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I'm So Over You
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Posted 3/12/07
Okay, so here something exciting I discovered today. So today is my ex boyfriend's birthday so since he called me on mine I figured that it would only be polite to do the same. So I was totally expecting to get his voicemail because every time I've called in the past that all I have ever gotten (I figured he was like me and screens his calls. I know whenever he calls I let it go to voicemail) but no he had to go and pick up. Not only that but he sounded really happy to hear from me. So we get to talking and stuff and he keeps bringing up the past and how our relationship used to be and stuff. Now let me just say this. He broke my heart into a million different pieces not once, not even twice, but three times (what can I say, I'm a masochist.) So now he tells me that him and his girlfriend just broke up, and he doesn't know what he wants to do with himself...and all this time, all I can think is how I feel bad for him. Here's the kicker though, I realized that if I still loved him I would try to get him back...but I didn't want him back. (Yea for emotional growth!!)

So what's the point...well first I wanted to share my good news with all of you out there in the crunchyroll universe. This is such a great feeling knowing I'm not weighed down by my past anymore that I thought I would share the healing. So I encourage anyone who has a similar story about a time they realized that they were over their former loves to share their experiences and for those of you who are holding on to the memory of lost love...hopefully by reading some of these stories you'll know what you have to look forward to when the time is right.

This is the greatest feeling in the world.
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i experienced something like that a couple of months ago
i had a hard time dealing with the feelings i had towards my ex,
because we wanted to stay friends(i know!)and so
we didnt find a way to comunicate when we saw each
other and ended up arguing about the past 6!years.
but i have a new gfriend and i am very happy,and my ex
moved and now suddenly the last time i saw her
boom!nothing,no feeling,no anger,no nothing.i was
just happy to see a friends face and talk to her.
i dont know,for me its just done,new chapter and
from my side a friendship is even possible now(i know!)
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im glad you have finally moved on from such a thing ^___^

I remember what i felt and when i realized that i had moved on from this crush i had for like 2 years, this was like really recent.
The guy is my ex and we broke up like towards the end of the 9th grade, and well i broke up with him but i still liked him (yea i know, stupid haha) So after that we went off to diferent schools and well i still see him really often cause my group of friends has always been really close so even though were all in diferent schools we see each other at least once a month.
So i had been seeing him even more often than i usually did and one day at a party he said he still liked me but -_- oh surprise after that party he never called. NOT ONCE so of course i was all sad and stuff, but i just recently met an amazing person and i was so confused and unsure of what i felt knowing i liked my ex. I saw him again a few weeks ago and even though he was all nice to me again i said "You know what? I love you as a friend but, i really dont want you as anything else" he was all shocked and got mad at me at first but then he said i was right... and that he was stupid and i deserved better and that he wished i could be happy. (so corny poor thing) and x3 now im dating someone else and ahhh all's good cause now i see him and i couldent care less if he's with anybody (and were still friends so yay)

Im happy for you starcrossed23 knowing you got over somebody is a great feeling! ^^
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I was happy on Valentines day but i didn't know - everything was just a props (damn!) - cos i even shared to the whole crunchyroll world what happened that day. I don't have any clue that he's cheating on me cos i'm not the type of person - who's gonna check and ask or inquire about our daily lives. He's cheating on me all along. We dated on Valentines day and he dated the other girl after he sent me home. Damn! I don't think i can find a decent man these days. Nonetheless, i'm totally moved on and i'm happy meeting new friends. Afterall, he's damn so sorry for doing it to me. We finally had the chance to meet again on a common friend's wedding (geez!). And yeah, the teasing and all that never irritates me. We're still friends but i can see - i'm happier than him. Oh well, i recently met a great guy online (haha!) - come what may. =)
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What have CR became of...
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Hmm. I need to break it to my ex, and this has kinda given me the courage. He calls me every now and then, and hasn't really said that he wants to get back together, but I have a feeling that he's getting around to it. He told me a while after we broke up that he tried cutting and got on Prozac, which really freaked me out, so I know that I don't want to get back together with him now. *shudder* I guess next time he calls I'll just explain to him that I'm not interested in having a relationship and ask him to stop calling me. Thoughts?
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simpleyesa wrote:

I was happy on Valentines day but i didn't know - everything was just a props (damn!) - cos i even shared to the whole crunchyroll world what happened that day. I don't have any clue that he's cheating on me cos i'm not the type of person - who's gonna check and ask or inquire about our daily lives. He's cheating on me all along. We dated on Valentines day and he dated the other girl after he sent me home. Damn! I don't think i can find a decent man these days. Nonetheless, i'm totally moved on and i'm happy meeting new friends. Afterall, he's damn so sorry for doing it to me. We finally had the chance to meet again on a common friend's wedding (geez!). And yeah, the teasing and all that never irritates me. We're still friends but i can see - i'm happier than him. Oh well, i recently met a great guy online (haha!) - come what may. =)


I am just glad you kicked his butt out the door yesa-chan. . .Plus, I didn't read that post at all. . .So I didn't know what happen to you on Valentines day. Ooohh am I mad. . .such a loser. . .to go out with you and then later on went out with the other girl. . .Pm me how you found out. Anyway, I hope that you and THAT fellow here be the bested buds. .. HAhah but remember I am number one, K?
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my ex and i would be considered a "high school couple," like children we were very childish in the relationship and broke each other's hearts w/out thinking about each other's needs we only thought about our own needs, we figured that being friends would be the best solution for the both of us, seeing that we still care for each other, we kept in contact, but when i graduated from high school and entered college, we lost touch and just recently (seriously like last week) i bumped into him and his friend at school...(there was always a part of me that was hung up on him for three years, b/c we became great friends after our romantic relationship in high school, and i always thought that i would never find someone like him...even though i had relationships after him, i still felt this way)...long story short...when i met him again, the first time in three years, NOTHING!, all those feelings of never finding a person like him, of someone who treated me like him, WERE GONE and i realized that i wasn't hung up on him, i was hung up on the idea of having such a great relationship w/ someone, that you are their best friend and their girlfriend.
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^^ Nope, he's just a friend and yes he's amazing - but i don't think things will get serious and all.

Oh well, men are like that PV. You just can't trust them right away cos they're unsatisfied beasts. LOL
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^like females are getting satisfied at all,you can do what you
want,there is always something missing!you go out earning some
money,then you dont have enough time,if you dont do
that you are lazy.you are romantic,caring and everything,
then you are too soft,if you are not soft you are a macho.
you want to see her every day,you cage her,if you dont
you dont care about her,......etc.its insane!!!
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Posted 3/12/07
^ Women can always do risk to give up personal desires for the sake of goddamn 'love' - but for most (if not always), women are left behind - cos most men are uncontented player.

EDIT: that's way toooo much! I bet, you were never fall in-love your entire life cos you can't treat a woman right. tsk tsk tsk
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Posted 3/12/07
U guys are lucky, the only way i can stop thinking about someone i love b4 is focus all my attention on my current love, but i would still think about my past loves, even my first crush from elementary skool like everyday and about how pretty they were and fun
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^^read my post above,and you have no idea how good i can treat a woman!!!
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Posted 3/12/07
^ can't see a single thing that'll make a woman (to) run to you with that. Oh well. If you say so.
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^how old are you?ever been in a long relationship(like more than3 years)!?
how can you say that i never felt in love,with which arguments!?i only said,
that girls are NOT the ones who always hold their interests back.
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