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Post Reply If one of your parents dislike your partner because he/she is not from your race,will you continue dating that person?
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Posted 1/15/13 , edited 1/15/13
I wouldn't care. I will always do things that makes me happy.
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24 / M / Portland, Oregon
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If you love someone, don't let someone else tell you how to live. You can still show people respect, but at the same time those people need to respect how you feel.

But I've been with white, mexican, black, and asian girls... never once have I had a problem with my Mom caring. And I don't know my Dad haha. So I've never truly been put in the situation.
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So far in my 18 years on this earth, not once did my parents talk to me about dating or who I liked.

They probably wouldn't care about the race of the guy I'm dating. If they did, I would still date him anyway. Mostly because my dad is far away and he can't do anything about it.

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Posted 1/15/13

-Vega- wrote:

I wouldn't care. I will always do things that makes me happy.


Agreed.
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Yes, because you shouldn't judge a person just because they're from another ethnic group or religion. Also because you should be the one to chose your partner and not somebody else, even if they're your parents.
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23 / M / Finland
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I remember being around 17 or 18 when my mom once just told me that if she ever has anything against anyone I date, I better be sure not to care what she thinks about my relationship.
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22 / M / SoCal
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I don't have this problem. My parents are pretty chill and wouldn't care about her race. They would care about who she is as a person, and with how my mother is she would have no problem telling me.
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30 / M / "Spaaaaace!"
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Posted 6/1/13

boricua24 wrote:

I know that my mom disapprove of me dating non-chinese but for some reason I am attracted to non-asians.I used to consider her feelings.Later I realized that I am the one who is dating that person not her.If she don't like,then too bad because I have my own life.So what do you guys think?


That's just your body telling you it doesn't want you having children that look like this >>



Genetic diversity is a good thing. Tell your parents you want strong, healthy children. if they still think dating people outside your own ethnicity is unacceptable..

show them this picture. >>
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18 / M / Texas
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My girlfriend is Mexican. My mom doesn't really like the fact that I'm dating her, even though we have a small percentage of Mexican in us... She prefers me dating black chicks. But tbh they're a bit too much for me. e.e
If you love someone that isn't part of your race, well, it can't really be helped. They make ya happy, so just do your thing.
Don't let anyone tell you that you can't be with that certain someone just because of something like race. It's your life, your emotions, and your decisions.
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Depends on how much I like that person and how much I value my relationship with that parent.

I'd probably end up saying, "Fuck you!" though, knowing me.
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I'ts not a situation that i have been in but i would like to think so. Good job for following you own beliefs instead of you parents. As children,we have no code of morals, ethics, or beliefs of our own. We learn them later. So as an adult, make your own and follow them.
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I see no rason to go all counter-culture on ones parents just because you don't like their values, but you should follow your mind and heart as long as they lead you to the right place.
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20 / M / Vancouver Island...
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It seems this is a big issue with the "other" parents ie asian or east indian. I guess white people don't care as much. But I do understand where the parents are coming from. I mean for 1 thing they know that their grandkids won't be speaking their language and so on. Just my opinion
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18 / M / Pennsylvania
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Posted 6/1/13 , edited 6/1/13
Yes. if it is the person that i love, i wouldn't let my parents intervene i'm fine with other races..
My parents are also pretty chill^^;
Posted 6/1/13

boricua24 wrote:
... but for some reason I am attracted to non-asians.


By that you mean white guys.

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