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Should cousins be lovers?
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Posted 3/16/07
well you should take into account whether or not they're first cousins or not. after all, you can be cousins and still not be blood related.
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I have first hand experience here. About 7-8 years ago I lived in Georgia with some family I'd never met before. It was a very small town and I had no idea how much family I had there. So I started dating this girl and everything was cool for a few months. Until I found out that somewhere WAY up the family tree, she was related to me (not by blood). So I confronted her and she knew it the whole time! WTF? So I had to end it. In the following weeks she kept coming over telling me how it was okay and how she loved me and everything. But it was just too odd for me so I couldn't get back with her.

Now, I have a few really good childhood friends and I honestly see them as sisters. I don't even think I could get turned on by them. Well, maybe one of them (she turned out pretty hot).
Posted 3/16/07
I don't really agree with cousins marrying cousins.
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Posted 3/16/07

killar wrote:

I have first hand experience here. About 7-8 years ago I lived in Georgia with some family I'd never met before. It was a very small town and I had no idea how much family I had there. So I started dating this girl and everything was cool for a few months. Until I found out that somewhere WAY up the family tree, she was related to me (not by blood). So I confronted her and she knew it the whole time! WTF? So I had to end it. In the following weeks she kept coming over telling me how it was okay and how she loved me and everything. But it was just too odd for me so I couldn't get back with her.

Now, I have a few really good childhood friends and I honestly see them as sisters. I don't even think I could get turned on by them. Well, maybe one of them (she turned out pretty hot).


COOL, thats some first hand experience there...

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Posted 3/16/07

killar wrote:

I have first hand experience here. About 7-8 years ago I lived in Georgia with some family I'd never met before. It was a very small town and I had no idea how much family I had there. So I started dating this girl and everything was cool for a few months. Until I found out that somewhere WAY up the family tree, she was related to me (not by blood). So I confronted her and she knew it the whole time! WTF? So I had to end it. In the following weeks she kept coming over telling me how it was okay and how she loved me and everything. But it was just too odd for me so I couldn't get back with her.

Now, I have a few really good childhood friends and I honestly see them as sisters. I don't even think I could get turned on by them. Well, maybe one of them (she turned out pretty hot).


Did you get turned on by the hot one!? Just kidding!
Anyway, that cousin loves cousin stuff...I don't know what to think of it. Picture me dating my cousin, that would be pretty weird! Don't you think? But you know as they say: "You can't force Love!!" If you love her/him, then you love her/him you can't help it!
**That's the law of the Mother-Nature!**

But then again Childhood friend....that's a whole different story!! I don't get it why is that so big deal! Even I had a girl from my childhood who I liked a lot! I am totally Ok with that too!
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This is a very controversial topic and as such it should be looked at in more than one way. Personally, I don't care what other people do as long as it doesn't conflict with anyone else's lives. Basically I agree with the philosophy that everyone is free to do whatever they want in life, so long as it doesn't affect other people's freedom. If two people are in love it shouldn't matter what kind of relation they have. As long as it is really love and not simply sexual attraction or desperation then let them be since it won't affect anyone else's lives. Personally this is not something that I would do myself as it goes against my moral beliefs, yet even so I will not try to force my beliefs on others. Ignoring the actual relationship the couple would have to acknowledge that, if they are blood related then having a child would be a very bad idea. It doesn't matter how they feel about having a child since this would not only affect them, it would affect the child. If the child were to turn out having some kind of disability it would be very problematic and could cause the child to have a less fulfilling life. This means that if the two in the relationship were to want kids, then adoption or artificial insemination using a non blood - related donor would be the most appropriate solution. In summation the point that I am trying to get across is that, whatever any person wants to do with their life is up to them, and as long as it doesn't affect anyone else’s lives it should be accepted so long as the person is well informed, mentally healthy, and a responsible adult. I would like to say one more time that personally I would not condone this as it does go against my beliefs. Also I will not lie, saying that it does not disgust me to a certain degree, because truthfully it does disgust me to a certain degree. In any case let people do as they want as long as it doesn't affect you.

On the subject of childhood friends, my view is that it is perfectly acceptable and actually quite romantic.
Posted 3/16/07
of course cousins can be lovers! thats only if the both of you like n love each other! haah.. other than that, nah.. but yeah, i've never thought about loving my cousin.. other than loving my cousin as in i family-love them! ahah..
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Posted 3/16/07
Its up to them I probably wouldnt date my cousin. But thats just me.
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28 / M / Toronto
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Posted 3/16/07
I think its allowed for catholic to date/marry their 3rd cousin....thats far enough to be blood related
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I believe it is called incest and is in h-mangas ( some ppl really like it )

I probbaly wouldn't date my cousin but other reltaives..........
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Crunchyrollers have no class
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Posted 3/16/07

drakke125 wrote:

Many of you may have watched anime that involves the main characters being cousins or close childhood friends....wat is ur opinion on this?

^ i don't want to entertain such feeling - if i might accidentally fall for a relative. This thread makes me sick. Damn! Incest is nooot so appealing to me - it's sucks actually. I love all my cousins though. We always date out, drink till we get drunk, cry, laugh, hug esp if one of us is down. It's better to keep that way than something else cos i might just throw up. =)
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Posted 3/16/07
meh don't care much about it, skeet whoever you want to skeet with
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Posted 3/16/07
If they really are blood related...then that would be incest XD. If it's anime or a TV show, I wouldn't mind but I think I'll feel weird if it's reality..dunno..>.>
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been a lover of someone related to you is just wrong
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