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Ok, its been a while I've been in Crunchyroll and frankly when I was on for the times, I wanted to make a guide on speaking to women and those stuff that actually works, but was too busy with everything at that time, frankly I still wanted to write and well... I'll make it today Now if you girls don't agree to anything I say then give a counter argument which can further this interesting topic at hand.

What I am going to write here, has been discussed and written around the web a whole lot and really lot of pick up artist have the similar advice, its just their personality that's different which makes them unique.

Now first and foremost, before starting anything I talk about, you as a guy need to reprogram yourself and be 100% confident when confronting a girl unless you have that or think you ready for the next part then skip this part.

Chapter 1: Confidence

So what is confidence? whats this so called word that many guys have a problem with? Well, according to dictionary.com the second definition "belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance:". So how do we build that up? some of the things I do for myself is for one thing is "Look into a mirror and say to myself "you looking great today" " it may sound funny but it actually helps a lot. another thing I do is closing my eyes and visualize my cool confident self, the better you picture it, the more your willing to take action and make yourself that real person. And the last one is, never thinking negative of myself even if I made the mistake, or forgotten to do something, its better to tell yourself that its cool, there's a solution to every problem. Its like what my psychology professor said "What your mind can conceive, it can achieve" Which all the methods I spoke of on top does, it gives the mind a way to believe in those words thus creating that character which in this case was a confident self for me that is.

Things to try:
Write the top 5 things about this topic: "Whats the positive aspects of being confident"(just once )
Look into a mirror and give yourself a positive compliment(once everyday)
Close your eyes and visualize yourself being confident(once everyday )
Always keep yourself in a positive nature(Think of positive things)(every minute)


Now the connection to dating or approaching girls:

"Your game is a 10/10 nothing less, nothing more"

The connection is that in order do anything in front of a girl if you think "be yourself works that easily or very effective" well hate to say this but it does not, without the confidence build-up your words or actions would just feel out of place frankly makes the girl uncomfortable.


Attraction 101:

A interesting thing, I watched in internet "Wear the clothing the girls you want to attract, like girls who party, you wear jeans and cool logo shirt."

I for one never knew this, realized that I did dress what girls attract that type of clothing which for one, in high school I used to wear jeans and jean jacket which pretty much attracted girls that like rock bands or punk in those fields. What you wear does matter, now the cost of the clothing doesn't matter, even going to a swap-meet and getting a cool logo shirt works

Chapter 2: Walk the walk, Talk the talk.

When I was growing up, I watched movies of the geek or loser gets the girl and for some reason in myself, I believed that it was like that which being shy or just not interacting would be a so called attraction, but later watching and reading dating guides that it was all false and also the experience in my high school years which gave the fundamentals of reality added having a older brother who was good with women just threw everything in the open. So within the first months of high schools, I gradually grew out of the belief and started to wear what I like and started to act more outspoken in classes and well... I was known and started building this invisible barrier of confidence and gave myself a identity. Now I was able to do this because, I had unprecedented amount of confidence that was built up within me that anyone I talked to, gave a this impression of this guy is cool or very nice person, changed my clothing from baggy pants to jeans and cool shirts, then my mindset was that I am the cool guy in class that is positive with anything I do and not afraid of going 100%. I was friends to the girls in class, and was friendly to the others which gave a nice impression to them by the way, I am not that much social, just liked small talks.

Give a try:

Change your way of clothing to what you want
Speak with confidence and a clear tone
Be more active in activities or go out more( show yourself out there )
Be somewhat a jerk to the girls (will be explained more in detail in the next segment)



How to approach women or girls:


Will be written tom. It will be quite interesting.
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This is very helpful actually O.O.... thanks chuuuu X3 hehehe
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ilovechibi123 wrote:

This is very helpful actually O.O.... thanks chuuuu X3 hehehe


Would you like me to continue writing this, but in a more broad point of view? I will if you ask
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psyopslayerx wrote:


ilovechibi123 wrote:

This is very helpful actually O.O.... thanks chuuuu X3 hehehe


Would you like me to continue writing this, but in a more broad point of view? I will if you ask


Oh would u rly b willing 2 do that? O.O That'd b so awesome O.O but i dnt wanna make u do ne extra work if itd b too much 4 u >.< lol
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