you came from but sounds sweet ... in london a beatdown isnt abeat down unless you get a chelsea smile (stomp the back of your head to the floor to bust up your teeth) a chelsea grinn (slice open ur chin to leave a smile scar) or just fucking stabbed up

if it was just a beating every nerd or little pussy would probably revolt sooner or later


A stomp to the back of the head here, is attempted murder and rightly so. Still, it must be nice not having to worry about getting shot.


lol maybe i dont know ... getting caught with even a bullet will get you 7 years here

everyone just uses knives clubs nunchucks and all that shit

well there's a thin line between attempted murder and ABH lol

plus here in england we say guns are for pussies
Posted 7/31/08 , edited 7/31/08

J1nn wrote:


Vividdreamer wrote:


J1nn wrote:


Vividdreamer wrote:

The guy's a wuss, simple as that. He made a potentially life changing decision based on peer pressure. I live in a pretty rough neighborhood too, and yeah, it's tough to be a guy. I've had to fight off gang members that were trying to extort money from me, just as I've had to fight off girls that were looking for a good time. One I didn't want to provide.

You know what? Sometimes standing up for yourself is worth getting your ass kicked or being ridiculed. I know that's not a very popular idea these days, but it's true. At least for me, it is.

Wow. Does he think this attribute of being scared and easily pushed around is going to make him any MORE popular with the ladies?



dunno where you came from but sounds sweet ... in london a beatdown isnt abeat down unless you get a chelsea smile (stomp the back of your head to the floor to bust up your teeth) a chelsea grinn (slice open ur chin to leave a smile scar) or just fucking stabbed up

if it was just a beating every nerd or little pussy would probably revolt sooner or later


A stomp to the back of the head here, is attempted murder and rightly so. Still, it must be nice not having to worry about getting shot.


lol maybe i dont know ... getting caught with even a bullet will get you 7 years here

everyone just uses knives clubs nunchucks and all that shit

well there's a thin line between attempted murder and ABH lol

plus here in england we say guns are for pussies


Another forum topic gone horribly off track.
Posted 7/31/08
Well. Holden Caulfield almost did it.
Posted 7/31/08
I think its quite pathetic and sad that someone would be pressured into having sex, with a prostitute at 13. But then again some people don't have much confidence to stand up for what they believe in... That applying if he didnt actually want to do it.

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As long as no one else gets hurt, let people live with the consequences of their actions. Did anyone force the person to take that action under threat of physical harm? No. Besides, there are people who are NOT social outcasts "employing" the services of prostitutes, even though they could easily "get some" from way better, more willing people that would give it up freely. (cough cough celebrities, politicians, social figures... cough) Granted, "Mr. Outcast" didn't get the result he wanted. But only has himself to blame. - Now if someone else sold your virginity to a hooker, well... that's a different story.
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Posted 8/4/08
definitely not a good idea.
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i think its pathetic for someone to pay someone to have sex with them. he's showing he has no confidence and i don't feel sorry for him. he should have stood up even if he had all those people making fun of him, its Reality! everyone gets made fun of! Just because some people are making fun of him for being a virgin, its who he is errr.... was! Personally, i think he should have considered how it will affect his future.
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Posted 8/4/08
he's desperate for all the peer pressure he got, and what's worse he made a bad move..

it's a sad fact since nowadays it's branded that by losing virginity at an early age would mean you're hot and sexy, well that's for guys.. some girls prefer to lose it when the right guy comes.
Posted 8/5/08

J1nn wrote:

...around year 8 he told his friend that he payed a soho hooker to lose his virginity (since everyone in the whole school did it by then...


everyone is dat skl did it in year 8?!?! (13 years old?)
Wot a dodgy school eh?
Wot ethnicity was Mark?
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Doesn't really matter these days. People care more about getting it than who they're getting it with.
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