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Post Reply If one of your parents dislike your partner because he/she is not from your race,will you continue dating that person?
Posted 10/29/08
if hes worth it of course i would..... but its a good thing my parents arent racist
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Posted 10/29/08
My parents don't really care what race people are xP
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Posted 10/29/08
I guess I would... but if they're my parents, their wish for my happiness should overcome their racist problems... That's what family's for in the first place...
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Posted 10/29/08 , edited 10/29/08
I wouldnt care Id just date whoever my dad kinda doesnt llike Chinese girls...*baad experiences* but yeah he has to get over that
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Posted 10/29/08
agreed... they dont have to like the guy i do respect my parents but im the one dating him not them (:
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Posted 1/17/09
First off my family is so diverse that we are used to it. Second I wouldn't care as long as my husband loves and respects God, me and himself no one else would matter. I'm the one in the relationship not my mom or whoever.
Posted 1/17/09
i still would...why would they have a say in who i can or cannot love.....i mean it most certainly would make life harder...but if i love him...theri opinion shouldnt matter
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Posted 1/17/09
I does not care since in singapore it's quite normal for interacial marriage.
Posted 1/17/09
ugh my parent will be mad at me because if i date a person that is not "Hmong" like my race, they will tell me to get out of there house or move somewhere far away from whoever i'm dating and thats wrong. cuz of them i even dont have a bf yet! xD oh well. happy to be single and will live until i dont know...i'm old! muahahahaha. j/k xD so yeah.
Posted 1/17/09
My parents ... I dont know. They say they dont care, but if I bring like a black guy home, they would probably freak out.


And if my parents dont like it, eff them . I mean Im the one thats marrying not them. But... compromise with them somehow...
Posted 1/17/09
My parents don't really care about the race of who I go out with to be honest, so I guess that wouldn't happen.


dis_baka wrote:

ugh my parent will be mad at me because if i date a person that is not "Hmong" like my race, they will tell me to get out of there house or move somewhere far away from whoever i'm dating and thats wrong. cuz of them i even dont have a bf yet! xD oh well. happy to be single and will live until i dont know...i'm old! muahahahaha. j/k xD so yeah.


Hmong- where's that? I've never heard of the country.
Posted 1/17/09

mojojojo000 wrote:

My parents don't really care about the race of who I go out with to be honest, so I guess that wouldn't happen.


dis_baka wrote:

ugh my parent will be mad at me because if i date a person that is not "Hmong" like my race, they will tell me to get out of there house or move somewhere far away from whoever i'm dating and thats wrong. cuz of them i even dont have a bf yet! xD oh well. happy to be single and will live until i dont know...i'm old! muahahahaha. j/k xD so yeah.


Hmong- where's that? I've never heard of the country.


haha lucky and OMFG! you serious?! Dx oh wow. >.> okay Hmong means "free" something like that and you could say we "Hmong" people use to live in China but lost to some war cause they hated us and called us "Miao" meaning Barbarian. so now we Hmong people are living in like everywhere..i think...For example: Laos, USA, Thailand....etc...so yeah.
Posted 1/17/09

dis_baka wrote:


mojojojo000 wrote:

My parents don't really care about the race of who I go out with to be honest, so I guess that wouldn't happen.


dis_baka wrote:

ugh my parent will be mad at me because if i date a person that is not "Hmong" like my race, they will tell me to get out of there house or move somewhere far away from whoever i'm dating and thats wrong. cuz of them i even dont have a bf yet! xD oh well. happy to be single and will live until i dont know...i'm old! muahahahaha. j/k xD so yeah.


Hmong- where's that? I've never heard of the country.


haha lucky and OMFG! you serious?! Dx oh wow. >.> okay Hmong means "free" something like that and you could say we "Hmong" people use to live in China but lost to some war cause they hated us and called us "Miao" meaning Barbarian. so now we Hmong people are living in like everywhere..i think...For example: Laos, USA, Thailand....etc...so yeah.


I think the reason for parents discouraging of interracial marriage is that I guess a lot of parents seem to be fixed on the idea of "preserving their culture" and there is a fear that, that culture is lost in an interracial marriage.

Thanks for explaining the Hmong thing to me I had no idea such a cultural identity existed I've never met any Hmong people despite their being loads of different SE Asian nationalities at my Uni.
Posted 1/17/09

mojojojo000 wrote:


dis_baka wrote:


mojojojo000 wrote:

My parents don't really care about the race of who I go out with to be honest, so I guess that wouldn't happen.


dis_baka wrote:

ugh my parent will be mad at me because if i date a person that is not "Hmong" like my race, they will tell me to get out of there house or move somewhere far away from whoever i'm dating and thats wrong. cuz of them i even dont have a bf yet! xD oh well. happy to be single and will live until i dont know...i'm old! muahahahaha. j/k xD so yeah.


Hmong- where's that? I've never heard of the country.


haha lucky and OMFG! you serious?! Dx oh wow. >.> okay Hmong means "free" something like that and you could say we "Hmong" people use to live in China but lost to some war cause they hated us and called us "Miao" meaning Barbarian. so now we Hmong people are living in like everywhere..i think...For example: Laos, USA, Thailand....etc...so yeah.


I think the reason for parents discouraging of interracial marriage is that I guess a lot of parents seem to be fixed on the idea of "preserving their culture" and there is a fear that, that culture is lost in an interracial marriage.

Thanks for explaining the Hmong thing to me I had no idea such a cultural identity existed I've never met any Hmong people despite their being loads of different SE Asian nationalities at my Uni.


haha thats true! i agree. xD

and no problem but it sad cuz not alot of people dont know that "Hmong" exist in this world! and yes! we Hmong are asian too! xD so blah blah blah....>.>
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Posted 1/17/09 , edited 1/17/09
My mom is very open-minded so, she don't care about race. I can care less on what my dad have to say. But if he comes in my face with that "only date black guys" speech, I'll tell him that I'm grown and he has no right to tell me what to do.
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