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Post Reply If one of your parents dislike your partner because he/she is not from your race,will you continue dating that person?
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You've got a ways to go, especially if you're really 15. My kids aren't allowed to date until they are 18. My oldest turns 18 this year. I don't care who he marries as long as she is decent, kind hearted, respectful, considerate, and is willing to give me lots of grandchildren and let me spoil her as if she was my own daughter.

My parents weren't good people either, they were/are immature and racist, but would "tolerate" at a bare minimum any race but blacks, even though we have some African ancestry and black relatives......like that makes sense....not. Anyway, of course my parents like/prefer our (my siblings & my) spouses according to their race. #1 is white, #2 is mine/Asian, #3 is black Puerto Rican. If my parents had their way, we'd have all married whites. I just married whom I was in love with. I didn't even think about race until I was subjected to his mom's racism.

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Hell yes I would! I'm colorblind!

My parents don't care, but my stepdad's attitudes would get him welcomed with open arms into the Klan.
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my parents would never dislike any girl i would date but if they did i would continue dating them.
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boricua24 wrote:

I know that my mom disapprove of me dating non-chinese but for some reason I am attracted to non-asians.I used to consider her feelings.Later I realized that I am the one who is dating that person not her.If she don't like,then too bad because I have my own life.So what do you guys think?


i agree on many places in time those types of things have happened and the parents just had to deal with it, so your mother just needs to deal with the fact your with a girl who is not chinese
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I'm glad my parents are not racist.
They are very tolerant of religion as well...
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My boyfriend isnt the same ethnicity as me and my mum is fine with it, even if she wasnt okay with it I'd still date him.
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I don't think my parents would care....they would definitely be excited for me no matter who I date.
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yes. I would keep dating her while trying to convince my parents that what they are doing is wrong
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I would continue yes, but my parent's wouldn't care.

Unfortunately for me, I wasn't so lucky. *shrug*
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My parents wouldn't care about it, but I guess I'd keep dating. It depends though, I mean, if I have to choose between my parents or my partner... if my parents actually were to say that I had to choose, that would be stupid of them (and they would never, ever do that). But if they did, I guess it depends on how in love I am with my partner. If it's just like a crush I guess I'd stick with my parents but if it's like I love my partner more than my parents I'd choose my partner... oh well none of that would happen so. :3
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They would mind at first but then probably come round to the idea!^^ In todays society this still shouldn't go on but it does?
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Yes. It doesn't matter what parents say. Love is love. You can't tell your heart who to love. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.
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yep... then when I get grandchildren.. I'd keep them away from my parents.... sorry kids you only have one set of grand parents
Posted 1/15/13
i would still date them, its not my parents decision, its mine :/
Posted 1/15/13
but also note, most parents want you to date someone of the same race. this is sometimes coz they actualy want to be able to talk with them, especially if english isnt their first language.
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